Hi fitz, so sorry to hear that, but make sure it's really you're roni you heard on the other line......it's just a bit harder to establish whether its a cross line or not....
But, whatever your instinct tells you, go for it.......mostly its accurate...
Besides, it's only you who can know if your gf is capable of cheating or not...
I hope everything works out for the best though......
"10% of life is made up of what happens to you, 90% is decided by how you react"
"The way to love anything is to realize that it may be lost"
born there was a lot of ohhh ahhhhssss and words i dont know if i am allowed to post here i had so much fun
God grant me the serenity to accept the things i cannot change, the courage to change the things i can and the wisdom to hide the bodies of those people i had to kill because they pissed me off.
Fitzy, you need to say now who is in the avatar, lol already in demand
Oh, i can see you already made up your mind about a new girl, that's kind'a quick huh, lol.....but you are entitled to that.......
I hope though that this other girl is really who she is potraying and claiming to be as of now....
It's a bit too premature to say she is better as you are just about to start a relationship with her......
"10% of life is made up of what happens to you, 90% is decided by how you react"
"The way to love anything is to realize that it may be lost"
Phil....I'm confused here too????
Where has this other woman come from?
At the end of the day, we all want you to be happy, with whoever you are with. There could be a logical explanation, as members have already said...I know it's painful, but if you can get the answers, then so much the better.
You've been to visit her 3 times, with a 4th trip planned, surely there is something worth fighting for.
We're all with you, on this one.
God grant me the serenity to accept the things i cannot change, the courage to change the things i can and the wisdom to hide the bodies of those people i had to kill because they pissed me off.
I wish you all the best on this new girl fitz....
I just hope she is really the kind of person that she is portraying and showing to you now.....
It's still a bit too early to show the true colors, isn't it? .....
not that i'm suggesting she is.....but anything is possible....you have to open your eyes for all the possibilities...
One more thing, i hope you won't take this in a bad way fitz - you seem to be drawn into this new girl and was actually falling for her already.....
so it looked like you were so quick to judge and conclude about roni.....
are you sure you were not just trying to find faults and reasons to dump her
and get rid of her for the new girl you now wanted to be with....
"10% of life is made up of what happens to you, 90% is decided by how you react"
"The way to love anything is to realize that it may be lost"
I am so sorry to hear that...
Hope this will be a lesson to you...
MONEY PLUS GIRLS IS A VERY DANGEROUS combination...
You can't buy love I'm afraid... Even if you convinced yourself that she loves you, or you love her, once the money is involved (outside marriage) things might go wrong... (and so sorry it happend to you)... Please do not be fooled again///
(Mary Jane - she your back up plan? hmmmm...) DO not rush into things my friend. Take it slowly but surely... Stay focus to finding your goal: FINDING YOUR LIFE PARTNER.
If it was your GF who scammed you, then sorry for her "Pera na naging bato pa" (the money turned into rock) she failed her quest and it was too early...
can i just add in your other threads you say you have been having sex already with her?
i never had sex with my wife until we where married and always think its a measure of how nice or serious your gf is!
i have learnt to do what my wife says!
Pera na naging bato pa?Its money but its turned into rock?Like its in the hand but spilled to the ground?Fitzy,please,take a step back and have a rethink about the whole situation,really,thats the best course of action,sorry your not going to be a father but may I ask who is that lady in the pic with you
Sometimes you're flush and sometimes you're bust, and when you're up, it's never as good as it seems, and when you're down, you never think you'll be up again. But life goes on.
The beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the figure that she carries, or the way she combs her hair. The beauty of a woman is seen in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart, the place where love resides. True beauty in a woman is reflected in her soul. It's the passion that she shows to the outside world.
Its never good to juggle two balls in one hand
Sometimes you're flush and sometimes you're bust, and when you're up, it's never as good as it seems, and when you're down, you never think you'll be up again. But life goes on.
The beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the figure that she carries, or the way she combs her hair. The beauty of a woman is seen in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart, the place where love resides. True beauty in a woman is reflected in her soul. It's the passion that she shows to the outside world.
Sorry, but I can't resist just a little rant here. Whatever you say Mary Jane was to you before this, you obviously had a pretty good 'secondary' relationship here. Did Roni know?
There may have been no physical contact, but a relationship thats good enough to jump into and arrange visits in August is to my mind as much cheating as what you believe has been done by Roni.
Is this a case of a guilty conscience jumping to conclusions as a way to terminate the relationship anyway?
I'm sorry if Ive overstepped bounds here, but it seems theres more here than meets the eye.
Sometimes you're flush and sometimes you're bust, and when you're up, it's never as good as it seems, and when you're down, you never think you'll be up again. But life goes on.
The beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the figure that she carries, or the way she combs her hair. The beauty of a woman is seen in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart, the place where love resides. True beauty in a woman is reflected in her soul. It's the passion that she shows to the outside world.
Hmmm.....He says he is faithful....and then later mentions MaryJane......I guess he must have a different meaning of 'faithful' than me!
Keith - Administrator
"10% of life is made up of what happens to you, 90% is decided by how you react"
"The way to love anything is to realize that it may be lost"
Its actually quite easy to juggle 2 balls in one hand.
4 in 2 hands is the hard bit!
Whats the old adage?One ball in the hand is plenty In all seriousness whatever has happened is Fitzys business,but its never a good idea to jump from one relationship straight into another Time is the healer
Sometimes you're flush and sometimes you're bust, and when you're up, it's never as good as it seems, and when you're down, you never think you'll be up again. But life goes on.
The beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the figure that she carries, or the way she combs her hair. The beauty of a woman is seen in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart, the place where love resides. True beauty in a woman is reflected in her soul. It's the passion that she shows to the outside world.
What I meant was if it was really RONI and she really did cheat on Fitzy and was found out by the latter then, she failed miserably BIG TIME!
Meaning she can't scam no more... (no more future remittances, future gifts, etc etc...)
But if Fitzy has got a back up plan (Mary Jane) then that's another story...
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