Page 2 of 2 FirstFirst 12
Results 31 to 47 of 47

Thread: hi to all citizens of filipino uk forum

  1. 12th July 2009 #31
    jimeve
    jimeve is offline
    Respected Member jimeve's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jun 2007
    Location
    Bolton,lanc's uk
    Posts
    1,623
    Rep Power
    76
    Quote Originally Posted by Florge View Post
    Lancashire... I hope I'm giving you the correct answer... LOL
    getting wider circle

  2. 12th July 2009 #32
    Sophie
    Sophie is offline
    Respected Member
    Join Date
    Mar 2009
    Posts
    2,571
    Rep Power
    82
    Quote Originally Posted by aphrodite78 View Post
    hi bernice_shiela,

    welcome to the forum. i do understand your situation, we may have the same or different situation but i am here not to judge you. i got pregnant at 21 y.o. to a man i thought will be my first and last. it was very difficult at that time because all of a sudden a big responsibility landed on my lap i don't know what to do because he rarely showed himself and of course at that time i was naive, too much in love i went along with him with his stories. to cut the story short we parted ways because i learned that our marriage was bigamous so he just disappeared.

    i kept on asking myself what is life really all about, life is crap until i met my british husband then he was still crap because he assaulted me, good thing my kids we're not with me that time, and then third time lucky my fiance now came along, accepted me and my kids and even willing to adopt them and now life is really good. now i keep on pinching myself and thinking sometimes this is going to end soon but four years on our relationship is still going strong. to top it all we are going to get married this august and we are going to celebrate it in the phils next year.

    but it's your life it's your call, i was just citing myself as an example and it may or it may not affect your decision, all i can say is life can be really hard and tough but like what they said god will always provide, there will always be a lifeline waiting and lying around. if you could live on the decision that you are going to make and live without any regrets nor any resentment with the decision you are going make then go for it. all i can say is if you can ride out this storm you are going through you will come out really strong at the end of it. keep strong and god bless.
    Very moving story you got aphrodite......i'm sure you will be an inspiration to those who are going through thesame thing now......
    and that there's always hope...and things will eventually get better as long as you don't loose the will to carry on and roll with the punches....
    "10% of life is made up of what happens to you, 90% is decided by how you react"
    "The way to love anything is to realize that it may be lost"

  3. 12th July 2009 #33
    Florge
    Florge is offline
    Banned
    Join Date
    Feb 2009
    Location
    Manila; Davao; Manchester
    Posts
    1,557
    Rep Power
    0
    Send a message via MSN to Florge Send a message via Yahoo to Florge
    Quote Originally Posted by jimeve View Post
    getting wider circle
    LOL... ok.. so let's go back to Rose Bank Road, Manchester then...

  4. 13th July 2009 #34
    fred
    fred is offline
    Moderator fred's Avatar
    Join Date
    Feb 2006
    Location
    South,North East,somewhere.
    Posts
    11,485
    Rep Power
    150
    Quote Originally Posted by joebloggs View Post
    yes, maybe by someone who is bored and has nothing better to do, but sit under a plam tree all day


    Thats a very cynical attitude you are displaying there Joe..
    A plam tree you say??

  5. 15th July 2009 #35
    aphrodite78
    aphrodite78 is offline
    Respected Member aphrodite78's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jun 2009
    Location
    Manchester
    Posts
    224
    Rep Power
    59
    Quote Originally Posted by Florge View Post
    Lancashire... I hope I'm giving you the correct answer... LOL
    hmm, this is getting complicated. i think i'll settle for the first one then. i'll search it on google. thanks
    "Success is not about how much money you have; it's about the choices you can make in life"

  6. 15th July 2009 #36
    Tiggers0608
    Tiggers0608 is offline
    Respected Member Tiggers0608's Avatar
    Join Date
    Oct 2007
    Location
    Scotland
    Posts
    717
    Rep Power
    68


    I wonder what happen to bernice_sheila ..... threads getting longer now lol

  7. 25th July 2009 #37
    aromulus
    aromulus is offline
    Banned
    Join Date
    Feb 2006
    Location
    N. Wales, Wrexham
    Posts
    6,545
    Rep Power
    0
    Send a message via Yahoo to aromulus
    Quote Originally Posted by Tiggers0608 View Post


    I wonder what happen to bernice_sheila ..... threads getting longer now lol
    One post wonders......

