Thanks Tawi, I'm just being realistic. I was also surprised with a few responses to this post, but hey...

I don't condemn, because I have seen life in the Philippines. I can say my life is pretty boring compared to most people there -- I don't exactly have the colourful telenovela kind of life, but I was lead to listen to most people whose life experiences are second to impossibility. But their stories are only good because they fought, or atleast they tried. I hope Sheila would make her own story as good, whatever decision she might end up with.