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    Question An Anonymous Voting: Tsismis, Chika, Back-Biting, Back-stabbing, Gossips etc etc

    You can take this poll or not. It's up to you. (People who have participated in voting will not be revealed (only the mods will know who's who...)

    http://en.wiktionary.org/wiki/backstab

    Inspired by this thread:
    http://filipinaroses.com/showthread.php?t=16821



    (hehe... I voted 1st as I am/was guilty, i've been backstabbed, did some backstabbing some time in my life)
    Been there, done that!


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    My conscience is clear,my place in heaven guaranteed



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    Quote Originally Posted by Tawi2 View Post
    My conscience is clear,my place in heaven guaranteed
    But do you get 72 virgins
    Oh lord why did you make so many clothes and shoe shops


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    cant say i ever had done anything like that..maybe its a woman thing?

    i will just take the mickey to get revenge.
    i have learnt to do what my wife says!


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    Quote Originally Posted by Tawi2 View Post
    My conscience is clear,my place in heaven guaranteed
    Quote Originally Posted by bornatbirth View Post
    cant say i ever had done anything like that..maybe its a woman thing?

    i will just take the mickey to get revenge.


    Oh wow!!! That's really cool!!!
    You sure? as in very sure? not even once? as in? not lying at all?
    That's amazing!!!


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    Quote Originally Posted by Jay&Zobel View Post
    Oh wow!!! That's really cool!!!
    You sure? as in very sure? not even once? as in? not lying at all?
    That's amazing!!!
    i havent backstabbed any one yet but if i had the chance too,maybe i would?
    i have learnt to do what my wife says!


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    GUILTY! when we are at uni before we use to talk about people a lot, who was dating who... who lost their virginity to who girls stuff i guess
    God grant me the serenity to accept the things i cannot change, the courage to change the things i can and the wisdom to hide the bodies of those people i had to kill because they pissed me off.


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    I pleaded not guilty. It's not my cup of tea.


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    everytime i speak with my friends and family back in d PI the first thing i'll ask is 'ano na ang chizmax or chicka?'

    then i'm guilty as well


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    not guilty your highness
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    Quote Originally Posted by maria_and_matt View Post
    GUILTY! when we are at uni before we use to talk about people a lot, who was dating who... who lost their virginity to who girls stuff i guess
    Quote Originally Posted by charlwill View Post
    I pleaded not guilty. It's not my cup of tea.
    Quote Originally Posted by Mrs Daddy View Post
    not guilty your highness

    thanks for participating hehe


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    Not guilty...

    what I have done though is listened to others gossiping, i take what they say with a pinch of salt though, I never take sides...never hold a grudge or judge against anyone...

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    I better change my plea to guilty as charged,I have been accused of being a chismoso



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    Quote Originally Posted by Tawi2 View Post
    I better change my plea to guilty as charged,I have been accused of being a chismoso
    you are like a woman trapped in a mans body tawi2
    God grant me the serenity to accept the things i cannot change, the courage to change the things i can and the wisdom to hide the bodies of those people i had to kill because they pissed me off.


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    Thats my sexuality,not my tongue



    Sometimes you're flush and sometimes you're bust, and when you're up, it's never as good as it seems, and when you're down, you never think you'll be up again. But life goes on.
    The beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the figure that she carries, or the way she combs her hair. The beauty of a woman is seen in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart, the place where love resides. True beauty in a woman is reflected in her soul. It's the passion that she shows to the outside world.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Tawi2 View Post
    I better change my plea to guilty as charged,I have been accused of being a chismoso
    not so much a accusation, more of an observation.


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    Then your not very observant Michael Jacksons been in the media since he was a small boy



    Sometimes you're flush and sometimes you're bust, and when you're up, it's never as good as it seems, and when you're down, you never think you'll be up again. But life goes on.
    The beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the figure that she carries, or the way she combs her hair. The beauty of a woman is seen in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart, the place where love resides. True beauty in a woman is reflected in her soul. It's the passion that she shows to the outside world.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Tawi2 View Post
    I better change my plea to guilty as charged,I have been accused of being a chismoso
    The observation/accusation against you as chismoso based on what you said on the michael jackson thread doesn't qualify/count as chismis at all.....lol
    So by all means, stick by your original plea....
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    Quote Originally Posted by Tawi2 View Post
    I better change my plea to guilty as charged,I have been accused of being a chismoso
    Naaaa you just know too much Tawi2...you're kind of scary in a way. Peace man!
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    It would be hypocrISY for me if I'd say not guilty as gossiping is a woman's thing so, GUILTY AS CHARGED!
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    wow! got 93 views but only got 8 votes? hmmmm...
    hehehe... As I have said lol You can vote or not hehe... It's cool!!!


