If you were my GF and I found out you had an ex BF round for dinner when I was out of the country, then there would be no more me and you. It would be over, finito, gonzo. It is not a question of whether you should tell him or not, the point is there should be NO 'dinner with ex' for him to even worry about.Originally Posted by deepred
Just a quick Q. An ex-BF is coming over to Ph for a visit apparently with no intentions but "for friendship's sake." So a dinner with friends most likely. Is it proper to let current BF know about it? BTW, both men are english. So this is really a Q for the men. If you were the current BF, would you rather not know about ex coming over so he is spared of unnecessary worry (relationship is still raw) OR simple honesty matters since you're not doing anything wrong anyway.
