Thats my views Gary,sex isnt everything,and your right,it doesnt last forever a person has to be nice to live with,you both have to bend and flex,adapt to each others little quirks and foibles,an older person is more set in their ways,but no one has sex 24/7 so it doesnt play the dominant role in most relationships,actually being soul mates is more important,to me anyway,others have different views,but sleeping with a stunning woman loses its allure after her character emerges and you find your not compatible.