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    Quote Originally Posted by bornatbirth View Post
    my wife is only alone when i go to work,i have a brother whos 10 mins away who lives with his gf and her family are always close too.

    i guess with your job working away from home alot will have its problems dont you have anyone nearby you?

    is the baby wearing you 2 out!
    Hi Mate, I'll answer the second question first. We are up giving her her second feed since I posted at midnight - it's now 4:21 and Marikit has been tossing and turning for the last 30 mins or so before i woke Pia up.

    ----- 13 mins later ----

    Pia fell asleep (she does this so easily I envy her ) while I winded Marikit (and cleared up all the regurgitated milk on my t-shirt as well as the floor). I've also changed her nappy, applied Bonjela to her gums and Aveeno to her face and neck. A man's work is never done!

    Signing off as I've still got to prepare for today's meeting and leave the hotel at 7am.

    We have actually made several friends in Leeds but they are all about 40 mins drive and none of the Filipina drive. Plus, they all work.

    Quote Originally Posted by gracia143 View Post
    Sorry to hear that Pia is not feeling well, she might just be tired of the travel. It's good though that you've taken her and the baby with you, at least you can look after her.

    I understand your worries, I'm sure it isn't so easy being away from family and friends whilst having a baby, back home there will be Nanay or Tita to help her look after the young one.

    There are a number of Filipina living in Leeds, I have one good friend who lives there too. I hope one day Pia will be able to make new friends so she will have a 'support system' whilst living in this country. It helps a lot.
    I think that although Pia sleeps so easily she is run down. Certainly things would be different in da Phils. As Pia told me earlier when I asked whether she thinks its better for them to stay home, she is not comfortable being home with Marikit alone because of the way she is so much of the time - screaming, crying, not sleeping, irritable. It's hard enough finding time to even shower even with me there it's all hands on deck pretty much 24/7.

    Since i've put Marikit to bed she is kicking, snorting, wriggling, etc. She is clearly uncomfortable for some unknown rason. We have some good days where she will sleep well for 3 hours plus but they are rare. Pia's still asleep but i'll have to pick her up soon.

    The people at the baby clinic say Marikit is doing well and she will settle soon. How long is soon?

    Quote Originally Posted by tiN View Post
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    My hubby is always away also, sometimes for a week or even months... the good thing though his mum and dad is only 3 mins walk as well as his sister.. so everytime he's away i can just only walk to them if i wanted company.
    That's nice to have. Even then several months apart must be so hard.

    Ok, 04:52. I'll set the alarm for 6am. I'm too tired to try to work now so will just have to try to get to our office earlier to prepare. If not, yet again I'll have to wing it. Wish me luck, it's gonna be a particularly tough week.

    It's not the most frugal thing to do during an economic downturn but we may have to pay someone to come and help out during the day a couple of days a week so that Pia can express some milk for them to feed Marikit while she takes a break or gets the many things she wants to get done (such as ironing, sewing,tidying up, etc.). when I'm home it will also enable me to get on with my work.

    I had my mid-year review last week. First time in my career I received several 2's out of 5 on my performance scorecard.

    Night night!!!!!!!!
    Be responsible with little so that you can be trusted with much!!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Piamed View Post
    I had my mid-year review last week. First time in my career I received several 2's out of 5 on my performance scorecard.
    Ouch! It sounds like things are starting to get overwhelming. I hope you can get her mom over to help. Your mother-in-law will definitely be a big help, especially if she likes to fuss over everyone and be everyone's mom (which is quite common among Filipinas in situations where TLC is needed). In the meantime, good luck mending your performance ratings!


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