hi to all citizens of filipino uk forum

[aphrodite78]

hi bernice_shiela,

welcome to the forum. i do understand your situation, we may have the same or different situation but i am here not to judge you. i got pregnant at 21 y.o. to a man i thought will be my first and last. it was very difficult at that time because all of a sudden a big responsibility landed on my lap i don't know what to do because he rarely showed himself and of course at that time i was naive, too much in love i went along with him with his stories. to cut the story short we parted ways because i learned that our marriage was bigamous so he just disappeared.

i kept on asking myself what is life really all about, life is crap until i met my british husband then he was still crap because he assaulted me, good thing my kids we're not with me that time, and then third time lucky my fiance now came along, accepted me and my kids and even willing to adopt them and now life is really good. now i keep on pinching myself and thinking sometimes this is going to end soon but four years on our relationship is still going strong. to top it all we are going to get married this august and we are going to celebrate it in the phils next year.

but it's your life it's your call, i was just citing myself as an example and it may or it may not affect your decision, all i can say is life can be really hard and tough but like what they said god will always provide, there will always be a lifeline waiting and lying around. if you could live on the decision that you are going to make and live without any regrets nor any resentment with the decision you are going make then go for it. all i can say is if you can ride out this storm you are going through you will come out really strong at the end of it. keep strong and god bless.

[Happy_Now]

It was sad that our governemnt is not good as the UK government. If you are only here young lady, being a single parent is not difficult in the Uk. The government will take care both of you. The more you have baby, the more money coming in. Thats why many couples didnt bother to get marry because they want to be as single parent
where infact in the Philippines if you become pregnant being single, "it was a disgrace of the family"... We cannot blame this young lady to give away her child. Maybe she had good reason but i agree with others, think very hard "ading".... I become a widow at the age of 32 with 4 kids on my shoulder without support from government or any benifits but i Praise God, my kids become very very proud of me, they love me and i love them so much
I wish and pray you can think very carefully. God bless

[Florge]

hi bernice_shiela,

welcome to the forum. i do understand your situation, we may have the same or different situation but i am here not to judge you. i got pregnant at 21 y.o. to a man i thought will be my first and last. it was very difficult at that time because all of a sudden a big responsibility landed on my lap i don't know what to do because he rarely showed himself and of course at that time i was naive, too much in love i went along with him with his stories. to cut the story short we parted ways because i learned that our marriage was bigamous so he just disappeared.

i kept on asking myself what is life really all about, life is crap until i met my british husband then he was still crap because he assaulted me, good thing my kids we're not with me that time, and then third time lucky my fiance now came along, accepted me and my kids and even willing to adopt them and now life is really good. now i keep on pinching myself and thinking sometimes this is going to end soon but four years on our relationship is still going strong. to top it all we are going to get married this august and we are going to celebrate it in the phils next year.

but it's your life it's your call, i was just citing myself as an example and it may or it may not affect your decision, all i can say is life can be really hard and tough but like what they said god will always provide, there will always be a lifeline waiting and lying around. if you could live on the decision that you are going to make and live without any regrets nor any resentment with the decision you are going make then go for it. all i can say is if you can ride out this storm you are going through you will come out really strong at the end of it. keep strong and god bless.

well said.. where in Manchester are you from? My bf is at Rose Bank Road... hope to see you soon? hehehe....

[aphrodite78]

well said.. where in Manchester are you from? My bf is at Rose Bank Road... hope to see you soon? hehehe....

hi,

i'm not too familiar w/ manchester but i'm from rochdale 20 mins away from the city of manchester. i'd love to meet my kababayan as well but never had time because i was so traumatized w/my previous partner, got over it now after 3 years. where is rose bank rd? thanks hope to see you as well

[Florge]

hi,

i'm not too familiar w/ manchester but i'm from rochdale 20 mins away from the city of manchester. i'd love to meet my kababayan as well but never had time because i was so traumatized w/my previous partner, got over it now after 3 years. where is rose bank rd? thanks hope to see you as well

Lancashire... I hope I'm giving you the correct answer... LOL

[jimeve]

Lancashire... I hope I'm giving you the correct answer... LOL

getting wider circle

[Florge]

getting wider circle

LOL... ok.. so let's go back to Rose Bank Road, Manchester then...

[aphrodite78]

Lancashire... I hope I'm giving you the correct answer... LOL

hmm, this is getting complicated. i think i'll settle for the first one then. i'll search it on google. thanks

[Tiggers0608]

I wonder what happen to bernice_sheila ..... threads getting longer now lol

[aromulus]

I wonder what happen to bernice_sheila ..... threads getting longer now lol

One post wonders......

[Sophie]

hi bernice_shiela,

welcome to the forum. i do understand your situation, we may have the same or different situation but i am here not to judge you. i got pregnant at 21 y.o. to a man i thought will be my first and last. it was very difficult at that time because all of a sudden a big responsibility landed on my lap i don't know what to do because he rarely showed himself and of course at that time i was naive, too much in love i went along with him with his stories. to cut the story short we parted ways because i learned that our marriage was bigamous so he just disappeared.

i kept on asking myself what is life really all about, life is crap until i met my british husband then he was still crap because he assaulted me, good thing my kids we're not with me that time, and then third time lucky my fiance now came along, accepted me and my kids and even willing to adopt them and now life is really good. now i keep on pinching myself and thinking sometimes this is going to end soon but four years on our relationship is still going strong. to top it all we are going to get married this august and we are going to celebrate it in the phils next year.

but it's your life it's your call, i was just citing myself as an example and it may or it may not affect your decision, all i can say is life can be really hard and tough but like what they said god will always provide, there will always be a lifeline waiting and lying around. if you could live on the decision that you are going to make and live without any regrets nor any resentment with the decision you are going make then go for it. all i can say is if you can ride out this storm you are going through you will come out really strong at the end of it. keep strong and god bless.

Very moving story you got aphrodite......i'm sure you will be an inspiration to those who are going through thesame thing now......
and that there's always hope...and things will eventually get better as long as you don't loose the will to carry on and roll with the punches....