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    Got my Provisional Licence but can't drive my husband's car :(

    Yesterday i received my provisional driving licence.. me and my husband were both happy. He decided to put me in his car insurance so i will be able to drive his car with him. Last night we were talking about it and thinking possible places that i can drive without other cars coming in.

    Then my husband just called me and told me that i'm not allowed to drive his car even i have my prov licence or even if i'll have my full licence in a year. Because his car is a sporty car

    The insurance won't accept me Mind them, i'm a better driver than them i'm pretty sure


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    Quote Originally Posted by adam&chryss View Post
    Yesterday i received my provisional driving licence.. me and my husband were both happy. He decided to put me in his car insurance so i will be able to drive his car with him. Last night we were talking about it and thinking possible places that i can drive without other cars coming in.

    Then my husband just called me and told me that i'm not allowed to drive his car even i have my prov licence or even if i'll have my full licence in a year. Because his car is a sporty car

    The insurance won't accept me Mind them, i'm a better driver than them i'm pretty sure
    time to get another car???


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    Quote Originally Posted by miss.piggy View Post
    time to get another car???
    That's what i told hubby! but of course i'm just joking.. money is tight specially when you have kids.
    Guess i need to wait a little more before i can drive here in UK.


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    Quote Originally Posted by adam&chryss View Post
    That's what i told hubby! but of course i'm just joking.. money is tight specially when you have kids.
    Guess i need to wait a little more before i can drive here in UK.
    Know what...driving is good. It gives you some sort of freedom.

    Perhaps you can get some sort of second hand really cost effective small car? Anyways...hope you get to drive the soonest -- safely!


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    Quote Originally Posted by miss.piggy View Post
    time to get another car???
    time to get another hubby







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    Lets not jump the gun. I`ve found another insurance company and transferred it as from midnight tonight. No problem just a shock that Tescos insurance wouldnt cover Chryss. Maybe they`ve seen her drive
    Anyway, me mam works for NFU insurance and they covered us both for an increase of just £60 for the year. Also the excess is less too.
    Adam


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    Quote Originally Posted by Ann07 View Post
    with my ds so handy
    Quote Originally Posted by LadyJ View Post
    Yeap, just keep reading and learning and reading and learning.. Only yourself can tell if you're confident to take your test or not.

    A lots of free videos and websites to read about theory test, just bare in your mind the hazard perception is a bit tricky so give yourself of extra time learning it.
    Quote Originally Posted by LadyJ View Post
    For me is not really good idea to learn driving then stop then go back learn driving again, dont leave gap in between of your driving lessons, as you have chance to forget what you learned, it willl only cost you more money and time!

    I did 2hrs per week starting late May 2008 then passed my driving test Middle of Sept 2008 so I did in total of 31 hrs of driving lessons, I also spread the cost of my driving so it doesnt hurt in my pocket

    Goodluck to you too!
    Quote Originally Posted by LadyJ View Post
    I bought cd from ebay, i borrowed books from friends, I watched free videos online (youtube), I read what people says in learning driving forum, etc etc, you know it's like applying a visa to UK. it's not easy but it's all worth it!
    Quote Originally Posted by Ann07 View Post
    You are very resourcefull Anne
    Thanks for your advices Anne & Ann! Very helpful. I wish to drive soon too as I'm longing for independence too lol... I love driving in the PI (oh yes!) but hehe, I'm a bit worry to drive here as there are so many laws and restrictions hahaha and you can't pay the police. lol


    Quote Originally Posted by bornatbirth View Post
    get yourself a small secondhand car like a 1 litre and insure in your hubbys name and add your name too it!
    Would love to buy another car...


    Quote Originally Posted by trader dave View Post
    JUST A QUICK TALE AND A WORD OF WARNING TO ALL FILIPINAS WHO ARE GOING TO DRIVE
    PUT YOUR CELLPHONE IN THE BOOT
    my ex wife had hers in a bag in the footwell of the passengers seat she was driving at 60mph and tryed to reach over to answer the call lost control of the car went down an embankment rolled the car 8 times the roof was squased right down to the headrest only the fact that she was so short or her head would have been flattened my 8 yr old son was in the back the emergency services was amazed they walked away injury free GOD WAS SMILING ON THEM
    just a word of caution guys
    Oh my momma, that was miracle! (and good thing she's short too , saved her life) Yep, never ever answer calls & send text messages! Lots of road accidents involve mobile phones


    Quote Originally Posted by joebloggs View Post
    time to get another hubby
    Lol, that's not an option


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    Quote Originally Posted by adam&chryss View Post
    Yesterday i received my provisional driving licence.. me and my husband were both happy. He decided to put me in his car insurance so i will be able to drive his car with him. Last night we were talking about it and thinking possible places that i can drive without other cars coming in.

