If I were you I'd meet her somewhere else in Phils and stay away from potential family squabbles all together.
Iain.
LOL, i would have to agree
saves you from more trouble and headache in the future as well
but if you are set to this girl already, then be ready for whatever conflict your relationship may cause to the family and relatives....
"10% of life is made up of what happens to you, 90% is decided by how you react" "The way to love anything is to realize that it may be lost"