Disaster!! Lebara calls??? Cheating GF??

[Fitzy]

Well, after all the good news two pieces of bad news :-(

Firstly, there is no baby, she said it was a false alarm!

Now get this!!!

I called her yesterday, the phone answered, and I cd plainly hear her moaning having sex!!
I called again, the guy I heard doing it to her said something in Filipino, and hung d call.

All these calls from my phone book!

Is a remote possibility my Lebara SIM directed to a wrong number, but it sure sounded like Roni.

Does anyone have a Lebara SIM/problems with numbers being diverted????

I haven't slept yet, and she denies everything, and I just don't know how to carry on with my life now!!


I love her so so very much, and she betrays me.

So sorry to post this, but I have no one to turn to now

[adam&chryss]

Well, after all the good news two pieces of bad news :-(

Firstly, there is no baby, she said it was a false alarm!

Now get this!!!

I called her yesterday, the phone answered, and I cd plainly hear her moaning having sex!!
I called again, the guy I heard doing it to her said something in Filipino, and hung d call.

All these calls from my phone book!

Is a remote possibility my Lebara SIM directed to a wrong number, but it sure sounded like Roni.

Does anyone have a Lebara SIM/problems with numbers being diverted????

I haven't slept yet, and she denies everything, and I just don't know how to carry on with my life now!!


I love her so so very much, and she betrays me.

So sorry to post this, but I have no one to turn to now

sorry to hear about that fitzy...
well, i hope you were just connected to a wrong number.
can't do any help, no lebara SIM here.
i do hope too she's telling the truth.. goodluck!

[Mrs.JMajor]

Sorry to hear that...
Ask her straight forward question If she love you, and besides think about this, if she is having sex with anyone,all of us we wont bother to answer the bloody call, isnt it? we will carry on making sex, so dont let the jealous kill you
Just tell her how you love her, have peace, alright?

[maria_and_matt]

it is possible that you had a crossline..! i rang my mother 3x last week and heard some sort of moaning, i didnt hang up, it was porn! it happened to me 3x fitz, so i am sure as i can be that it was not ur gf having sex with another bloke.talk to her, i know how bad this might all seem but i assure u things like that happens.

[paulgee]

Hi Fitzy, it's been nice reading your recent thread which titled "Am going to be a Daddy". It is just so sad now to hear this news from you. My husband use a Lebara sim card when he calls me. I dont know if there such a thing like that, having diverted to other call or number. Hope you can resolve and clear this things soon.

[Mrs.JMajor]

Hooooo, galing ng mga pinay mag advice

Dear Charo.................

[adam&chryss]

some network companies do this to eat your money...
when i was still in the philippines. there's always this voicemail answering my call for my husband. a guy just saying hello, and then will say 'hold on for a second'. i thought it was my hubby, so i waited till it ate all my load (i was using Globe simcard). i even got mad with my husband

[Fitzy]

Thank you everybody.
Lebara are currently examining my call logs as we speak, and will call me back today.
God knows it sure sounded like her

[LEAHnew]

Thank you everybody.
Lebara are currently examining my call logs as we speak, and will call me back today.
God knows it sure sounded like her

Sorry to hear the news Fitzy, I just congratulate you on your other thread and so surprising this one
Like Chryss says I do hope as well she's telling the truth

[Sophie]

Thank you everybody.
Lebara are currently examining my call logs as we speak, and will call me back today.
God knows it sure sounded like her

Hi fitz, so sorry to hear that, but make sure it's really you're roni you heard on the other line......it's just a bit harder to establish whether its a cross line or not....
But, whatever your instinct tells you, go for it.......mostly its accurate...
Besides, it's only you who can know if your gf is capable of cheating or not...
I hope everything works out for the best though......

[MarBell379]

Don't know if this has any relevance here, but there is a phenomenon called 'spit' which is becoming more common on VOIP routed calls - see http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/VoIP_spam (hope this link is OK, otherwise search VOIP SPIT and check the wikipedia entry).

Ive experienced it a few times as swear words being randomly interjected, but I understand that prerecorded conversations or activities are alos being added now. It is possible that this is what you experienced.
I hope everything works out.

[Ji&Ma]

Sorry to hear about the false alarm Fitzy...
About the rest - I think this must be some kind of prank or attempt how to suck money from you. As Mrs J said - when one is having sex then hardly can be bothered to pick the call up and nevermind talking....
Cheer up man and keep hope
I guess everything is gonna be just fine, fingers crossed for you...

[Fitzy]

You know what guys.

I feel that you are all like my family here now, have not slept for 15 hours, is not easy to cheer up, i said terrible things to Roni, txt her family with accusations, but on the strength of it all we have had a very turbulent year, thousands spent on her, and her family, and i just lent her sis 400 quid
I think i am going soft, and the one girl who truly loves me wants me to see her in Manila in august.
She is a sweet sweet girl who never asks me for money.
I think I shd wake up, coz as they say, love is blind right?
She is a bad girl really, always taking from me! (roni)
To be honest, am kinda at more peach now, coz she pushed me away to the arms of someone who truly loves me, and I just didn't see it!

