am i being played? :(

[aposhark]

Hmmmmm Aposhark, not sure your post applies?

At the end of the day, he's been less than honest & didn't bother to contact poor Jam.

Now he has, it's on his terms!

Sim11Uk,

My reference was to indicate that he may be trying to sort himself out or "going into the cave" as Gray wrote.
I think it is applicable........

Anyway it seems he is now back in touch with her.

[aposhark]

FWIW,

I think that both sexes can sometimes take time to decide if someone else is right or wrong for them.

Many people take time sometimes to continue with things.

The real love affairs only truly get going on a day-to-day basis, when we live together and the daily grind of life puts pressures on all of us.

[Sophie]

FWIW,

I think that both sexes can sometimes take time to decide if someone else is right or wrong for them.

Many people take time sometimes to continue with things.

The real love affairs only truly get going on a day-to-day basis, when we live together and the daily grind of life puts pressures on all of us.

Very true