I'm not trying to undermine your relationship Sophie! There is a saying "I wont eat mince when I've got steak at home!" I think men are sincere when they say that. But if they see a beautiful walk past them, and they say I wouldn't look at her! I'm like "Oh your such a liar!"
True, we love our spouse but it doesnt mean were not allowed to look at when there is other hottie walking in the street. men and women are visual creatures. look at but don't touch.
some women are very jealous when her husband look at a beautiful woman.
