Tsismis and chikka are for those walang magawa sa buhay. For me the most important is making money than tsismis. Pagkakaperahan ika nga. I really have no time for that as I work 10 hrs/day and my weekends is for my hubby touring around.
All of us might be a victim of backstabbing. It depends on us how you handle and deal with it. Definitely not my weakness as you can still see my million dollar smile when we meet. I love to smile. I love to be close with my friends and most especially with enemies. As a saying goes, be close to your friends, be more close to your enemies.
Just smile and don't take it seriously if you want to look younger. I have seen some people in their 30's with wrinkles already. They are so serious with being lonely and bored.