But thats the thing,she isnt a hero,she isnt a heroine,she is a young woman,probably a single parent mother,certainly facing mental turmoil and anguish over her circumstances,we are lucky in this country,we cant empathise with her plight because we have a cushion,a social network that will always support us,but we could spare a few kind words for a kid who is going through something most of us cant even imagine,maybe I am getting soft in my old age,but life isnt good for everyone in this world,just because our experiences dont mesh with hers doesnt mean we should be harsh in words,a little sympathy costs absolutely nothing