    Then my husband just called me and told me that i'm not allowed to drive his car even i have my prov licence or even if i'll have my full licence in a year. Because his car is a sporty car

    The insurance won't accept me Mind them, i'm a better driver than them i'm pretty sure
    LOL, don't worry, your time will come chryss and you will be able to drive your way in the UK
    "10% of life is made up of what happens to you, 90% is decided by how you react"
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    Quote Originally Posted by adam&chryss View Post
    Yesterday i received my provisional driving licence.. me and my husband were both happy. He decided to put me in his car insurance so i will be able to drive his car with him. Last night we were talking about it and thinking possible places that i can drive without other cars coming in.

    Then my husband just called me and told me that i'm not allowed to drive his car even i have my prov licence or even if i'll have my full licence in a year. Because his car is a sporty car

    The insurance won't accept me Mind them, i'm a better driver than them i'm pretty sure


    hehe... same here...
    Blame those boyracers!!! lol


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    Quote Originally Posted by adam&chryss View Post
    Yesterday i received my provisional driving licence.. me and my husband were both happy. He decided to put me in his car insurance so i will be able to drive his car with him. Last night we were talking about it and thinking possible places that i can drive without other cars coming in.

    Then my husband just called me and told me that i'm not allowed to drive his car even i have my prov licence or even if i'll have my full licence in a year. Because his car is a sporty car

    The insurance won't accept me Mind them, i'm a better driver than them i'm pretty sure
    COngrats Sis
    If you really want a car you can get a nice second hand car which is in excellent condition and that depends on your budget

    Goodluck
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    same here sis.what i did is i enrolled in a driving school so that i could drive.good thing the instructor is a family freind so it dont cost that much.am saving as well so that i could have my own small car.


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    Quote Originally Posted by miss.piggy View Post
    Know what...driving is good. It gives you some sort of freedom.

    Perhaps you can get some sort of second hand really cost effective small car? Anyways...hope you get to drive the soonest -- safely!
    yep! i really miss driving.. specially when i'm not doing anything here at home. it will be nice if i could just drive with my lil boy sometime while hubby's at work and kuya's at school.

    Quote Originally Posted by Sophie View Post
    LOL, don't worry, your time will come chryss and you will be able to drive your way in the UK
    thanks sophie! i can still wait anyway

    Quote Originally Posted by Jay&Zobel View Post
    hehe... same here...
    Blame those boyracers!!! lol


    Quote Originally Posted by Ann07 View Post
    COngrats Sis
    If you really want a car you can get a nice second hand car which is in excellent condition and that depends on your budget

    Goodluck
    thanks sis!
    it will be best if i can drive hubby's car and then hubby can ride a bus going to and from work

    Quote Originally Posted by estherboaz View Post
    same here sis.what i did is i enrolled in a driving school so that i could drive.good thing the instructor is a family freind so it dont cost that much.am saving as well so that i could have my own small car.
    browsing net now for driving schools


    Does anyone know, if i could take my theory test first before my driving lessons?


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    Quote Originally Posted by adam&chryss View Post

    Does anyone know, if i could take my theory test first before my driving lessons?
    My advice to you is to pass your theory test first before learning to drive, the certificate is valid up to 2 yrs, you'll have plenty time for your driving lessons.

    This is what I Did! because the theory test fee, driving lessons fees, utility bills etc are too expensive and also less stress if you focus in one thing first if you do it step by step! Remember you still have kids, husband and house and work to look after when you study your driving.

    I passed both theory and driving test first time as I took plenty time to study and concentrate one-by-one. I was ups downs situation but enjoyable and less stress!

    Goodluck
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    Quote Originally Posted by LadyJ View Post
    My advice to you is to pass your theory test first before learning to drive, the certificate is valid up to 2 yrs, you'll have plenty time for your driving lessons.

