Good afternoon, and an update, as the days have gone by, and I certainly don’t want to be viewed
as a “one-post wonder”( I see how other’s are treated LOL).
I appreciate the comments posted, and as I asked for comments/thoughts, I’m not really in a position
to now criticize, but I’m certainly not comfortable with the “there’s many more fish in the sea”, or the
“throw that one back, there’s always another swimming passed” thoughts.
If that was/is the attitude, it’s no wonder so many relationships fail. The idea that, if someone doesn’t
bend to your will, or fit your ideals…. then it’s a case of “well, I guess I’ll find someone else” is abhorrent
to me. We might as well live in a “Stepford Wives” society.
A real relationship is about two people in a true partnership, both loving each other through the good
times & bad times, the highs and the lows …. and not for any other reason.
Anyway….. we’ve talked & talked, cried & laughed….. and we’ve decided to move forward TOGETHER,
hand-in-hand.
As the song goes … “for deep inside his heart he knew she was the only one”… I think applies to
both of us.
We’ve been honest with each other, perhaps even hurtful on the things we’ve said … but we are now
closer than ever.
I’ve even learned things about myself (from her point of view) which I wasn’t aware of ….as we are all
too aware, there are always two sides to every story.
She has opened up to me…. her fears, her apprehension, her worries…. And we’ve either addressed them
all, or are in the process of.
So …. once again, my thanks to ALL that commented.
(The more negative ones actually spurred me into a frame of mind to be even more determined that this
would work).
Take care one & all.
“Twenty thousand roads I went down, down, down
And they all lead me straight back home to you”
