Doh.. Insulted my girl!

[Northerner]

Actually she was extremely ashamed to mention her financial difficulties and I had a hard time explaining her that we both had plans for marriage and it was just normal that I give her some peace of mind and this morning she went to Western Union and immediately after to NSO. And she'll have enough to buy some nice stuff for my visit in September....

Well, you've made a commitment and although she was ashamed to tell you about her financial problems, I bet your stepping in has further confirmed (to her) how you intend to keep her secure throughout your life together!

:sport-smiley-003:

[bornatbirth]

do you want a little tip?

your gfs may say they are ok with money but really they need a little help.

i think they dont like to say,so you dont think bad of them!

[whiteraven]

quite true, self esteem very important to most filipinas, as it should be.

[Northerner]

do you want a little tip?

your gfs may say they are ok with money but really they need a little help.

i think they dont like to say,so you dont think bad of them!

Thanks for the tip.. I'll remember that for the future!

[Mrs.JMajor]

baka nagpapakipot lang but she really wanted you to buy one.

Dont misinterpret with our comments,(take it as a joke) I think of the same thing wheela , but what i thought of...baka chika lang yon ... padama muna ..

[aposhark]

Ah ah, five years younger than me but much wiser....

My God, she needed p 3.000, why did I send her 40.000???? Oh well she'll find a way to spend them!

Be CAREFUL !!!!

[jam07]

Ah ah, five years younger than me but much wiser....

My God, she needed p 3.000, why did I send her 40.000???? Oh well she'll find a way to spend them!

how did she react when she knew you sent that huge amount?
pacific, the amount you gave her is way too much. just be careful okay?

[NtoN]

baka nagpapakipot lang but she really wanted you to buy one.

hmmmmm...pwede

[Florge]

I will have one of the brothers then I am not exactly fussy at the moment,just desperate Plus I get a rich benefactor as my bro-in-law

I knew it!!! it's confirmed!!!

[Mrs Daddy]

Dont misinterpret with our comments,(take it as a joke) I think of the same thing wheela , but what i thought of...baka chika lang yon ... padama muna ..

kasi pakipot then me

[Mrs Daddy]

hmmmmm...pwede

pwedeng pwede

[Tawi2]

I knew it!!! it's confirmed!!!

Heyyyyyyyyyyyyyy

[aposhark]

Had a quick rethink,I dont want to share my razor with another guy,and their habits would drive me wild,toilet seat left up,dirty socks on the bedroom floor,dont clean the bath after themselves.............The list goes on,enough to put me off guys for life,oh well,my quest continues I guess

I clean up and and don't do any of those things, but you'll be pleased to know I am happily married...............but still waiting for her to cook adobo for me.......grrr........maybe I'm too soft

[Northerner]

I clean up and and don't do any of those things, but you'll be pleased to know I am happily married...............but still waiting for her to cook adobo for me.......grrr........maybe I'm too soft

Heartbreaker

[dontpushme]

good advice, mine didnt ask for money at any point until it came to making wedding arrangements. having tried web dating sites in the past it becomes apparent very quickly when someone is scamming or genuine.

I have a question that I've never found a logical and satisfying answer to. Why in the world do these women ask for money to send to their families in return for giving you their love? I'm a woman, but I was raised in a family where we don't rely on outside sources of income. Maybe it's just pride, but I would rather rot than ask someone to be my constant source of money to support ten aunts, seventeen cousins, thirteen siblings, parents, and whomever else is looking for easy money (who probably don't have enough sense to invest the money properly anyway). I know they're all hard workers, but why would your family ask for a handout just because your partner has more money?

I'm not trying to be negative, but I could never understand the whole concept of the "i'll be your wife so please show me you love me by sending cash to my family back home every so often" thing. I have friends who decided to go down that path but i can't wrap my mind around it.

[aposhark]

................you will find they are more than sensitive at first and you need to be prepared to saying sorry alot?

..........and when you are married you will have to say "sorry" a lot more........

[dontpushme]

..........and when you are married you will have to say "sorry" a lot more........

That's a guy's lot in life though. You don't have to give birth to your children, so you better accept who really wears the pants in the family.

[aposhark]

I have a question that I've never found a logical and satisfying answer to. Why in the world do these women ask for money to send to their families in return for giving you their love? I'm a woman, but I was raised in a family where we don't rely on outside sources of income. Maybe it's just pride, but I would rather rot than ask someone to be my constant source of money to support ten aunts, seventeen cousins, thirteen siblings, parents, and whomever else is looking for easy money (who probably don't have enough sense to invest the money properly anyway). I know they're all hard workers, but why would your family ask for a handout just because your partner has more money?

I'm not trying to be negative, but I could never understand the whole concept of the "i'll be your wife so please show me you love me by sending cash to my family back home every so often" thing. I have friends who decided to go down that path but i can't wrap my mind around it.

Poverty makes people do all sorts of things, dontpushme.
Prostitution is all about money.
You sound educated and probably come from a good family, unfortunately not everyone does.
We should be thankful for our comfortable lives in comparison to others.
There are also greedy people everywhere who have money and just take more from anyone.

[aposhark]

That's a guy's lot in life though. You don't have to give birth to your children, so you better accept who really wears the pants in the family.

On the other hand, if a man is responsible, he knows he should have to work for his family, especially if his wife brings up children.
I much prefer my wife to wear dresses too, much more feminine

[dontpushme]

On the other hand, if a man is responsible, he knows he should have to work for his family, especially if his wife brings up children.
I much prefer my wife to wear dresses too, much more feminine

Good point!

And I think if guys learned from their mistakes, they'd be saying "sorry" a lot less. Not to say it's easy to decipher women.