What a warm welcome, thank you everyone. I have met quite a few people from the Filipines over the years, I worked in Saudi Arabia and there are many from the Filipines there.
You know, I just want to be happy, and I think I can be with my girlfriend. Marriage is definately on the cards. Charito (my gf's name) is such a sweet beautiful and caring girl, she has a son back home, but I don't mind, I really think we have a future, so any help form you guys will be so great. I will look at the links posted.
I think that my only problem will be that her 'ex' back home is not playing, and holding back her final divorce paperwork, any ideas here?

Thanks again for the welcome, makes me feel like one of the crowd.

Steve