As what I have said on my first thread (introduce yourself) I would like to seek an advice on this matter....

First of all it's not my case nor experience coz I could have said so (as no one knows me anyway). So please refrain from replying about insisting or suggesting that it is my case were in fact it's not.

OK I had friend Mr. N from the Phil, his whole family is already here in the UK. His wife first came here in the UK and after a year he migrated together with their children and be with his wife here in UK. They were all happy but one day Mr. N found out that his wide is having an affair with someone back home (Phil), his wife's co-employee. Mr N couldn't believe it himself what his wife have done to him. Although he claims that sometimes he took his wife for granted which he believes cause his wife to look for a fling. His wife is full of regrets for what she have done to him and she's sorry about and trying now everything to make up for him and for the kids. She even claims that she hurry up to process their visas just to be with them and end up the affair she had which my friend didn't buy coz she is still in contact with the guy ti'll he found out the thing. But, the good news is they were happy now and trying to patch and fix the marriage. My friend had forgiven his wife but my friend had a hard time gettin over it that everytime they had even the slightest misunderstading it burst into a big one cause he always recall the incident.

What advice will I give him to forget it? He's my best frind since high school that's why he opens up this thing to me as we're like brothers,but I felt I am letting him down as I could get a decent advice to give him.

I know his wife really regrets and felt sorry for everything coz it show when I visit them to their house, she became more caring and sweeter to my friend than she use to backhome(Phil).Though she doesn't know that I know something about her love affair. But my friend can't get over it.

Thanks for any advice...