Thats cool because one or two of mine are![]()
Sometimes you're flush and sometimes you're bust, and when you're up, it's never as good as it seems, and when you're down, you never think you'll be up again. But life goes on.
The beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the figure that she carries, or the way she combs her hair. The beauty of a woman is seen in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart, the place where love resides. True beauty in a woman is reflected in her soul. It's the passion that she shows to the outside world.
Hi Jam! I've been to that similar situation some 3yrs ago. The thing is, he is pinoy but lives in the UK. We've been in constant communication for almost 3mos on daily basis. He calls me everyday of my life plus emails & chat which is also done daily. He was able to talk to my closest officemates & to my family as well. Then one day, I can no longer reach his mobile, no SMS & everything. In short, a total blackout of information from his part. The very painful thing is, after a week, a woman called me up, asked my identity & informed that she is the wife and this guy is here in the country . To add some more pain, this happened on the week of my birthday. I learned that they spend the holiday in Boracay the same day that I was also home which is not so far away from Boracay. It is truly easy to give advice if you are not the aggrieved party, but based from this painful experience, it is better that you move on with your life. When he comes back, give him a chance to explain. It's only you who can gauge his sincerity. If you are meant for each other, always remember that love finds its own way.
It is natural to cry. It is a human characteristic when in pain but we are also responsible for our own happiness. Everything happens for a reason. If that deception didnt happen to me, I would have missed the magic of being in love & be truly loved by my special someone now. Someone who embodies my mother's ideal man for me![]()
Cheer up Jam! There's always hope...
hi guys... just responded late as I have a concert to attend to....
thanks for all the responses. I am not suprised by the reactions you gave me. I too, felt that. I am now doubting this relationship and I can see the inevitable...
oh well, thats life...![]()
So you mean he havent contact you yet, after giving him till friday? Supposedly yesterday ?![]()
Hi Jam, been reading your thread with interest, sorry to hear of your troubles.
I'm guessing, that you haven't met yet in person?...What are his intentions? has he talked about coming to visit you?...Sorry, if I've got all this wrong?
We live in a world of communication, where it's not hard to stay in contact, with someone if you really want to.
Last summer, I had no internet connection for a month. My telephone line got struck by lightning, it literally blew the sockets out of the wall...There was an almighty bang! & the cat shot off my lap....Had to have the whole line replaced.
The point I'm making is, I could still use a phone, could still text & could go to the library to use free internet there.
Whether you stay with him or not, you deserve much better.
I wish you well.![]()
at last I can get through this site! I dont know why this site is not allowed in Dubai! Grrrrr!!! I need to use Hotspot Shield first! bummer!
My friend wasn't able to access this too..
http://filipinaroses.com/showthread....ighlight=DUBAI
so what`s up jam?![]()
to loved and beloved is the greatest joy on earth...
"10% of life is made up of what happens to you, 90% is decided by how you react"
"The way to love anything is to realize that it may be lost"
Hi Jam,
Well, you made a choice of ending the relationship and you feel that it's the right one. Good for you then.
My bf, now my fiancee, has been in this "going in the cave" thing (as what aposhark had described quoting Dr. Gray's book)... and I would have to say that your ex-bf may be doing just that. The difference though is that, my fiancee was honest enough to tell me to let him be for a while and allow him to sort things on his own. I have even posted a thread about his email not so long ago... and most of the forumers have told me to move on. Gladly, I didn't... I trusted my fiancee... I let him be as requested.. and like a rubber band (also from Dr. Gray's book).. he came back to me.. and now, he's mine! hehehe..
Jam, Im not saying that you give him a chance, nor saying that you didn't do the right thing. All I'm saying is that.. well... I support your choice. if your insticts tell you to dump him.. then so be it (and you already did)... I wish you good luck in your quest for true love. It will come in its proper time... just keep on being happy and pray for guidance. It worked for me... it may work for you too.
Not coward I guess, a gentleman way..![]()
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