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    Quote Originally Posted by meandwifey View Post
    chatting for 1 week and she wants to marry you i bet she told you she is a virgin too
    Make that 2 weeks, and no she isn't!
    Some ppl need a chance, and 'tho I got caught out, I will not blame her for what the other one did!!
    Everybody deserves a chance in life.
    At least she asks me for nothing, and is intelligent, and spontaneous
    That has to stand for something, don't you think???
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    Quote Originally Posted by Sophie View Post
    LOL, a week is quite fast fitz....
    It's always best to date longer and get to know each other more first before taking a big step into the marriage thing
    Indeed Sophie, but I must stress at this stage, that it is only her wish
    I will see her in August for two weeks, then return in march to see my friend get married, and if all goes well, we will perhaps make our plans for my next visit, so it will be at least a year before I commit myself
    She has to like me too of course lol, but she is so sweet, and laughs at my dumb jokes
    Somebody has to put up with me after all
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    will sooner or later is the same but its up to you how you feel to each other.
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    Marry in haste repent at leisure I think a five year courtship,followed by a similarly long engagement should be mandatory to stop either party from making any hasty decisions



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    Quote Originally Posted by Tawi2 View Post
    Marry in haste repent at leisure I think a five year courtship,followed by a similarly long engagement should be mandatory to stop either party from making any hasty decisions
    So, the wedding will be when I'm 56 then!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Fitzy View Post
    Indeed Sophie, but I must stress at this stage, that it is only her wish
    I will see her in August for two weeks, then return in march to see my friend get married, and if all goes well, we will perhaps make our plans for my next visit, so it will be at least a year before I commit myself
    She has to like me too of course lol, but she is so sweet, and laughs at my dumb jokes
    Somebody has to put up with me after all
    LOL, i'm sure you're not so bad fitz and i bet this girl will like you for who you are....not just put up with you, lol, give yourself a little credit, lol
    And it's good you're taking your time until next year to commit yourself into the marriage thing, that way you get to know each other better...
    But if you decide to take the plunge sooner than planned, well and good too,
    as long as both of you are 100% sure of your feelings for each other and ready to take on the next big step into marriage
    "10% of life is made up of what happens to you, 90% is decided by how you react"
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    Not necessarily,after the five years courtship,and five years engagement you might decide your not suited and begin your quest again anyway 56 is ok,its still a kid the time to worry is if your in your 80's or 90's,then I think time is the big issue



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    Quote Originally Posted by Tawi2 View Post
    Marry in haste repent at leisure I think a five year courtship,followed by a similarly long engagement should be mandatory to stop either party from making any hasty decisions
    Ideally, five-year courtship and five-year engagement
    "10% of life is made up of what happens to you, 90% is decided by how you react"
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    Its for his own good Soph,its not good that pinays think UK guys are too "Easy" its bad for our reputation as the most conservative western guys



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    Quote Originally Posted by Tawi2 View Post
    anyway 56 is ok,its still a kid
    and i thought 20's is a kid, lol
    "10% of life is made up of what happens to you, 90% is decided by how you react"
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    Quote Originally Posted by Tawi2 View Post
    Its for his own good Soph,its not good that pinays think UK guys are too "Easy" its bad for our reputation as the most conservative western guys
    Ok, if you say so, lol
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    20's is a kid for women,50's is still a kid for guys,havent you noticed they never seem to grow up They still have their childish little moments



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    Quote Originally Posted by Tawi2 View Post
    20's is a kid for women,50's is still a kid for guys,havent you noticed they never seem to grow up They still have their childish little moments
    very well said tawi2
    As the saying goes "people don't change, they just get older", so can i also apply thesame to men? "Men don't grow up, they just get older?"
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    marriage before you have never met mugs game


    i remember the then gf stating that her dream was to get married when she was 25 [she was 22 at the time] so i stated i wont marry you when your 25 your be to old but i will marry you when your 24


    AND WE DID


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    All great replies
    She offered to take me white water rafting.
    Can't wait lol
    I must say that she certainly is a funny character, and not at all stale, and moody, but full of life and happiness
    Let's hope some of it rubs of on old grumpy here. lol

    Am sure that we will have a great time chilling out in Aug, but meeting family always makes me nervous
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    Quote Originally Posted by Sophie View Post
    LOL, i'm sure you're not so bad fitz and i bet this girl will like you for who you are....not just put up with you, lol, give yourself a little credit, lol
    And it's good you're taking your time until next year to commit yourself into the marriage thing, that way you get to know each other better...
    But if you decide to take the plunge sooner than planned, well and good too,
    as long as both of you are 100% sure of your feelings for each other and ready to take on the next big step into marriage
    Indeed so
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