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    Quote Originally Posted by vbkelly View Post
    still waiting puputi nalang ang bolbol nila lol
    Bhing you make me laugh so loud in there


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    Thats cool because one or two of mine are



    Sometimes you're flush and sometimes you're bust, and when you're up, it's never as good as it seems, and when you're down, you never think you'll be up again. But life goes on.
    The beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the figure that she carries, or the way she combs her hair. The beauty of a woman is seen in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart, the place where love resides. True beauty in a woman is reflected in her soul. It's the passion that she shows to the outside world.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Mrs.JMajor View Post
    Bhing you make me laugh so loud in there
    Did you FART again in the process?


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    Hi Jam! I've been to that similar situation some 3yrs ago. The thing is, he is pinoy but lives in the UK. We've been in constant communication for almost 3mos on daily basis. He calls me everyday of my life plus emails & chat which is also done daily. He was able to talk to my closest officemates & to my family as well. Then one day, I can no longer reach his mobile, no SMS & everything. In short, a total blackout of information from his part. The very painful thing is, after a week, a woman called me up, asked my identity & informed that she is the wife and this guy is here in the country . To add some more pain, this happened on the week of my birthday. I learned that they spend the holiday in Boracay the same day that I was also home which is not so far away from Boracay. It is truly easy to give advice if you are not the aggrieved party, but based from this painful experience, it is better that you move on with your life. When he comes back, give him a chance to explain. It's only you who can gauge his sincerity. If you are meant for each other, always remember that love finds its own way.

    It is natural to cry. It is a human characteristic when in pain but we are also responsible for our own happiness. Everything happens for a reason. If that deception didnt happen to me, I would have missed the magic of being in love & be truly loved by my special someone now. Someone who embodies my mother's ideal man for me

    Cheer up Jam! There's always hope...


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    Quote Originally Posted by Arthur Little View Post
    Did you FART again in the process?
    Unfortunately not ....



    Wow that was a good post NtoN, but hurt to accept for Jam just in case isnt it?


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    hi guys... just responded late as I have a concert to attend to....

    thanks for all the responses. I am not suprised by the reactions you gave me. I too, felt that. I am now doubting this relationship and I can see the inevitable...

    oh well, thats life...


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    So you mean he havent contact you yet, after giving him till friday? Supposedly yesterday ?


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    Quote Originally Posted by Mrs.JMajor View Post
    So you mean he havent contact you yet, after giving him till friday? Supposedly yesterday ?
    he did text me yesterday ('ring me now')... he texted that all of a sudden... hmmmm.. maybe he read this thread as I have shared him a link to this site when I was inquiring about visa application... hmmm... just a thought...


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    Quote Originally Posted by jam07 View Post
    he did text me yesterday ('ring me now')... he texted that all of a sudden... hmmmm.. maybe he read this thread as I have shared him a link to this site when I was inquiring about visa application... hmmm... just a thought...
    Dont think of that his pc isnt working di ba?


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    Hi Jam, been reading your thread with interest, sorry to hear of your troubles.

    I'm guessing, that you haven't met yet in person?...What are his intentions? has he talked about coming to visit you?...Sorry, if I've got all this wrong?

    We live in a world of communication, where it's not hard to stay in contact, with someone if you really want to.

    Last summer, I had no internet connection for a month. My telephone line got struck by lightning, it literally blew the sockets out of the wall...There was an almighty bang! & the cat shot off my lap. ...Had to have the whole line replaced.

    The point I'm making is, I could still use a phone, could still text & could go to the library to use free internet there.

    Whether you stay with him or not, you deserve much better.

    I wish you well.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Sim11UK View Post
    There was an almighty bang! & the cat shot off my lap. ...Had to have the whole line replaced.

    That made my day
    to loved and beloved is the greatest joy on earth...


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    Quote Originally Posted by Mrs.JMajor View Post
    Dont think of that his pc isnt working di ba?
    oo nga ano hehe!


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    at last I can get through this site! I dont know why this site is not allowed in Dubai! Grrrrr!!! I need to use Hotspot Shield first! bummer!


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    Quote Originally Posted by jam07 View Post
    at last I can get through this site! I dont know why this site is not allowed in Dubai! Grrrrr!!! I need to use Hotspot Shield first! bummer!
    My friend wasn't able to access this too..
    http://filipinaroses.com/showthread....ighlight=DUBAI


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    Quote Originally Posted by Jay&Zobel View Post
    My friend wasn't able to access this too..
    http://filipinaroses.com/showthread....ighlight=DUBAI
    kainis talga! and when you get through the site, ang bagal naman! grrr!!! thats what they do!


