Hi LastViking,
As others have pointed out, it will be difficult for you but there is a chance that you will fall head over heels with your lady and you will have to make decisions after meeting her.
It is an expensive business, yes, but the expense is nothing compared to the love that she will send your way if things work out.
Just be prepared to spend a lot of money and visit her a few times as you go down the fiancee or marriage route.
Remember to keep all copies of letters, emails, flight stubs and hotel bills as soon as possible as these will be required for your visa later.
See how you feel about her when you are there and bring back a Filipino sim card with roaming activated before you leave the Phils, as this will enable her to text you very cheaply whilst she is waiting back there.
One day you could be with her in the UK and you will not regret your forward planning.
Meeting her will make your decisions easier !!!!!
Best of luck.
