Intimate or not intimate...

[Tawi2]

Well,my mum always used to say I was impotent,or was that importantI always get the words confused and mixed up Theres lots of Maria Clara old maids in Pinas,they survive,guys are the same,its not the beginning nor the end of a relationship,being mentally in tune with each other is far more important,as you get older you realise sex isnt what makes the earth move,thats normally a richter-scale measured tremor People chat about it,talk about it,watch it on Movies,but lots of things are far more important in a relationship.

[Sophie]

Well,my mum always used to say I was impotent,or was that importantI always get the words confused and mixed up Theres lots of Maria Clara old maids in Pinas,they survive,guys are the same,its not the beginning nor the end of a relationship,being mentally in tune with each other is far more important,as you get older you realise sex isnt what makes the earth move,thats normally a richter-scale measured tremor People chat about it,talk about it,watch it on Movies,but lots of things are far more important in a relationship.

LOL, I was referring to a relationship when i asked you how you survived since 1974 not s*x
But then again, naturally it follows, lol
I agree though that its the mental and emotional connection you share beyond the physical, that's deeper and stronger.......

[Tawi2]

People can survive without a relationship,its all about being comfortable with yourself,and far too many people jump into a relationship feet-first without testing the depth of the water first,I met quite a number of guys who met someone on line and BANG,they were smitten you need to really,really know someone before committing yourself,you only walk this path once,wouldnt you like to tread it with the right person?I am ultra-cautious,and like I said,no one sees the hand I am holding till I am good and ready But Mr Pacific has his forthcoming holiday,hope all goes well for him

[Sophie]

People can survive without a relationship,its all about being comfortable with yourself,and far too many people jump into a relationship feet-first without testing the depth of the water first,I met quite a number of guys who met someone on line and BANG,they were smitten you need to really,really know someone before committing yourself,you only walk this path once,wouldnt you like to tread it with the right person?I am ultra-cautious,and like I said,no one sees the hand I am holding till I am good and ready But Mr Pacific has his forthcoming holiday,hope all goes well for him

That's always the best way to go, you are definitely on the right track tawi2
As for mr pacific, all the best on his upcoming reunion with his gf

[trader dave]

how did tawi survive? i would say how did he escape i know what it a dam sight cheaper on your own and a man does not have to kiss the hand goodnight

[Tawi2]

Dave,I think you and I have trodden the same sort of path at times in some rather interesting places,if your single theres no conscience,your a free agent,though I have to agree all that has to stop if you ever want to live a life society considers normal,thats when the chains go on

[aposhark]

.......as you get older you realise sex isnt what makes the earth move,thats normally a richter-scale measured tremor People chat about it,talk about it,watch it on Movies,but lots of things are far more important in a relationship.

Hi Tawi2

I agree with most of what you typed, but I also think that sex (or, more to the point, the lack of it) can be very devastating in a relationship if one needs more than the other.
Lack of intimacy in the bedroom with your partner leads to more divorces and other problems than anything else IMO.
I just think that we should all be as honest and open with our sexual and emotional needs with our wife, husband or gf/bf and hopefully we can keep a marriage/relationship healthy.

Honesty is the best policy.....