We have discussed this as well. He said it's my choice whatever will make me happy. I said i am happy if i have THESE..just a part time job, have time at home, have time for leisure..
Now if i don't have a full time job, i can't accumulate much when i retire. I'm not after any material things if ever i won't have those when i retire but he has an initiative, he said all his properties and pension will automatically be mine. I said i'm not thinking of that.... whatever will be, will be...(QUE SERA SERA)... but if ever i don't have any when he retires then i will pull his feet if he is in bed sleeping.....