My X-Partner has a boyfriend now.
My X-Partner has a boyfriend now.
I'm sorry to say it, but its not going to be easy. Unrequited love can be incredibly painful.
IMHO, if you are able, I think it helps not to feel bitter about things, and to wish your ex the best with their new life and new partner, rather than wishing they were with you.
That hole inside you is going to take a while to fill up tho. :(
Don't make promises when you are in JOY. Don't reply when you are SAD.
Don't take decisions when you are ANGRY. Think twice, Act wise. BE happy.
"That hole inside you is going to take a while to fill up tho."
Me bad,double entendre
Sometimes you're flush and sometimes you're bust, and when you're up, it's never as good as it seems, and when you're down, you never think you'll be up again. But life goes on.
The beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the figure that she carries, or the way she combs her hair. The beauty of a woman is seen in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart, the place where love resides. True beauty in a woman is reflected in her soul. It's the passion that she shows to the outside world.
Sorry to hear about that paul.....
it's been 5 months since you separated, and now he got somebody else.....clearly he already moved on......and SO CAN YOU,
the earlier you accept that, the better for you and the easier for you to get over and forget your ex......
Of course the pain is unbearable.......but trust me, you'll get over it.........
And don't find reasons anymore to blame yourself or anyone for the failure of your relationship, it happens all the time....people fall out of love....
Let go and do not feel sorry for yourself nor wallow in self pity, just have fun, be happy on your own and enjoy what you have now - your family, friends, career
I'm sure you will find someone new in time, but don't rush, take time to heal before you jump into another relationship....
a relationship on a rebound is always a bad idea................so cheer up, he's just a man - soooooo replaceable
"10% of life is made up of what happens to you, 90% is decided by how you react"
"The way to love anything is to realize that it may be lost"
Move on,dont be consumed by hate,forgive and forget,if that doesnt make you feel better give him a decent kick in his itlogs
Sometimes you're flush and sometimes you're bust, and when you're up, it's never as good as it seems, and when you're down, you never think you'll be up again. But life goes on.
The beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the figure that she carries, or the way she combs her hair. The beauty of a woman is seen in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart, the place where love resides. True beauty in a woman is reflected in her soul. It's the passion that she shows to the outside world.
we all invest so much and put a lot into our relationship.....sometimes we even give all, that we forget to leave something for ourselves...
so it's normal that you feel so hurt, enraged and angry now, as you gave your all in that relationship.....and now that he's got someone new, you feel betrayed..
The pain is terrible and horrible indeed but try to accept the reality that he doesn't love you anymore and he already found somebody else....
You wouldn't want to force yourself into someone who doesn't feel thesame way about you anymore...
Let him go and move on.....i'm sure you'll have a chance for new love later on....
"10% of life is made up of what happens to you, 90% is decided by how you react"
"The way to love anything is to realize that it may be lost"
Oh dear...sacrificing yourself for someone can make you feel angry and hurt and resentful if they don't treat you right..
I keep myself happy by keeping my mind open to the magnificence of this life/world/universe....the media are always giving us bad news stories, it's as if they are deliberately trying to condition us into believing life is bad..
I believe life is so magnificent, that our minds are unable to comprehend just how great it is!
You don't need a relationship to make your life happy, a good relationship is obviously a bonus though!
There are 7 Planes Of Existance:
7 — Material Plane: The earth, where you are right now.
6 — Plane of Forces
5 — Astral Plane
4 — Mental Plane
3 — Too mysterious to describe.
2 — Too mysterious to describe.
1 — Too mysterious to describe.
Guys do cry,but a very wise woman once told me its not actually full on sobbing like a woman,when guys cry its called "Controlled crying"
Sometimes you're flush and sometimes you're bust, and when you're up, it's never as good as it seems, and when you're down, you never think you'll be up again. But life goes on.
The beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the figure that she carries, or the way she combs her hair. The beauty of a woman is seen in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart, the place where love resides. True beauty in a woman is reflected in her soul. It's the passion that she shows to the outside world.
Hey, cry it out paul, you can even scream if you want.....it will make you feel a lot better....
And crying doesn't mean you're weak and it's a perfectly healthy outlet....makes you feel a lot less heavier inside....
The more you keep it all in, the harder will it be for you to get over the pain, so cry it out as much as you want.....
eventually, your tears will run out and so does your feelings for your ex....
you're welcome by the way
"10% of life is made up of what happens to you, 90% is decided by how you react"
"The way to love anything is to realize that it may be lost"
Sometimes you're flush and sometimes you're bust, and when you're up, it's never as good as it seems, and when you're down, you never think you'll be up again. But life goes on.
The beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the figure that she carries, or the way she combs her hair. The beauty of a woman is seen in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart, the place where love resides. True beauty in a woman is reflected in her soul. It's the passion that she shows to the outside world.
I am sure you can collect and select when you first get here but dont continue the habit when you meet Mr Right You know theres a county here called Middlesex neither male,nor female but the middle-sex,its part of London,theres a fiesta there at the moment,Barrio Fiesta sa London,I am just going there now You know your best revenge against your boyfriend?Make a success of your life and move on
Sometimes you're flush and sometimes you're bust, and when you're up, it's never as good as it seems, and when you're down, you never think you'll be up again. But life goes on.
The beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the figure that she carries, or the way she combs her hair. The beauty of a woman is seen in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart, the place where love resides. True beauty in a woman is reflected in her soul. It's the passion that she shows to the outside world.
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