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    Quote Originally Posted by Jay&Zobel View Post
    You can take this poll or not. It's up to you. (People who have participated in voting will not be revealed (only the mods will know who's who...)

    http://en.wiktionary.org/wiki/backstab

    Inspired by this thread:
    http://filipinaroses.com/showthread.php?t=16821



    (hehe... I voted 1st as I am/was guilty, i've been backstabbed, did some backstabbing some time in my life)
    Been there, done that!

    Same here
    I should say we all , in one way or another, have been guilty of poor judgement at some point in our lives and been through some moments of indiscretion....
    and humans as we are, once provoked and hurt, the initial tendency is for us to fight back....
    specially back in the days of our youth, when we still don't know any better....
    I guess it's a phase everyone go through, this are the circmustances that allow us to grow and learn and to know better.....
    And we emerge as better, mature and level headed individuals in the long run...
    In every mistake, there's a lesson learned
    in every unjust aggresion from someone else is an opportunity for us to be the better and "bigger" person that we shoud be...
    That's the beauty of aging, we get more sensible and wiser as we get older
    "10% of life is made up of what happens to you, 90% is decided by how you react"
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    Tsismis and chikka are for those walang magawa sa buhay. For me the most important is making money than tsismis. Pagkakaperahan ika nga. I really have no time for that as I work 10 hrs/day and my weekends is for my hubby touring around.
    All of us might be a victim of backstabbing. It depends on us how you handle and deal with it. Definitely not my weakness as you can still see my million dollar smile when we meet. I love to smile. I love to be close with my friends and most especially with enemies. As a saying goes, be close to your friends, be more close to your enemies.
    Just smile and don't take it seriously if you want to look younger. I have seen some people in their 30's with wrinkles already. They are so serious with being lonely and bored.


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    NOT GUILTY

    Even though I call you lot for everything to the missus
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    Quote Originally Posted by rusty View Post
    She

    The title of the thread was Tsismis, Chika, Back-Biting, Back-stabbing, Gossips etc etc, you were the one that assumed that it was chismis that I was referring to.
    so what are you refering to about tawi?

    you seem of taken offence to something he as posted?

    Quote Originally Posted by Win2Win View Post
    NOT GUILTY

    Even though I call you lot for everything to the missus
    you mean you swear at the computer screen a lot!!!
    i have learnt to do what my wife says!


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    Huh! what a thread!..
    Tsismis, chika,gossips are somehow related to each other. They are just done when two or more people are talking abt someone else's life. It is bad to one's ear if they're talking abt the negative side of that person but if it's about the good side, does it fall to any of these categories?

    Back-biting and back-stabbing are definitely has more weight than the ones above. These two can be done to a person who didn't do anything wrong to them. If the 3rd person's life or whereabouts is being talked about by two or more and this 3rd person doesn't have anything to do with these two, she doesn't talk to them, haven't met yet, no connection whatsoever but she is being talked about.. Does it fall to any of these categories?

    I suppose this happens to everyone of us in one way or another. It is just but natural to be upset and angry when you are being talked about by people you don't even know. What category shall this one fall under?

    " The people who mean something to your life are not rated "the best" don't have the most money, haven't won the greatest prizes....
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    i think that at one point or another everyone is guilty of chismis even men... my husband tells me stories of things that hubbys talk about while the wives are doing karaoke... not bad things but funny ones that dont really mean anything... my point is men talk too! and as for the others who voted not guilty, come on... think back in uni, with friends?? a passing conversation with a friend in town..? something that we might have made kwento to relatives at home..?
    i just cant believe that theres one person thats not guilty
    God grant me the serenity to accept the things i cannot change, the courage to change the things i can and the wisdom to hide the bodies of those people i had to kill because they pissed me off.


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    14 not guiltys

    only 6 guiltys

    maybe a poll on do we lie??
    i have learnt to do what my wife says!


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    Quote Originally Posted by bornatbirth View Post
    14 not guiltys

    only 6 guiltys

    maybe a poll on do we lie??


    Next poll, are you liar or not?


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    Quote Originally Posted by Mrs.JMajor View Post


    Next poll, are you liar or not?

    white liar (white lie i mean)


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