    This is what I Did! because the theory test fee, driving lessons fees, utility bills etc are too expensive and also less stress if you focus in one thing first if you do it step by step! Remember you still have kids, husband and house and work to look after when you study your driving.

    I passed both theory and driving test first time as I took plenty time to study and concentrate one-by-one.

    Goodluck
    oh thank you!

    i'll start reading my theory test book then

    they also have a free trial theory test online, which i register yesterday.


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    Quote Originally Posted by adam&chryss View Post
    oh thank you!

    i'll start reading my theory test book then

    they also have a free trial theory test, which i register yesterday.
    Yeap, just keep reading and learning and reading and learning.. Only yourself can tell if you're confident to take your test or not.

    A lots of free videos and websites to read about theory test, just bare in your mind the hazard perception is a bit tricky so give yourself of extra time learning it.
    Not an expert, I only try to help.


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    Quote Originally Posted by adam&chryss View Post
    oh thank you!

    i'll start reading my theory test book then

    they also have a free trial theory test online, which i register yesterday.
    Aye, that online trial sis is a good idea i did that too and is exactly the same with my ds...
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    Quote Originally Posted by LadyJ View Post
    My advice to you is to pass your theory test first before learning to drive, the certificate is valid up to 2 yrs, you'll have plenty time for your driving lessons.

    This is what I Did! because the theory test fee, driving lessons fees, utility bills etc are too expensive and also less stress if you focus in one thing first if you do it step by step! Remember you still have kids, husband and house and work to look after when you study your driving.

    I passed both theory and driving test first time as I took plenty time to study and concentrate one-by-one. I was ups downs situation but enjoyable and less stress!

    Goodluck
    Nice advice Anne
    Id been studying my theory test for months now before i had the baby( with my ds so handy) then go back again to driving lessons after the baby

    Goodluck again sis
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    Quote Originally Posted by Ann07 View Post
    Nice advice Anne
    Id been studying my theory test for months now before i had the baby( with my ds so handy) then go back again to driving lessons after the baby

    Goodluck again sis
    For me is not really good idea to learn driving then stop then go back learn driving again, dont leave gap in between of your driving lessons, as you have chance to forget what you learned, it willl only cost you more money and time!

    I did 2hrs per week starting late May 2008 then passed my driving test Middle of Sept 2008 so I did in total of 31 hrs of driving lessons, I also spread the cost of my driving so it doesnt hurt in my pocket

    Goodluck to you too!
    Not an expert, I only try to help.


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    Iin my experienced, I hold under 1 yr full driving licence and my husband upgrade his car to a new-ish Audi unfortunately, his insurance for almost 5 yrs(Direct Line) didn't want me to insure because its 'too nice for me to drive' so what my husband did was left the Direct Line paid £60+ becuase he was in contract and found a new insurance who can insure me to his car which is ASDA.

    It's sad but nothing we can do.

    Goodluck to you Adam&Chryss
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    Quote Originally Posted by LadyJ View Post
    Iin my experienced, I hold under 1 yr full driving licence and my husband upgrade his car to a new-ish Audi unfortunately, his insurance for almost 5 yrs(Direct Line) didn't want me to insure because its 'too nice for me to drive' so what my husband did was left the Direct Line paid £60+ becuase he was in contract and found a new insurance who can insure me to his car which is ASDA.

    It's sad but nothing we can do.

    Goodluck to you Adam&Chryss
    thanks sis!

    my husband will sort that out later when he comes home from work.. and we will talk about it too


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    I bought cd from ebay, i borrowed books from friends, I watched free videos online (youtube), I read what people says in learning driving forum, etc etc, you know it's like applying a visa to UK. it's not easy but it's all worth it!
    Not an expert, I only try to help.


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    Quote Originally Posted by LadyJ View Post
    I bought cd from ebay, i borrowed books from friends, I watched free videos online (youtube), I read what people says in learning driving forum, etc etc, you know it's like applying a visa to UK. it's not easy but it's all worth it!
    You are very resourcefull Anne
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    Quote Originally Posted by Ann07 View Post
    You are very resourcefull Anne
    thanks! just love to share my experiences.
    Not an expert, I only try to help.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Ann07 View Post
    You are right wahhhhh( i did few lessons only). Got no choice got a big bump at that time so need to stop will carry on next month hopefully.Prior to that my father in law does the lesson for me and soon back to my instructor. Thats what i will be doing 2 hrs a week. Aye, money money cost us a lot
    truelily!