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    so what`s up jam?
    to loved and beloved is the greatest joy on earth...


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    we're over

    Quote Originally Posted by Mrs Daddy View Post
    so what`s up jam?
    Hi Mrs Daddy we're over... i cant go on like this anymore... send it through his email this morning... got no reactions from him yet...


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    Quote Originally Posted by jam07 View Post
    Hi Mrs Daddy we're over... i cant go on like this anymore... send it through his email this morning... got no reactions from him yet...
    That's so brave of you jam You did the right thing
    Just move on wth your life and have fun and enjoy your single life
    and i'm sure someone better will come along in time
    "10% of life is made up of what happens to you, 90% is decided by how you react"
    "The way to love anything is to realize that it may be lost"


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    Quote Originally Posted by Sophie View Post
    That's so brave of you jam You did the right thing
    Just move on wth your life and have fun and enjoy your single life
    and i'm sure someone better will come along in time
    I'm sure there will be someone better ... I'm sure of that thank you sophie


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    Quote Originally Posted by jam07 View Post
    I'm sure there will be someone better ... I'm sure of that thank you sophie
    You're welcome jam You will definitely meet the right person...you deserve to be happy and find the love you truly deserve
    "10% of life is made up of what happens to you, 90% is decided by how you react"
    "The way to love anything is to realize that it may be lost"


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    Quote Originally Posted by jam07 View Post
    I'm sure there will be someone better ... I'm sure of that thank you sophie
    go on jam be brave sabi ng kasabihan nga "hindi yan hinahanap yan ay kusang darating sa iyo" goodluck!
    all things are possible!


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    Quote Originally Posted by jam07 View Post
    Hi Mrs Daddy we're over... i cant go on like this anymore... send it through his email this morning... got no reactions from him yet...
    am sorry to hear but dont lose hope MR.right will come on the right time
    to loved and beloved is the greatest joy on earth...


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    Quote Originally Posted by Mrs Daddy View Post
    am sorry to hear but dont lose hope MR.right will come on the right time
    thanks you Mrs Daddy mr. right is just around the corner... maybe he's here as its because of him that I discovered this site (not because he told me about this site but because my now ex-bf is brit)

    hmmm... its possible that he's here



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    Quote Originally Posted by jam07 View Post
    thanks you Mrs Daddy mr. right is just around the corner... maybe he's here as its because of him that I discovered this site (not because he told me about this site but because my now ex-bf is brit)

    hmmm... its possible that he's here

    I hope so, there is one guy here, he is free as in available not in a relationship , just wondering where is he at the moment, maybe he is busy

    Or sometimes there are some guy who register here in the forum and looking for a nice filipina,


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    Quote Originally Posted by jam07 View Post
    we're over... i cant go on like this anymore... send it through his email this morning... got no reactions from him yet...



    Kudos for you Jam It is time for the women in the lives of these scoundrels to stand up and kick the pigs to the Curb..


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    Quote Originally Posted by D&G View Post
    Kudos for you Jam It is time for the women in the lives of these scoundrels to stand up and kick the pigs to the Curb..
    thanks D&G!


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    Hi Jam,

    Well, you made a choice of ending the relationship and you feel that it's the right one. Good for you then.

    My bf, now my fiancee, has been in this "going in the cave" thing (as what aposhark had described quoting Dr. Gray's book)... and I would have to say that your ex-bf may be doing just that. The difference though is that, my fiancee was honest enough to tell me to let him be for a while and allow him to sort things on his own. I have even posted a thread about his email not so long ago... and most of the forumers have told me to move on. Gladly, I didn't... I trusted my fiancee... I let him be as requested.. and like a rubber band (also from Dr. Gray's book).. he came back to me.. and now, he's mine! hehehe..

    Jam, Im not saying that you give him a chance, nor saying that you didn't do the right thing. All I'm saying is that.. well... I support your choice. if your insticts tell you to dump him.. then so be it (and you already did)... I wish you good luck in your quest for true love. It will come in its proper time... just keep on being happy and pray for guidance. It worked for me... it may work for you too.


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    Not coward I guess, a gentleman way..


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    Quote Originally Posted by Mrs.JMajor View Post
    Not coward I guess, a gentleman way..
    true
    "10% of life is made up of what happens to you, 90% is decided by how you react"
    "The way to love anything is to realize that it may be lost"


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