When I lived in Hong Kong I had a teacher,criminologist,accountant and a engineer as girlfriends,thousands of educated pinays live there,many with uber-strong personalities,just attend social BBQ's parties etc,it is very,very easy to strike up a conversation,I am sure some of your friends in Honkers are married to pinays with single female relatives?All my mates there had pinay,thai or Indo wives,good luck with your search