Dont give them the honour of talking about them. They are worthless and dont let it trouble your mind. The only people whose opinions you should care about are the people you love and respect, thats what I do.
As mentioned before, it`s more than likely they are jealous of what you have.
Dont let thedrag you down to their level.
Oh and one more thing, the pasta was masarap
If I were you I would remind these gossipers that "Malicous Falsehood" is a criminal offence in Britain, if that isn't enough to make them more polite...(funny how someones attitude can change overnight eh?) Then start gathering evidence of this falsehood and consider prosecuting, don't be a willing victim..it sounds like emotional/psychological abuse to me...
I was once sent an anonymous email from Philippines saying nasty things about my Vimvie, they accused her of things that I know for sure simply arent true!...I suspect it came from her old school friends who were maybe bitterly unhappy that she would be coming to live in Britain with me...maybe they were thinking "why is she going to Britain and not me?" And seeing her become more excited and happy about coming just made their blood boil and I think maybe this is why they sent the email..?(I ignored it obviously..)
But anyway, maybe you have rules against harrassment in your workplace?
There are 7 Planes Of Existance:
7 — Material Plane: The earth, where you are right now.
6 — Plane of Forces
5 — Astral Plane
4 — Mental Plane
3 — Too mysterious to describe.
2 — Too mysterious to describe.
1 — Too mysterious to describe.
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Gossip knows no boundaries, has no connection with religion and is in all nationalities.
Maria and Matt, I once lived in Spain and the British there were just like the gossips you have seen in your town or city. Keep strong and just ignore them.
People HATE to be ignored.
thanks apo i do ignore them.. i guess i was in a bad mood last saturday hence the rantingi do not care what they say coz in my heart i know it all lies..
God grant me the serenity to accept the things i cannot change, the courage to change the things i can and the wisdom to hide the bodies of those people i had to kill because they pissed me off.
You're absolutely right, of course, Mike. Some of the worst gossips I know can be found in the Church of all places ... so-called "respected" office bearers, at that! I often think, too, that the British nation has the monopoly in "scandal-mongering".
I remember moving with my family from my birthplace in Glasgow to a country village 10 miles south of Perth. I was only eight years old at the time - a stranger to these parts - and, being considerably taller than the rest of my peer group, I was teased mercilessly on account of my surname. And ... oh ... it used to really "get my goat"and I always reacted angrily to the taunts [as young kids are apt to DO!!]. But, in retrospect, I should just have ignored them. Easier said than at THAT age, though!
i have always lived by the golden rule.. do not do unto others what you do not want others to do unto you!
i have always been good at ignoring gossip, but lately it has been getting on my nerves. filipinas especially have this habit of talking behind my back.. if i work they gossip that i am too poor so my husband sent me to work, if i dont work they say i am lazy!!!
it has been getting worst, i only have a handful of filipino friends to avoid gossip. i was in town last saturday and i saw a couple of pinays in boots, as i walked past them i heard one say, oh i heard that Maria (me) is having a relationship with an american airman on base!!! and that she was going to call my husband to let him know... i was like shocked as all my friends on the american base are pinays married to americans! i called my husband crying, and my husband told me that he finds that impossible and dismissed it. when he got home he told me that 10 years ago before we got married he got an anonymous letter telling him that i am marrying him for money
.. and he then said that he thought it was from a filipina coz the english was not very good...
question is WHY!!! why would somebody do that...! i have never asked money from my husband wht he gives me is from his own doing not mine!! when my dad got so sick with cancer i didnt ask my husband for help, i was going to work and find my own money so i can help my dad, but it was my husband who said he will help that he wanted me to stay home..
a good friend told me that others are just jealous, jealous of what??? it seems that filipinas wherever they are in the world still gossip and envious of others,, if they see others with better lives they will pull down (crab mentality!) with me i do not care what you have, what house you have or what car you drive, what matters is the person that you are!
thank you,,, bow!
gossips...gossips!!! This scenario is all too familiar to me.
sad but true that there are bunch of immature + insecure people out therewho decided that their mission in life is to discuss other people's weaknesses
and it's scary that sometimes some of them are even in your circle of friendsso most of the time you dont realize the damage they are doing because they put on a sweet smile while they are gently stabbing you in the back!
the problem is that gossip can be very hurtful and even damaging to a person's life. Sadly, this damage can occur whether the gossip is factual or not. Even worse, it can last a lifetime.
Simply stated, gossiping causes trouble.
We will sleep there then.....hehehe
Hey Adam, you gone ? where you now? lol
We`re just getting Isaac to sleep. Little fellas been trying to chat with us for the last hour and hes fighting his tiredness na!
what is the gossip here?