Thank you all so much for being there for me, I mean it from the bottom of my heart

[maria_and_matt]

You know what guys.

I feel that you are all like my family here now, have not slept for 15 hours, is not easy to cheer up, i said terrible things to Roni, txt her family with accusations, but on the strength of it all we have had a very turbulent year, thousands spent on her, and her family, and i just lent her sis 400 quid
I think i am going soft, and the one girl who truly loves me wants me to see her in Manila in august.
She is a sweet sweet girl who never asks me for money.
I think I shd wake up, coz as they say, love is blind right?
She is a bad girl really, always taking from me! (roni)
To be honest, am kinda at more peach now, coz she pushed me away to the arms of someone who truly loves me, and I just didn't see it!

Thank you all so much for being there for me, I mean it from the bottom of my heart

hey fitz... hugz to you..!

[Sophie]

You know what guys.

I feel that you are all like my family here now, have not slept for 15 hours, is not easy to cheer up, i said terrible things to Roni, txt her family with accusations, but on the strength of it all we have had a very turbulent year, thousands spent on her, and her family, and i just lent her sis 400 quid
I think i am going soft, and the one girl who truly loves me wants me to see her in Manila in august.
She is a sweet sweet girl who never asks me for money.
I think I shd wake up, coz as they say, love is blind right?
She is a bad girl really, always taking from me! (roni)
To be honest, am kinda at more peach now, coz she pushed me away to the arms of someone who truly loves me, and I just didn't see it!

Thank you all so much for being there for me, I mean it from the bottom of my heart

Oh, i can see you already made up your mind about a new girl, that's kind'a quick huh, lol.....but you are entitled to that.......
I hope though that this other girl is really who she is potraying and claiming to be as of now....
It's a bit too premature to say she is better as you are just about to start a relationship with her......

[Sim11UK]

Phil....I'm confused here too????

Where has this other woman come from?

At the end of the day, we all want you to be happy, with whoever you are with. There could be a logical explanation, as members have already said...I know it's painful, but if you can get the answers, then so much the better.
You've been to visit her 3 times, with a 4th trip planned, surely there is something worth fighting for.

We're all with you, on this one.

[pennybarry]

You know what guys.

I feel that you are all like my family here now, have not slept for 15 hours, is not easy to cheer up, i said terrible things to Roni, txt her family with accusations, but on the strength of it all we have had a very turbulent year, thousands spent on her, and her family, and i just lent her sis 400 quid
I think i am going soft, and the one girl who truly loves me wants me to see her in Manila in august.
She is a sweet sweet girl who never asks me for money.
I think I shd wake up, coz as they say, love is blind right?
She is a bad girl really, always taking from me! (roni)
To be honest, am kinda at more peach now, coz she pushed me away to the arms of someone who truly loves me, and I just didn't see it!

Thank you all so much for being there for me, I mean it from the bottom of my heart

I thought you love her very much and now you have new one.
If you really have been scammed, that is quick to make a rush decision Fitzy
We learn from our mistakes and I wish you're on the right track

[Fitzy]

No MJ was not lined up ok!

Go right ahead, laugh at my expense, is all i'm good for anyway

[Tawi2]

Fitz,no ones laughing at you,and you have self worth,come on geezer,dont say its all your good for,thats because your feeling down at the minute k?Thats why I said,dont make rash decisions,your not thinking rationally at the moment,people never do when they are angered or hurt,things will look totally different in a few weeks mate,have a cuppa,relax,if the lady really has cheated on you its better you found out this early than later on down the road,things always have a habit of working themselves out,but dont feel sorry for yourself mate,thats negative,concentrate on your positives k?

[bornatbirth]

your confusioning me

you have been posting how well it as been going and now you have found out shes cheating on you!

she as admited to it?

can i ask why are you giving money to the family and £400 to her sister? my wifes family would be to embarrassed to ask!

if she was having sex why would she answer the phone?

my wife phoned me and when the phone was answered she asked for me and a man say ok and my wife heard the man talking to a woman....and she thought it was me and later asked me who the woman was what woman??????????

[KeithD]

if she was having sex why would she answer the phone?

In the case of me it might be the bookmakers!

I'd just let her get back to you as the next move, see what she says.

[pennybarry]

Well, after all the good news two pieces of bad news :-(

Firstly, there is no baby, she said it was a false alarm!

Now get this!!!

I called her yesterday, the phone answered, and I cd plainly hear her moaning having sex!!
I called again, the guy I heard doing it to her said something in Filipino, and hung d call.

All these calls from my phone book!

Is a remote possibility my Lebara SIM directed to a wrong number, but it sure sounded like Roni.

Does anyone have a Lebara SIM/problems with numbers being diverted????

I haven't slept yet, and she denies everything, and I just don't know how to carry on with my life now!!


I love her so so very much, and she betrays me.

So sorry to post this, but I have no one to turn to now

Keep Calm Fits! Don't jump into conclusions!!!

