there are actualy sites that name and shame known scammers a lot of it boils down to being to trusting ,believing all these so called storys as i have said before i am sure they are learnt in school ,the storys are all the same when i had girlfriends i would hear the same storys from all of them with just a variation on the theme

one of the best was [darling you have made me pregnant i am having your baby ????????? ] strange that as i had the chop 6 years ago GOODBYE