I think you've done the right thing Jam, he didn't sound keen to me, are you working as a caregiver out there in Dubai?
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Hi Jam,
Well, you made a choice of ending the relationship and you feel that it's the right one. Good for you then.
My bf, now my fiancee, has been in this "going in the cave" thing (as what aposhark had described quoting Dr. Gray's book)... and I would have to say that your ex-bf may be doing just that. The difference though is that, my fiancee was honest enough to tell me to let him be for a while and allow him to sort things on his own. I have even posted a thread about his email not so long ago... and most of the forumers have told me to move on. Gladly, I didn't... I trusted my fiancee... I let him be as requested.. and like a rubber band (also from Dr. Gray's book).. he came back to me.. and now, he's mine! hehehe..
Jam, Im not saying that you give him a chance, nor saying that you didn't do the right thing. All I'm saying is that.. well... I support your choice. if your insticts tell you to dump him.. then so be it (and you already did)... I wish you good luck in your quest for true love. It will come in its proper time... just keep on being happy and pray for guidance. It worked for me... it may work for you too.
Not coward I guess, a gentleman way..
[QUOTE=aposhark;148599]Hi Sophie, we would say "Hello dear, I have to pop out, see you later" (another trip into the cave!, or is it we are cowards sometimes?)[/QUOTE]
LOL, back to the cave
It's not really cowardice aposhark, on the contrary, its actually bravery, coz you are courageous enough to walk away and not give in to anger....
and i admire men for being like this most of the time
instead of giving in to the argument and say things we regret and let fly words we later wish we'd never spoken...
as when tempers flare, it's often best to postpone the discussion and spend some time apart so you can both calm down and collect your thoughts
Women ought to know this one better as we are more the confrontational types, lol
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