Fitz,no ones laughing at you,and you have self worth,come on geezer,dont say its all your good for,thats because your feeling down at the minute k?Thats why I said,dont make rash decisions,your not thinking rationally at the moment,people never do when they are angered or hurt,things will look totally different in a few weeks mate,have a cuppa,relax,if the lady really has cheated on you its better you found out this early than later on down the road,things always have a habit of working themselves out,but dont feel sorry for yourself mate,thats negative,concentrate on your positives k?