Try to reminisce all the moments with her and think if you feel something strange when you were with her. You're the only one who could feel it. If somethings bothers you, ask straight forward.

[KeithD]

...and when you phone you usually know what line quality you get.....was it similar with the 'strange' calls?

[Mrs.JMajor]

And If I am having affair/sex to anyone and knowing my hubby calling me,why should I answer the phone and let him hear my moan ?

Dont spoil the good relationship,

[Alan]

People have given you some good advice here Fitzy. My two pennyworth is - there is no point panicking or worrying until you know the truth of the matter. You wil only make yourself ill, or worse!!!

Try to stay positive at this time (easier said than done, I know.)

Try to sort out the situation calmly - if you discover that it was a false alarm, you have done all that worrying for nothing. If, sadly, the facts go the other way, then, I'm sorry to say, you found out in time and you are better off out of it.

Hope that helps - good luck!

Al.

[Fitzy]

Well she accidentally answered it by mistake, i know her voice u see!
Anyway, I have Mary Jane now, she is kind, decent, and caring, and we look forward to seeing each other in August.
She possesses all the Ladylike qualities in life, pretty, clever, and so on

[Mrs.JMajor]

Well she accidentally answered it by mistake, i know her voice u see!
Anyway, I have Mary Jane now, she is kind, decent, and caring, and we look forward to seeing each other in August.
She possesses all the Ladylike qualities in life, pretty, clever, and so on

So you had new one already,awww which is MaryJane, hmmmm well, goodluck we are happy for you,what ever decision you make for your self,we are just here for you

[Fitzy]

So you had new one already,awww which is MaryJane, hmmmm well, goodluck we are happy for you,what ever decision you make for your self,we are just here for you

She is somebody i stupidly ignored like the idiot that i am
She is sweet, caring, toooooooo protective heheheh, and is not a rebound thing here!
Thing is, we are still going to Cagayan, and hope we don't bump in to Roni, lol
She did it to us, not me, I am faithful down the line.
Ohhh well, life goes on as they say, like a rollercoaster hehhehehe

[Mrs.JMajor]

She is somebody i stupidly ignored like the idiot that i am
She is sweet, caring, toooooooo protective heheheh, and is not a rebound thing here!
Thing is, we are still going to Cagayan, and hope we don't bump in to Roni, lol
She did it to us, not me, I am faithful down the line.
Ohhh well, life goes on as they say, like a rollercoaster hehhehehe

So who is the girl in your avatar Roni or Maryjane ?

[Jay&Zobel]

You know what guys.

I feel that you are all like my family here now, have not slept for 15 hours, is not easy to cheer up, i said terrible things to Roni, txt her family with accusations, but on the strength of it all we have had a very turbulent year, thousands spent on her, and her family, and i just lent her sis 400 quid
I think i am going soft, and the one girl who truly loves me wants me to see her in Manila in august.
She is a sweet sweet girl who never asks me for money.
I think I shd wake up, coz as they say, love is blind right?
She is a bad girl really, always taking from me! (roni)
To be honest, am kinda at more peach now, coz she pushed me away to the arms of someone who truly loves me, and I just didn't see it!

Thank you all so much for being there for me, I mean it from the bottom of my heart

Well, after all the good news two pieces of bad news :-(

Firstly, there is no baby, she said it was a false alarm!

Now get this!!!

I called her yesterday, the phone answered, and I cd plainly hear her moaning having sex!!
I called again, the guy I heard doing it to her said something in Filipino, and hung d call.

All these calls from my phone book!

Is a remote possibility my Lebara SIM directed to a wrong number, but it sure sounded like Roni.

Does anyone have a Lebara SIM/problems with numbers being diverted????

I haven't slept yet, and she denies everything, and I just don't know how to carry on with my life now!!


I love her so so very much, and she betrays me.

So sorry to post this, but I have no one to turn to now

Well she accidentally answered it by mistake, i know her voice u see!
Anyway, I have Mary Jane now, she is kind, decent, and caring, and we look forward to seeing each other in August.
She possesses all the Ladylike qualities in life, pretty, clever, and so on

She is somebody i stupidly ignored like the idiot that i am
She is sweet, caring, toooooooo protective heheheh, and is not a rebound thing here!
Thing is, we are still going to Cagayan, and hope we don't bump in to Roni, lol
She did it to us, not me, I am faithful down the line.
Ohhh well, life goes on as they say, like a rollercoaster hehhehehe

I am so sorry to hear that...
Hope this will be a lesson to you...
MONEY PLUS GIRLS IS A VERY DANGEROUS combination...

You can't buy love I'm afraid... Even if you convinced yourself that she loves you, or you love her, once the money is involved (outside marriage) things might go wrong... (and so sorry it happend to you)... Please do not be fooled again///

(Mary Jane - she your back up plan? hmmmm...) DO not rush into things my friend. Take it slowly but surely... Stay focus to finding your goal: FINDING YOUR LIFE PARTNER.

If it was your GF who scammed you, then sorry for her "Pera na naging bato pa" (the money turned into rock) she failed her quest and it was too early...