Would current BF appreciate honesty or worry unnecessarily?

[Welsh_Italian]

Some men from the UK are okay with this and would appreciate being told. However, when I say "some", I really mean one or two.

In the UK, it's considered not a good thing to do and breaks an important boundary in British culture. If you're still not sure, consider your bf in your situation and you in his. Would you really be happy if an ex-gf of his wanted to meet up with him while you are so far away?

[robeth]

for me, seeing an ex is a risky business and that i would always question his motives...if its over between us, whats the point?

dumped or being dumped one cant simply move on if u keep on seeing each other and with the current bf, long distance relationship is not easy and adding insecurity in it doesnt always helps even tho it's "raw" doesnt qualify u seeing an ex!

sometimes we want to play safe but it matters a lot if we play by the rules and we dont have to suffer for needless guilts bec we did something which we didnt expect to happen.

in my own experience, i could never be friends with an ex...for the reasons that he still feel soo good or i simply hate him.

it sounds like u want the best of both worlds.