Our first meet was in Train station in Netherlands. I was with my friend Cynthia and her hubby. My friend hide me and I saw hubby looking around and didn't notice me. When he first saw me he grabbed my hands and hold it tight
My friend said: you are so quick holding my friend's hands
Its those Geordies Pen,fast moversOriginally Posted by pennybarry
Our first meet was in Train station in Netherlands. I was with my friend Cynthia and her hubby. My friend hide me and I saw hubby looking around and didn't notice me. When he first saw me he grabbed my hands and hold it tight
My friend said: you are so quick holding my friend's hands
Sometimes you're flush and sometimes you're bust, and when you're up, it's never as good as it seems, and when you're down, you never think you'll be up again. But life goes on.
The beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the figure that she carries, or the way she combs her hair. The beauty of a woman is seen in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart, the place where love resides. True beauty in a woman is reflected in her soul. It's the passion that she shows to the outside world.
Goodluck..hope all goes well when u visit her.. Just hope for the best and expect for the worse!A few days ago while I was on YM with my girlfriend she brutally asked me what I expected over my visit in September and she clearly asked if I expected to be “intimate” with her. I had little time to elaborate and later on sent her an e-mail which I am partly reproducing below:
“I have searched on the Internet to know the Filipinas better and visited discussion forums and also when on FH discussed with Pinays who had already received the visit of a foreign boyfriend and it is my understanding that in a number of cases the western suitor considers that because he has undertaken a long and costly journey he has the right to demand favours or compensations and this is a problem for Pinays, especially those who are still virgins.
I am not that type of man and have never been. I am not just bragging or trying to impress you and show how perfect I am but this is just the plain truth. I have been married and have had relations before and never forced or pressured anyone for sex. I am rather shy and I know my limits and I am careful never to put a woman in an embarrassing situation.
Still I have been thinking about that issue too and since you said that you would start to prepare my visit for mid-July I wanted to advise you that when we both go together to Samal island it would be better that I book two rooms so we both have privacy and considering what we have been discussing I am sure you understand me.
Being intimate is not something we can plan in advance especially when we haven’t seen each other for real yet. We may have different reactions when face to face and another factor that requires consideration is that we both have been deprived of sex for a long time....
I hope I have made my point clear, I am not a sexual predator and even with no chaperone behind you have absolutely nothing to fear from me. I am willing to build a long term relationship and do not want to spoil it by being brutal and demanding. I know you have dignity and self-respect and I will always make sure you are not ashamed of me.”
My girlfriend, whom I have already introduced here under the thread about “age gap” is a wonderful woman and I do not want to mess up a relation which we both want for a lifetime. She liked my letter and said we just needed to follow our inspiration when I would be there. I was just wondering if there was something more I needed to do (or refrain to do..) to make our first encounter a great success. She is a bit conservative and I am not the forward type (yes, a few Frenchmen are like that)...
Thanks for your input! Since my last thread I have had the opportunity to discover her and she is just fantastic!
just a fine point that has not been covered as far as rubbers go they are made smaller in the philippines uk sizes are larger
i must also stress before someone says the smaller ones work for meSO I AM NOT BOASTING
my tip would be for anyone ----be yourself speak openly tell your good lady what you want and what you like i am sure you will not be dissapointed
a filipina is a little different that what we are used to in the uk
Didn't I notice........
Condoms in pinas are very small,statistically pinoys have the worlds smallest penis size,and as I once told a pinoy who gave me the old "Size does not matter" rubbish "You will never get a woman going into a sexual aids shop and asking for a small Rampant Rabbit"just a fine point that has not been covered as far as rubbers go they are made smaller in the philippines uk sizes are larger
i must also stress before someone says the smaller ones work for me
my tip would be for anyone ----be yourself speak openly tell your good lady what you want and what you like i am sure you will not be dissapointed
a filipina is a little different that what we are used to in the uk
Sometimes you're flush and sometimes you're bust, and when you're up, it's never as good as it seems, and when you're down, you never think you'll be up again. But life goes on.
The beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the figure that she carries, or the way she combs her hair. The beauty of a woman is seen in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart, the place where love resides. True beauty in a woman is reflected in her soul. It's the passion that she shows to the outside world.
Thanks for the input. I am sure we'll be fine. By the way yesterday she was in Samal with female friends of hers and I got some photos....
You will be there soon pacific,dont forget your snorkel and mask,also near Samal is a tiny perfect island Talikud,remember the name,its beautiful
Sometimes you're flush and sometimes you're bust, and when you're up, it's never as good as it seems, and when you're down, you never think you'll be up again. But life goes on.
The beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the figure that she carries, or the way she combs her hair. The beauty of a woman is seen in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart, the place where love resides. True beauty in a woman is reflected in her soul. It's the passion that she shows to the outside world.
Sacrebleu, quelle femme...!!!!!!!Thanks for the input. I am sure we'll be fine. By the way yesterday she was in Samal with female friends of hers and I got some photos....
Elle est magnifique une beauté...!!!
Bonne chance, mon ami.
Well..after reading your 1st post, my feeling is that there is a pretty big posibility that you both like each other when you seeing in person; and probably have sex soon.
her bring up about the sex thing is a good indicator thats she is open to talk anything especially in the bedroom, which is good. communication is very important.
do not worry...unless you have problem,,like "sexually disfunction"...thats another story, she need to know about it because "intimate" is a very important in marriage...being closed each other emotionally. I can tell she's a very sexual person, it is also good that you are compatible in that department.
enjoy your time together
Nothing wrong with erectile dysfunction a splint wont fixthe pleasures of the flesh are woefully over-rated(unless its with me)
Sometimes you're flush and sometimes you're bust, and when you're up, it's never as good as it seems, and when you're down, you never think you'll be up again. But life goes on.
The beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the figure that she carries, or the way she combs her hair. The beauty of a woman is seen in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart, the place where love resides. True beauty in a woman is reflected in her soul. It's the passion that she shows to the outside world.
There is nothing wrong with sexually dysfunction ...it is wrong if you try to lead the woman,and only to find out when already married.
And you will end up barely breathing with over 3 life supports, see his avatar???Nothing wrong with erectile dysfunction a splint wont fix
Oh really?????
Enjoy samal,and dont wear stripey grandpa pyjamas like me,they clash with a little off the shoulder black negligee
"10% of life is made up of what happens to you, 90% is decided by how you react"
"The way to love anything is to realize that it may be lost"
Well the funny thing is that she is pretty conservative and has been abstinent for more than a decade but I guess I made her feel comfortable... at least that's what she told me and I trust her! She is a very special lady and I am sure we will live something exceptional!
i was going to say that by the time she meets you she will be horny as hell,thats why she doesnt mind one room??Well the funny thing is that she is pretty conservative and has been abstinent for more than a decade but I guess I made her feel comfortable... at least that's what she told me and I trust her! She is a very special lady and I am sure we will live something exceptional!
oh did i just post that!
i have learnt to do what my wife says!
i was going to say that by the time she meets you she will be horny as hell,thats why she doesnt mind one room??
oh did i just post that!
I have the feeling ,this will be happy ending, just dont fool her, as her age is sensible enough to hold a good relationship, I will bet to that
Pssst... matulog na kayong dalawa
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Sometimes you're flush and sometimes you're bust, and when you're up, it's never as good as it seems, and when you're down, you never think you'll be up again. But life goes on.
The beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the figure that she carries, or the way she combs her hair. The beauty of a woman is seen in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart, the place where love resides. True beauty in a woman is reflected in her soul. It's the passion that she shows to the outside world.
Well i could say I cannot have sex cos I lost my other ball cos of cancer. But she suggested she help me find it.
Apart from the sex people are left with each others conversation and habits.
Correct me if I am wrong.The most important things are how you can live with each others annoying habits. If she leaves the top of the toothpaste and uses all the toilet paper and does not replace it. Those kind of things will really bug you so much depending on your personality. Can you live with her bad habits? I always look at my prospective lovers bathroom and bedroom. Then I have a rough idea of if she is grubby I thinking oh nooooo. I hate that. Dated a few girls who were good looking but not clean at house. Whats up with that? Soap is cheap!
Thats my views Gary,sex isnt everything,and your right,it doesnt last forever
Sometimes you're flush and sometimes you're bust, and when you're up, it's never as good as it seems, and when you're down, you never think you'll be up again. But life goes on.
The beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the figure that she carries, or the way she combs her hair. The beauty of a woman is seen in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart, the place where love resides. True beauty in a woman is reflected in her soul. It's the passion that she shows to the outside world.
I definitely agree
Although for married couples, they can always establish an even better and deeper connection
eventhough they're not really soulmates...however it requires more work from both parties.....
not like the instant connection you get with a soulmate....
"10% of life is made up of what happens to you, 90% is decided by how you react"
"The way to love anything is to realize that it may be lost"
wifes not speaking to me at this moment, got drunk last nite, at her friends B-B-Q, still got hangover.
Did she get mad because you got drunk or for doing something else when you were drunk?????wifes not speaking to me at this moment, got drunk last nite, at her friends B-B-Q, still got hangover.
"10% of life is made up of what happens to you, 90% is decided by how you react"
"The way to love anything is to realize that it may be lost"
Well, i guess you just have to learn to put up with her little quirks - she's learned to put up with yours
"10% of life is made up of what happens to you, 90% is decided by how you react"
"The way to love anything is to realize that it may be lost"
Originally Posted by gary2jessica
The most important things are how you can live with each others annoying habits. If she leaves the top of the toothpaste and uses all the toilet paper and does not replace it. Those kind of things will really bug you so much depending on your personality. Can you live with her bad habits?
In that case, you need a separate bathroom, one for you and one for her.
I think if you don't love the person every little bad thing he/she does annoys you. nope I accuse no one.
Ya i am sure someone loves you cos you moan always. thats an annoying habitIn that case, you need a separate bathroom, one for you and one for her.
I think if you don't love the person every little bad thing he/she does annoys you. nope I accuse no one.
True, that's why it's always best to choose a neat and tidy partner - it certainly makes life easier!
"10% of life is made up of what happens to you, 90% is decided by how you react"
"The way to love anything is to realize that it may be lost"
Drinking is not bad... Don't get me wrong. Some prefers not to bec well that's their choice, they might have a reason..
I agree Sophie, responsible drinking is preferrable
" The people who mean something to your life are not rated "the best" don't have the most money, haven't won the greatest prizes....
They are the ones who care about you, take care of you, those who, no matter what, stay close by... "
TotallyDrinking is not bad... Don't get me wrong. Some prefers not to bec well that's their choice, they might have a reason..
I agree Sophie, responsible drinking is preferrable
After all, too much of everything is bad, everything in moderation, that's the best way to go
"10% of life is made up of what happens to you, 90% is decided by how you react"
"The way to love anything is to realize that it may be lost"
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