  8. 25th July 2009 #38
    KeithD
    KeithD is offline
    Administrator KeithD's Avatar
    Join Date
    Dec 2004
    Location
    Denbigh, United Kingdom
    Posts
    24,054
    Rep Power
    150
    Quote Originally Posted by aromulus View Post
    One post wonders......
    We still wonder at your posts
    Keith - Administrator

  9. 25th July 2009 #39
    aposhark
    aposhark is offline
    Banned
    Join Date
    Mar 2008
    Location
    Where she is, is home!
    Posts
    2,397
    Rep Power
    0
    Quote Originally Posted by joebloggs View Post
    yes, maybe by someone who is bored and has nothing better to do, but sit under a plam tree all day


    Didn't know they had plum trees in Phils

    Think you hurt Fred's feelings there, Joe !

  10. 25th July 2009 #40
    aposhark
    aposhark is offline
    Banned
    Join Date
    Mar 2008
    Location
    Where she is, is home!
    Posts
    2,397
    Rep Power
    0
    Quote Originally Posted by gary2jessica View Post
    This post makes me angry. As 2 people had a night of passion you and you boyfriend cannot be bothered now. So much for Filipino family culture.

    Face up to responsibility&take care of your child.Money is not everything for what you need to take care of a child. I bet you have a big Filipino family. How did they all survive? Love&care and help from family.

    You insult many hardworking Filipinos with your disgusting attitude.They sacrifice in life so kids can get a good life.Get of your ass and help you kid.
    I agree 100%
    A woman takes her panties (knickers) off and now wants to get rid of the result.
    Well, the result is a baby.
    Yes, sex can make a baby......
    My wife has just had a miscarriage and we planned for a baby.
    This woman and so many like her makes me sick to my stomach.

    As many of you know, I am not religious in any way, but i believe in life and a moral responsibility.
    I bet her mother told her the facts of life, people just don't listen.

  11. 25th July 2009 #41
    Sophie
    Sophie is offline
    Respected Member
    Join Date
    Mar 2009
    Posts
    2,571
    Rep Power
    82
    Quote Originally Posted by aposhark View Post
    I agree 100%
    A woman takes her panties (knickers) off and now wants to get rid of the result.
    Well, the result is a baby.
    Yes, sex can make a baby......
    My wife has just had a miscarriage and we planned for a baby.
    This woman and so many like her makes me sick to my stomach.

    As many of you know, I am not religious in any way, but i believe in life and a moral responsibility.
    I bet her mother told her the facts of life, people just don't listen.
    Sorry to hear about your wife's miscarriage aposhark......There's always a next time.....
    I'm sure you'll be able to make more babies in the future.....
    "10% of life is made up of what happens to you, 90% is decided by how you react"
    "The way to love anything is to realize that it may be lost"

  12. 25th July 2009 #42
    aposhark
    aposhark is offline
    Banned
    Join Date
    Mar 2008
    Location
    Where she is, is home!
    Posts
    2,397
    Rep Power
    0
    Quote Originally Posted by Tawi2 View Post
    Piggy,can I just say your a true humanitarian,your husband must be very,very proud of you I read the other posts and was quite surprised,theres an old saying,never judge a person till you have walked a mile in their shoes,its probably taken a lot of guts for this young lady to sign-on and log-in,not one of us know what she is going through,or her circumstances,so not one of us can judge her,I felt her pain when I read her post,very,very sad,but I liked your response piggy I think you realise a little of the hardship of life,we cant obviously understand her motives,but you understand a little because of your vicarious experiences from your friend,I hope she resolves her problem,lifes hard sometimes,a little compassion goes a long way
    Is this woman being a humanitarian to her baby?

