yeah..we are willing to pay for the processing but then what just stopped us from doing so is that when my hubby asked the police (because most of the legal papers are directed to the police in their country) they also provided him an information that we will not be able to process the residence permit unless i am already there.. so we are just worried that might be we will be paying twice for the residence permit.. i also dont want that to happen for money is not that easy to find right now and just giving it to someone without assurance of the legality of the papers will not be a good action... siggghhh!