Could be happened if lady is virgin. I agree as it happened to me. I tried it before how can I control my emotion and it works!
If you have principles, dream that you want to achieve first, I believe you can set aside sex first. But if you always carried by your emotions, then it will be hard to control doing sex and think come what mayThis mostly happens to students, they have fears of doing sex
Happened to others too as first night is really ouchBetter luck someday
Hi Northerner,
I have read different views from different people of different backgrounds. I agree with some comments that they hold on to their virginity until the marriage. To some that were not able to wait, then so be it.
Based on your situation, you already had talked about sex with your gf. So more or less you both has known how one feels with each other.. We can't give the exact advices on here as you are the one concerned. But anyway, i agree with Aposhark comments, if you want to avoid having sex then get separate rooms. It is still tempting if you get 2 beds but still in the same room.
As long as strong love connects to both of you then sleeping in the same bed without sex is uncontrollable. Unless it is a platonic love..
BTW is this your first time to meet each other?. I have known a filipina who has been chatting with her bf for more than 6 months but they never talk about sex. She said it was only mentioned perhaps in one of their chats and one email so they got ideas on their own views about the subject. When they first met because her bf met her in her country, they easily got along well with each other and staying in one room was not a big deal for them. I suppose they are both matured enough to handle the given situation and so they just carry on what they feel with each one. Now they are already married and have a daughter. Love is so strong that no room for malice or whatsoever was given on that first meeting.
Just my views. No offence to anyone.
Best of luck.
Cheers!
" The people who mean something to your life are not rated "the best" don't have the most money, haven't won the greatest prizes....
They are the ones who care about you, take care of you, those who, no matter what, stay close by... "
This thread had taken me 2 years back. back at the time when fiancee and I are about to meet and had a discussion on sex..
What he told me was, he wouldn't force it if I don't want to.. and I would have to ask if I want to have sex... it was comforting for me at that time.. he kept reassuring me that he's not coming over for the sex.. but coming over to get to know me, meet my friends and my family.. and see if I am still the same person online and off... I appreciated him for that and I looked forward to meeting him in person.
Northerner, Rizza is in a difficult situation. She is trying to gauge if you are the one for her, and also trying not to pressure herself to give up her virginity just so you won't "leave" her for not having sex. Support her on that. Let her decide for herself and respect her decision. To be frank with you, she is actually considering it since she wanted to discuss it with you. Meaning, she may be thinking that you're the one. But don't put your hopes too high.
Stay at her uncle's for a few days.. just so she'll get comfortable with you around. Let her feel that you are after her as a person, and not the sex. And when you decide to go elsewhere, the sex may or may not happen. But as what the others have said, let her decide on it.
This shouldn't be a difficult issue for you coz I think you're not after the sex anyway. You're coming here to get to know Rizza on a deeper, more personal level so, whether you'll be staying in a hotel alone or with her, sex should not be an issue.
Right?
There is always Pamela you can rely on......
I just thought of this..Originally Posted by aromulus
There is always Pamela you can rely on......Delayed reaction here!..
Got it!
" The people who mean something to your life are not rated "the best" don't have the most money, haven't won the greatest prizes....
They are the ones who care about you, take care of you, those who, no matter what, stay close by... "
There is always Pamela you can rely on......im lost?
i have learnt to do what my wife says!
Nothing wrong with virgin free oral
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yeah.. you can do that too...There is always Pamela you can rely on......
LOL.. ok... but she might bite it off...Nothing wrong with virgin free oral
I was talking about tooth care
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yeah right...
yeah... i know... i meant, bite off the dentist's finger
Why does sex always enter into it?Truthfully,why not just get to know each other as friends,why cant you just hang out as mates and see where it leads?Its a little too soon to be declaring undying love to each other isnt it?
Sometimes you're flush and sometimes you're bust, and when you're up, it's never as good as it seems, and when you're down, you never think you'll be up again. But life goes on.
The beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the figure that she carries, or the way she combs her hair. The beauty of a woman is seen in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart, the place where love resides. True beauty in a woman is reflected in her soul. It's the passion that she shows to the outside world.
LOL@Tawi... don't scare him!
The the word 'SEX' in the title, and the thread goes on and on and ......
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My next thread will be entitled "The Best Pinoy Airline.. SEX!"The the word 'SEX' in the title, and the thread goes on and on and ......
Cebu PacificMy next thread will be entitled "The Best Pinoy Airline.. SEX!"
Sometimes you're flush and sometimes you're bust, and when you're up, it's never as good as it seems, and when you're down, you never think you'll be up again. But life goes on.
The beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the figure that she carries, or the way she combs her hair. The beauty of a woman is seen in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart, the place where love resides. True beauty in a woman is reflected in her soul. It's the passion that she shows to the outside world.
I said the same thing to my "missus"The the word 'SEX' in the title, and the thread goes on and on and ......
Funny thing is...........we all like it
- It's why we are all here
babaero si tawi lol
all things are possible!
No,I was just friendly
Sometimes you're flush and sometimes you're bust, and when you're up, it's never as good as it seems, and when you're down, you never think you'll be up again. But life goes on.
The beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the figure that she carries, or the way she combs her hair. The beauty of a woman is seen in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart, the place where love resides. True beauty in a woman is reflected in her soul. It's the passion that she shows to the outside world.
first time i stayed with my wife in an apartment we slept in the same bed with no sex for two weeks, drove us both crazybut earned a lot of brownie points with the respect i showed her.
wow! such self-controlfirst time i stayed with my wife in an apartment we slept in the same bed with no sex for two weeks, drove us both crazy
first time i stayed with my wife in an apartment we slept in the same bed with no sex for two weeks, drove us both crazywow! such self-control
Now that might get me into a bit of bother, as I like to sleep in the spoons positionfirst time i stayed with my wife in an apartment we slept in the same bed with no sex for two weeks, drove us both crazy
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