My hubby's first 3 visits before, he stayed in a hotel and i would just pick him up in the morning to go around
and drop him off to the hotel again at night, while i drive back home....
On his 4th and 5th visit, we were engaged already so he stayed at our house, with my family's approval of course.....
And when he came back again for our wedding, with his parents, they all stayed in our house as well....
It's best to respect her views and values.....she will appreciate and love you more for that![]()