Best of luck on your upcoming visit to your new girl fitz
Cannot help you though about cagayan de oro stuff as i've never been there, but i'm sure many members here
who came from there would be able to share many inputs and ideas.....
But over all i think you have nothing to worry as filipinos are basically friendly and hospitable, whatever part of the country they come from,
so i'm sure you will be just fine....just enjoy your time and embrace the warm welcome