I totally agree with you sisOriginally Posted by Jay&Zobel
What I meant was if it was really RONI and she really did cheat on Fitzy and was found out by the latter then, she failed miserably BIG TIME!
Meaning she can't scam no more... (no more future remittances, future gifts, etc etc...)
But if Fitzy has got a back up plan (Mary Jane) then that's another story...
"10% of life is made up of what happens to you, 90% is decided by how you react"
"The way to love anything is to realize that it may be lost"
You know what guys.
I feel that you are all like my family here now, have not slept for 15 hours, is not easy to cheer up, i said terrible things to Roni, txt her family with accusations, but on the strength of it all we have had a very turbulent year, thousands spent on her, and her family, and i just lent her sis 400 quid
I think i am going soft, and the one girl who truly loves me wants me to see her in Manila in august.
She is a sweet sweet girl who never asks me for money.
I think I shd wake up, coz as they say, love is blind right?
She is a bad girl really, always taking from me! (roni)
To be honest, am kinda at more peach now, coz she pushed me away to the arms of someone who truly loves me, and I just didn't see it!
Thank you all so much for being there for me, I mean it from the bottom of my heart
I thought you love her very much and now you have new one.
If you really have been scammed, that is quick to make a rush decision Fitzy
We learn from our mistakes and I wish you're on the right track
No MJ was not lined up ok!
Go right ahead, laugh at my expense, is all i'm good for anyway
Satellite/Cable TV/Radiocommunications specialist.
Fitz,no ones laughing at you,and you have self worth,come on geezer,dont say its all your good for,thats because your feeling down at the minute k?Thats why I said,dont make rash decisions,your not thinking rationally at the moment,people never do when they are angered or hurt,things will look totally different in a few weeks mate,have a cuppa,relax,if the lady really has cheated on you its better you found out this early than later on down the road,things always have a habit of working themselves out,but dont feel sorry for yourself mate,thats negative,concentrate on your positives k?
Sometimes you're flush and sometimes you're bust, and when you're up, it's never as good as it seems, and when you're down, you never think you'll be up again. But life goes on.
The beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the figure that she carries, or the way she combs her hair. The beauty of a woman is seen in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart, the place where love resides. True beauty in a woman is reflected in her soul. It's the passion that she shows to the outside world.
We're not laughing Fitzy - just confused.
same here fitz
"10% of life is made up of what happens to you, 90% is decided by how you react"
"The way to love anything is to realize that it may be lost"
Sorry, am hurting
One thing tho, i checked my Lebara call records, and there is a 119 min call at 12 quid to Roni, the same time as the sex call!!!!!!!
No way was i on the phone that time
Satellite/Cable TV/Radiocommunications specialist.
Thats cool Fitz,we all handle pain in a different way,my natural reaction to pain is intense anger,yours might be to retreat inside yourself,everyone is different mate,just relax a little.
Sometimes you're flush and sometimes you're bust, and when you're up, it's never as good as it seems, and when you're down, you never think you'll be up again. But life goes on.
The beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the figure that she carries, or the way she combs her hair. The beauty of a woman is seen in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart, the place where love resides. True beauty in a woman is reflected in her soul. It's the passion that she shows to the outside world.
Thank u all so so much.
U r all nice ppl, and she is here in skype now, with the baby, and all the other stuff I just feel different abt her now.
MJ is so so so very sweet compared to her
Satellite/Cable TV/Radiocommunications specialist.
So see, there might be actually something else wrong...
Don't jump into hasty conclusions Phill and try to clear the air first
Jiri & Maricel
I'm sure you will heal in time fitz, just let nature take its own course.....
And never rush into a new relationship until you are completely healed.....
After all, its not also fair to the new girl if you are still on the rebound thing......
"10% of life is made up of what happens to you, 90% is decided by how you react"
"The way to love anything is to realize that it may be lost"
But of course she is fitz, as she is trying to steal you away from someone else, lol just trying to make you laugh here fitz, cheer up
"10% of life is made up of what happens to you, 90% is decided by how you react"
"The way to love anything is to realize that it may be lost"
Sorry to hear about the news fitzy..
But i am really really confused, how fast u turned to i love roni into i love mary jane???
It's good to have money and the things that money can buy, but it's good to check up once in a while to make sure you haven't lost the things that money can't buy.
Hmm, gone out for 2 hours and you dont have picture in avatar now, so I bet that was Roni, too bad for Roni
Well, she cd have done right by me, but didn't, is life
I need to think of me for once!
Satellite/Cable TV/Radiocommunications specialist.
Look at it philosophically Fitz,her loss not yours,you lavished gifts on her,were going to marry her now she has zip,nixy,nada,nowt,nothing,you can move on and meet someone who wants you for you
Sometimes you're flush and sometimes you're bust, and when you're up, it's never as good as it seems, and when you're down, you never think you'll be up again. But life goes on.
The beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the figure that she carries, or the way she combs her hair. The beauty of a woman is seen in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart, the place where love resides. True beauty in a woman is reflected in her soul. It's the passion that she shows to the outside world.
