The last time we were in Phils an aunt of my wife who is quite well off by Phils standards and rarely has anything to do with my wife's branch of the family, kept turning up at our hotel when we were out, leaving messages and insisting that she must see us urgently.
When she eventually caught up with us we found it was to ask me to find a British husband for her daughter who is long separated from her muslim husband with whom she has 4 children and she also came along armed with a sort of a résumé and a few photos of her daughter.
I didn't mind that much really, except that she sort of inferred in an round about way that now that I was "family", it was sort of like my duty and she had every faith that I would be able to do this for her.
Iain.