    Quote Originally Posted by LadyJ View Post
    I bought cd from ebay, i borrowed books from friends, I watched free videos online (youtube), I read what people says in learning driving forum, etc etc, you know it's like applying a visa to UK. it's not easy but it's all worth it!
    yep! i'll do the same thing, thanks

    Quote Originally Posted by Ann07 View Post
    You are very resourcefull Anne


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    trouble is that putting your name on his insurance,they think the car is for you only and they charge a lot more to cover both of you?

    get yourself a small secondhand car like a 1 litre and insure in your hubbys name and add your name too it!

    btw i think its best you get some lessons first without your hubby there!

    i took my wife to a quiet road to try my car for the first time as she can already drive...well lets put it like this,i think a few refresher lessons are needed!!!
    i have learnt to do what my wife says!


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    Quote Originally Posted by bornatbirth View Post
    btw i think its best you get some lessons first without your hubby there!

    i took my wife to a quiet road to try my car for the first time as she can already drive...well lets put it like this,i think a few refresher lessons are needed!!!
    I think that's expected, if she is driving in the philippines which is left hand drive while it's the opposite here in uk,
    so she needs to re-adjust what she's been used to, not to mention getting on the right side of the road, lol
    and also driving here should be quicker and faster as there's no traffic, lol,
    manila is a traffic zone, so you get used to a more slow-pace driving there....
    unlike here, you don't see any heavy traffic on main roads....well atleast from where i live, lol, not sure about the others......
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    Quote Originally Posted by bornatbirth View Post
    trouble is that putting your name on his insurance,they think the car is for you only and they charge a lot more to cover both of you?

    get yourself a small secondhand car like a 1 litre and insure in your hubbys name and add your name too it!

    btw i think its best you get some lessons first without your hubby there!

    i took my wife to a quiet road to try my car for the first time as she can already drive...well lets put it like this,i think a few refresher lessons are needed!!!
    Quote Originally Posted by Sophie View Post
    I think that's expected, if she is driving in the philippines which is left hand drive while it's the opposite here in uk,
    so she needs to re-adjust what she's been used to, not to mention getting on the right side of the road, lol
    and also driving here should be quicker and faster as there's no traffic, lol,
    manila is a traffic zone, so you get used to a more slow-pace driving there....
    unlike here, you don't see any heavy traffic on main roads....well atleast from where i live, lol, not sure about the others......
    will start that tonight, after hubby get back from work


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    Quote Originally Posted by bornatbirth View Post
    trouble is that putting your name on his insurance,they think the car is for you only and they charge a lot more to cover both of you?

    get yourself a small secondhand car like a 1 litre and insure in your hubbys name and add your name too it!

    btw i think its best you get some lessons first without your hubby there!

    i took my wife to a quiet road to try my car for the first time as she can already drive...well lets put it like this,i think a few refresher lessons are needed!!!
    Regarding the Insurance

    Thats what many people with their children or new drivers do but just be aware i belive that can void the insurance.
    Ie saying in the Hubby or parents name but really the first driver is a newly qualfied person.

    They may never found out but if the insurance company find out you use that car everyday taking it to work or college etc.

    Its just the usual heads up and thousands of couples and families im sure do it and never have any problems.
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    Quote Originally Posted by trader dave View Post
    JUST A QUICK TALE AND A WORD OF WARNING TO ALL FILIPINAS WHO ARE GOING TO DRIVE


    PUT YOUR CELLPHONE IN THE BOOT

    my ex wife had hers in a bag in the footwell of the passengers seat she was driving at 60mph and tryed to reach over to answer the call lost control of the car went down an embankment rolled the car 8 times the roof was squased right down to the headrest only the fact that she was so short or her head would have been flattened my 8 yr old son was in the back the emergency services was amazed they walked away injury free GOD WAS SMILING ON THEM

    just a word of caution guys
    They're indeed lucky! Hope she learned a lesson
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    Insurance companies ALWAYS find a way to charge you more. When I split with my ex, I had her taken off the insurance and my premiums went UP, as they allegedly give a discount for married coupkles which is then removed cos I was single!!
    I'm the same driver, with the same car and shoudl have th same risk, but they still put my premiums UP.


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