What if that is not Roni, as what Maria_Matt encountered when she used that type of Lebara call, isnt unfairLook at it philosophically Fitz,her loss not yours,you lavished gifts on her,were going to marry her now she has zip,nixy,nada,nowt,nothing,you can move on and meet someone who wants you for you
Ok if someone qoute me, what if Roni done that ?
Well give her chance to explain, not change new woman as quick as that,
sometimes man find that woman already in losing end w/o asking or having further investigation, he find that easy to damp her out coz man already find new one,
But as what I have said Fitzy, we are here for you, no matter Roni or MJ (sounds my name)
you choose for.
Hi guys.
Just got off the phone with Lebara.
This so called call i made to Roni was exactly at 12:55 yesterday when I heard ppl, well i wont mention it again!
Roni joined me in Skype at her home 13:35
Hmmmm, 40 mins to do the dirty, and get home, have the laptop ready, and online!!!
40 mins!!! since i called, heard this, and then she is online to me!!
I cd understand wonder woman being able to do that lol
The next call i made after the nasty thing i heard like i said was a guy who muttered, and hung up!
All my Lebara call records match up, but the time duration of the first call was 119 mins so it indicated(sex call) and the next call indicates a time seperation of get this !!! 104 mins!!!!!
Some spammer out there is yanking my chain, and all but destroyed us, so poor Roni was blamed for no reason at all.
You guys were right, i need to calm down, look at the calls, and do my job!!
Engineer in radio telecomms, so I should know better
Lebara have been excellent in their support, being that the call was hijacked, and rerouted in the philippines by the sound of it.
They are investigating, and suggested that I get the police involved!
There have been a great many tears today, and I need to repair some of the damage I have caused due to my insecurities, and stupidity.
Poor Roni, ain't done nothing wrong!!
I feel 1 inch tall right now
Satellite/Cable TV/Radiocommunications specialist.
GOOD FOR YOU FITZ
So what happens to maryjane now? lol, just kidding fitz
Need to do some damage control now fitz and make up your mind.....
"10% of life is made up of what happens to you, 90% is decided by how you react"
"The way to love anything is to realize that it may be lost"
Oh! Thanks God, your enlighten pheww, so hows maryjane now? Still in the list?and all but destroyed us, so poor Roni was blamed for no reason at all.
You guys were right, i need to calm down, look at the calls, and do my job!!
Engineer in radio telecomms, so I should know better
There have been a great many tears today, and I need to repair some of the damage I have caused due to my insecurities, and stupidity.
Poor Roni, ain't done nothing wrong!!
But I am more on Roni side as you been in touch with her for ages, although money wasnt the issue here, but I think she deserve apology
I am happy for you, for sorting this out
just goes to show before you post in this forum and get mad at her,find out the truth first!
we can only go on what you post and it seemed you was mad and upset and very quick to get maryjane in your life?
try to sort out one problem before you move onto the next,you see your gf was completely innocent of doing any wrong doing and i hope your going to make it up to her!!!!!!!!!!!
i have learnt to do what my wife says!
Hi Fitzy,
I am glad you were able to sort things out but I think you have humilated Roni publicly...
You have spilt all the beans re: her family situations, sex, money etc etc...
You have also mentioned that there's another girl that you are thinking of visiting in August...
If I was Roni, I will surely get hurt & dump you forever. Not only because you humilated her but also you jumped into conclusions without investigating it first... Long Distance relationships are pretty hard and you know that! You should have been very careful.
You, Roni & Mary Jane are the victims in this kind of situation...
And now, what will happen to this Mary Jane? Will you still continue talking to her while you are with ronii? Or dump her because you know the girl on the phone wasn't Roni?
I am deeply sorry for what happened. I hope you will be able to control your anger, your feelings next time...
thanks GOD Fitzy's problem is solves, so you gonna dispatch maryjane now?
all things are possible!
So are you gonna put back your avatar with Roni now, that she's being found not guilty
I think murder is a bit strong......
Keith - Administrator
im guilty bossing
maybe she meant "dispatch" her to afghanistan
"10% of life is made up of what happens to you, 90% is decided by how you react"
"The way to love anything is to realize that it may be lost"
that's another problem of Fitzy he promised already to maryjane to meet her in august huhu
If I am Roni, I will give you 2nd chance as I am forgiving person
You said she betrays you but the truth is you did mush worst. But then the thing of the past is past. Learn from your mistakes.
I wish everything will be fine in the end.
Very glad you've got it sorted, Phil,
it is always better to make judgements with colder (if not cool) head than in white rage
But it is easier said than done, I can imagine how you've felt after those messed-up calls.
And you're not alone - do you remember Sims thread (http://filipinaroses.com/showthread.php?t=13852) ??? He's been in very similar situation and where is he now....
Misunderstandings are silent killers if they aren't explained properly but when you get over it as a result it can make your relationship even stronger.
Good luck and heads up
Jiri & Maricel
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