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    Quote Originally Posted by jam07 View Post
    Just want to know the stand of the married couples (and singles) here.

    Ladies, do you prefer to be a plain housewife or do you want to have a professional career as well? Guys, do you want your wife to stay at home and take care of the kids (and you ) or do you want her to have a career as well?
    Hello,
    With my wife and I, we are still waiting for her settlement visa but if possible she wants to work to give her the independance to be able to send money home without asking me.
    As I have just retired I will happly become the "House Husband".
    Mick.


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    Quote Originally Posted by mickcant View Post
    Hello,
    With my wife and I, we are still waiting for her settlement visa but if possible she wants to work to give her the independance to be able to send money home without asking me.
    As I have just retired I will happly become the "House Husband".
    Mick.
    Ironing, cooking, cleaning the house, etc. that's sweet of you
    Not an expert, I only try to help.


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    Quote Originally Posted by LadyJ View Post
    Ironing, cooking, cleaning the house, etc. that's sweet of you
    Hi Lady,
    Yes I will do all that except the ironing, I drip dry insted!
    And with the cooking that will also mean I do not have fish and rice every meal
    Mick.


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    i wanted to work but my husband wants me to stay home...
    God grant me the serenity to accept the things i cannot change, the courage to change the things i can and the wisdom to hide the bodies of those people i had to kill because they pissed me off.


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    Quote Originally Posted by maria_and_matt View Post
    i wanted to work but my husband wants me to stay home...
    you listen to your husband

    my misses doesn't listen to anything i say


    but she does what she wants, works part time, studying, cooking, cleaning, looking after the kids and sleeping


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    Quote Originally Posted by joebloggs View Post
    you listen to your husband

    my misses doesn't listen to anything i say


    but she does what she wants, works part time, studying, cooking, cleaning, looking after the kids and sleeping
    i have to listen if i dont bad things will happen to me
    God grant me the serenity to accept the things i cannot change, the courage to change the things i can and the wisdom to hide the bodies of those people i had to kill because they pissed me off.


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    Quote Originally Posted by maria_and_matt View Post
    i wanted to work but my husband wants me to stay home...
    Lucky you...you have all the time in the world to enjoy the UK. That would be fantastic too if you have friends around who are also not working so you can do some chika chika anytime.


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    Quote Originally Posted by miss.piggy View Post
    Lucky you...you have all the time in the world to enjoy the UK. That would be fantastic too if you have friends around who are also not working so you can do some chika chika anytime.
    its boring now been here at home for 9 years
    God grant me the serenity to accept the things i cannot change, the courage to change the things i can and the wisdom to hide the bodies of those people i had to kill because they pissed me off.


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    Quote Originally Posted by LadyJ View Post
    Ironing, cooking, cleaning the house, etc. that's sweet of you
    Hi LadyJ,

    Nice to see we are appreciated!

    The stereotype of a man who cannot do these things or equally the one of the helpless woman who cannot put a shelf up has gone these days in my opinion.
    There are some women who are very capable at practical things, and there are some men who can "iron, cook and clean the house".

    When my wife sees me wash the dishes sometimes, she says "are you a woman, dear", but she is the first one to tell her Filipina friends that I do a lot of cooking for her.

    However, I think it is rather nice to see my wife cook for me, maybe it is something that harkens back to our ancestors and what we perceive.
    It seems that the boundaries of male/female roles have blurred over the last 50 years as people live increasingly single lives.


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    Quote Originally Posted by mickcant View Post
    As I have just retired I will happly become the "House Husband".
    Mick.
    LOL a "HOUSEBAND" for a change
    "10% of life is made up of what happens to you, 90% is decided by how you react"
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    Quote Originally Posted by Sophie View Post
    LOL a "HOUSEBAND" for a change
    sounds like your fate is set ..... you will be HOUSEBOUND for eternity


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    Quote Originally Posted by meandwifey View Post
    sounds like your fate is set ..... you will be HOUSEBOUND for eternity
    LOL, that's a scary thought.....and would drive anyone insane, lol
    "10% of life is made up of what happens to you, 90% is decided by how you react"
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    Quote Originally Posted by Sophie View Post
    LOL a "HOUSEBAND" for a change
    bit of luck i might be housebond to

    the misses can earn alot more than me


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    Quote Originally Posted by joebloggs View Post
    bit of luck i might be housebond to

    the misses can earn alot more than me
    LOL, why not? It doesn't hurt to turn the tables around for a change, lol
    "10% of life is made up of what happens to you, 90% is decided by how you react"
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    Quote Originally Posted by Sophie View Post
    LOL, why not? It doesn't hurt to turn the tables around for a change, lol
    oh shes always worn the trousers in the house,, we and me dog know our place.. under the table

    she will have to show me how to use the microwave thou, i'm waiting for her to come back from the school play, so she can warm me tea up


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    Quote Originally Posted by joebloggs View Post
    oh shes always worn the trousers in the house,, we and me dog know our place.. under the table

    she will have to show me how to use the microwave thou, i'm waiting for her to come back from the school play, so she can warm me tea up
    LOL, so much for the "houseband" huh
    "10% of life is made up of what happens to you, 90% is decided by how you react"
    "The way to love anything is to realize that it may be lost"


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