Not an expert, I only try to help.
In the first post Anne (dont jump in the second page hahaha), that is always happen many times that the thread goes to another issue, its just so happen that the thread starter is Maria, which I have met and know already, so I dont mind replying or answering her back thou.what is the gossip here?
Sis, ganda ng signature mo ah,
*God grant me the serenity to accept the things i cannot change, the courage to change the things i can and the wisdom to hide the bodies of those people i had to kill because they pissed me off*
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Oh -oh Maria, Keith is teasing you oh,I know a woman who hung around Naval bases and was always full of seamen
I know a woman who hung around Naval bases and was always full of seamen
God grant me the serenity to accept the things i cannot change, the courage to change the things i can and the wisdom to hide the bodies of those people i had to kill because they pissed me off.
the wisdom to hide the bodies of those people i had to kill because they pissed me off.
i just read this maria,where are you going to hide the bodies.
i have learnt to do what my wife says!
i am thinking in the boot of my husbands carthe wisdom to hide the bodies of those people i had to kill because they pissed me off.
i just read this maria,where are you going to hide the bodies.
God grant me the serenity to accept the things i cannot change, the courage to change the things i can and the wisdom to hide the bodies of those people i had to kill because they pissed me off.
i am thinking in the boot of my husbands car
i have learnt to do what my wife says!
yup thats the master plan
God grant me the serenity to accept the things i cannot change, the courage to change the things i can and the wisdom to hide the bodies of those people i had to kill because they pissed me off.
It might be envy or galit Maria. It happened to me before I arrived here. After my 3 months holiday in Holland I discovered there are some customers of mine who used my shop for utangs. They are my nieces friends. Then I started to ask for payments, they started to hate me and trying to deny that they used my PC's. Then they said they will tell my husband that I'm still chatting with other men and having other BF's.
I had a word with them. I said, I don't know how can I help you girls because I love to help. All I can help you is to give my husband mobile number. If he believes, then I'm a loser. If not, then leave us alone. I told my hubby about that and told him to dump me if he doesn't trust me. Gosh, the the girls got what they deserved. They got dirty words
We must be always careful wherever we are. We are married and for me this is a vow. Hubby's family have nothing to say against me. I don't go alone even at work as I don't know how to drive. My hubby and Dad always there to drive for me. If that will happened with me in Britain, I will tell my hubby too and for sure he will have a word to tsismosa around.
hi pennyIt might be envy or galit Maria. It happened to me before I arrived here. After my 3 months holiday in Holland I discovered there are some customers of mine who used my shop for utangs. They are my nieces friends. Then I started to ask for payments, they started to hate me and trying to deny that they used my PC's. Then they said they will tell my husband that I'm still chatting with other men and having other BF's.
I had a word with them. I said, I don't know how can I help you girls because I love to help. All I can help you is to give my husband mobile number. If he believes, then I'm a loser. If not, then leave us alone. I told my hubby about that and told him to dump me if he doesn't trust me. Gosh, the the girls got what they deserved. They got dirty words
We must be always careful wherever we are. We are married and for me this is a vow. Hubby's family have nothing to say against me. I don't go alone even at work as I don't know how to drive. My hubby and Dad always there to drive for me. If that will happened with me in Britain, I will tell my hubby too and for sure he will have a word to tsismosa around.as long as theres filipinas around always be careful
God grant me the serenity to accept the things i cannot change, the courage to change the things i can and the wisdom to hide the bodies of those people i had to kill because they pissed me off.
hi maria and matt, I think they were envious and cant accept the fact that you are better than them.
my wife also shares the same experienced with her fellow filipinas,if I remember it right. My wife got an acquiantance filipina friend thru a website, and they used to chat before. Then one day I received an email from that filipina friend telling me that my wife was only marrying me because of money and other bad stuffs about my wife. I tried to call that filipina friend but she always rejected my call and still being nice with my wife but she (filipina friend) didn't knew that I am sure that my wife is honest and trustworthy and never ever asked for money to me even when we are in the courting stage and I have already done my own investigations about the matters.
Then Ive learned to my wife that the filipina friend stop communicating with her, maybe she realized that she can't break us apart. She bad mouthed my wife to other filipina saying we always fight and my wife is going to divorce me as soon as she get her citizenship. My wife never told me about this, she's always been the type of person who just cry and as much as possible avoid confrontations. Ive just learned about it when accidentally she forgot to log out her PC. I hope she didnt read this post or else I will get the filipina tampo.