  13. 25th July 2009 #43
    aposhark
    aposhark is offline
    Banned
    Join Date
    Mar 2008
    Location
    Where she is, is home!
    Posts
    2,397
    Rep Power
    0
    Quote Originally Posted by aromulus View Post
    One post wonders......
    Yup..........

  14. 25th July 2009 #44
    Tawi2
    Tawi2 is offline
    Respected Member Tawi2's Avatar
    Join Date
    Apr 2009
    Location
    South Cotabato.
    Posts
    9,137
    Rep Power
    150
    I am not religious in any way shape nor form but we have all made mistakes in one form or another,I just didnt want to harshly judge a kid.



    Sometimes you're flush and sometimes you're bust, and when you're up, it's never as good as it seems, and when you're down, you never think you'll be up again. But life goes on.
    The beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the figure that she carries, or the way she combs her hair. The beauty of a woman is seen in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart, the place where love resides. True beauty in a woman is reflected in her soul. It's the passion that she shows to the outside world.

  15. 25th July 2009 #45
    aposhark
    aposhark is offline
    Banned
    Join Date
    Mar 2008
    Location
    Where she is, is home!
    Posts
    2,397
    Rep Power
    0
    Quote Originally Posted by Tawi2 View Post
    I am not religious in any way shape nor form but we have all made mistakes in one form or another,I just didnt want to harshly judge a kid.
    Yes, but she doing worse to her now unwanted baby - not even thinking of the consequences of her actions.

  16. 25th July 2009 #46
    Arthur Little
    Arthur Little is offline
    Moderator Arthur Little's Avatar
    Join Date
    Oct 2008
    Location
    City of Perth, Scotland
    Posts
    24,230
    Rep Power
    150
    Quote Originally Posted by aposhark View Post
    Yes, but she doing worse to her now unwanted baby - not even thinking of the consequences of her actions.
    I'm not one to judge, but I can well-understand your views, Mike. And may I say how very sorry I am to read about yours and Rochelyn's situation.

  17. 25th July 2009 #47
    aposhark
    aposhark is offline
    Banned
    Join Date
    Mar 2008
    Location
    Where she is, is home!
    Posts
    2,397
    Rep Power
    0
    Quote Originally Posted by Arthur Little View Post
    I'm not one to judge, but I can well-understand your views, Mike. And may I say how very sorry I am to read about yours and Rochelyn's situation.
    Thank you for your kind words, Arthur.
    Tears and silence give way to hope for the future.
    It's the only way.

    As I mentioned in my blog, I was so shocked to realise how many first pregnancies end in miscarriages.

    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Miscarriage

    It is very simple being a man in comparison.

Page 2 of 2 FirstFirst 12
« Previous Thread | Next Thread »

Thread Information

Users Browsing this Thread

There are currently 1 users browsing this thread. (0 members and 1 guests)

Similar Threads

  1. Finally found a filipino forum! - Newbie
    By Bikramyogi in forum Introduce Yourself
    Replies: 40
    Last Post: 3rd March 2013, 20:20
  2. Filipino UK Forum Ideas, Catergories, etc
    By KeithD in forum Loose Talk, Chat and Off Topic
    Replies: 62
    Last Post: 23rd December 2010, 05:07
  3. There's only one Filipino UK forum
    By triple5 in forum Loose Talk, Chat and Off Topic
    Replies: 28
    Last Post: 30th August 2010, 13:17
  4. foreign ownership of land, dual citizenship & foreigners becoming Filipino citizens
    By Andy in forum Legal Information
    Replies: 2
    Last Post: 23rd August 2008, 22:29

Tags for this Thread

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •  

Forum Rules


Filipino Forum : Philippine Forum