I dont say that all filipnas are bad I believe whenever you are there will always be an odd people. Who cant accept the fact that somebody is happy and fulfilled with their life.
Insecure, good-for-nothing, mal-edukada individuals... plain and simple... so M&M, dead-ma! .. hehehehe... stay happy, pretty, and drop-dead gorgeous... you are a star.. and you are "up there" that's why there are people who are trying to pull you down.
bless them instead and the blessing you gave will come back to you ten-folds.
awwwww thank you! i have been called names before but u r the very first person to call me a star .. soooooo nice........ *blushes* babaw ko talga
God grant me the serenity to accept the things i cannot change, the courage to change the things i can and the wisdom to hide the bodies of those people i had to kill because they pissed me off.
hahaha... you are funny! we are all stars in our own right... as long as you have done nothing wrong, then there's no need for you to feel bad or guilty about anything... it's the chismosas problem, not yours.awwwww thank you! i have been called names before but u r the very first person to call me a star .. soooooo nice........ *blushes* babaw ko talga
Jealousy and backstabbing are very normal in Filipino society..
The crab pot mentality that many Filipino`s share is world famous.
If you understand that much then it becomes easy to cope with..
If their jealousy is directed at me or my wife and kids then I simply rub it in!!
Observing their rage is compensation in abundance.
hi pennyWell said Maria and Fred. Careful! careful! you need to be careful.
One time, I went shopping with my friend who have 2 little kids, I look after the other one and one filipina said, Nanny ka na lang ngayon? Are you just nanny now? I was shocked, as it's sounds insulting to my ears. I have nothing against being a nanny but I am not qualified
Then when I chatted with other friends, one said, penny you dressed like a nanny that time that's why she said you're a nanny and that's what she told meKaya pala insulting ang impact ehehehhehe.
It hurt me a little because I was thinking why are filipinas so mean.
I admit and accept that at my age, I look baduy now, but please don't judge a book by it's cover or else, I will dare you to let us be naked outside and ask people whose body parts are over used.
Thanks God I studied Psychology and understand and how to deal with people like that.
I will dare you to let us be naked outside and ask people whose body parts are over used.
Friendship here is one again..
THIS KIND OF SITUATION MADE ME PICKY in choosing friends...i have always lived by the golden rule.. do not do unto others what you do not want others to do unto you!
i have always been good at ignoring gossip, but lately it has been getting on my nerves. filipinas especially have this habit of talking behind my back.. if i work they gossip that i am too poor so my husband sent me to work, if i dont work they say i am lazy!!!
it has been getting worst, i only have a handful of filipino friends to avoid gossip. i was in town last saturday and i saw a couple of pinays in boots, as i walked past them i heard one say, oh i heard that Maria (me) is having a relationship with an american airman on base
question is WHY!!! why would somebody do that...! i have never asked money from my husband wht he gives me is from his own doing not mine!! when my dad got so sick with cancer i didnt ask my husband for help, i was going to work and find my own money so i can help my dad, but it was my husband who said he will help that he wanted me to stay home..
a good friend told me that others are just jealous, jealous of what??? it seems that filipinas wherever they are in the world still gossip and envious of others,, if they see others with better lives they will pull down (crab mentality!) with me i do not care what you have, what house you have or what car you drive, what matters is the person that you are!
thank you,,, bow!
sis bcoz they are not happy for what they got that why they are jealous to youi have always lived by the golden rule.. do not do unto others what you do not want others to do unto you!
i have always been good at ignoring gossip, but lately it has been getting on my nerves. filipinas especially have this habit of talking behind my back.. if i work they gossip that i am too poor so my husband sent me to work, if i dont work they say i am lazy!!!
it has been getting worst, i only have a handful of filipino friends to avoid gossip. i was in town last saturday and i saw a couple of pinays in boots, as i walked past them i heard one say, oh i heard that Maria (me) is having a relationship with an american airman on base
question is WHY!!! why would somebody do that...! i have never asked money from my husband wht he gives me is from his own doing not mine!! when my dad got so sick with cancer i didnt ask my husband for help, i was going to work and find my own money so i can help my dad, but it was my husband who said he will help that he wanted me to stay home..
a good friend told me that others are just jealous, jealous of what??? it seems that filipinas wherever they are in the world still gossip and envious of others,, if they see others with better lives they will pull down (crab mentality!) with me i do not care what you have, what house you have or what car you drive, what matters is the person that you are!
thank you,,, bow!
all things are possible!
tsk tsk jealousy is indeed the root of all evil...
God grant me the serenity to accept the things i cannot change, the courage to change the things i can and the wisdom to hide the bodies of those people i had to kill because they pissed me off.
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