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    Is it me or am just being paranoid?

    Is there any of you guys here stayed on your own at homewell,recently am often on my own as hubby off to his 8-10 miles walking with his buddy and I dont feel comfortable be left on this 100 year old houseoften if am on pc I really have to peek if someone watching me behind my back crazy as it is but I know am scary pantsIf I heard a small noise I thought its a ghostand when I told my friend they tend to scare me more and telling me stuff that there was an old woman who lived here before and died in the housethey aren`t helping me at all.I know that,probably its all in my mind only imagining stuff.I never wish to see a ghost and I never willOne of my friend said that probably I was born on a broad day light that`s why probably why am too scared for such a thing.It doesn`t make senseI know we have loads of superstitious thingy in PI but this thing suckswell,just to let you know my sentiments.Anybody wants to accompany me?
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    This reminds me when i chatted with my sister in the Phils and we were on cam. She asked me if i'm alone. I said yes of course i don't have relatives or househelper who stays with me. Then she said are you sure you're alone? She said "but i can see someone's arms rest on your shoulder". Who is that?. Then i turned off the cam. I said i don't like to use the cam when chatting with you...
    Wheela.... We can just accompany each other when we're both alone at home...
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    They say a house retains a little of the past inhabitants,a sort of residual memory of happy and sad memories caught within its walls,I guess a lot of people have lived,and died,within the confines of a 100 year old house



    Sometimes you're flush and sometimes you're bust, and when you're up, it's never as good as it seems, and when you're down, you never think you'll be up again. But life goes on.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Mrs Daddy View Post
    ......often if am on pc I really have to peek if someone watching me behind my back
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    Quote Originally Posted by Mrs Daddy View Post
    Is there any of you guys here stayed on your own at homewell,recently am often on my own as hubby off to his 8-10 miles walking with his buddy and I dont feel comfortable be left on this 100 year old houseoften if am on pc I really have to peek if someone watching me behind my back crazy as it is but I know am scary pantsIf I heard a small noise I thought its a ghostand when I told my friend they tend to scare me more and telling me stuff that there was an old woman who lived here before and died in the housethey aren`t helping me at all.I know that,probably its all in my mind only imagining stuff.I never wish to see a ghost and I never willOne of my friend said that probably I was born on a broad day light that`s why probably why am too scared for such a thing.It doesn`t make senseI know we have loads of superstitious thingy in PI but this thing suckswell,just to let you know my sentiments.Anybody wants to accompany me?
    Don't want to scare you even more - but it is said that every proper old English house should have its own ghost
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    Quote Originally Posted by Mrs Daddy View Post
    Is there any of you guys here stayed on your own at homewell,recently am often on my own as hubby off to his 8-10 miles walking with his buddy and I dont feel comfortable be left on this 100 year old houseoften if am on pc I really have to peek if someone watching me behind my back crazy as it is but I know am scary pantsIf I heard a small noise I thought its a ghostand when I told my friend they tend to scare me more and telling me stuff that there was an old woman who lived here before and died in the housethey aren`t helping me at all.I know that,probably its all in my mind only imagining stuff.I never wish to see a ghost and I never willOne of my friend said that probably I was born on a broad day light that`s why probably why am too scared for such a thing.It doesn`t make senseI know we have loads of superstitious thingy in PI but this thing suckswell,just to let you know my sentiments.Anybody wants to accompany me?

    your mad remember you was told many wak waks in england but even theresa expressed the same concerns about ghosts and scary things in our houses i explained that no one had died in my not so old house YET

    i did notice in cdo a few houses that have been left empty and asked her why she explaines people had died or been murdered in them


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    Some people are more attuned to the spirit world,watch the movie "Sundo" Mrs D its about a guy who can see dead people,its a pinoy rip-off of "Sixth-sense" But dont watch it alone,at night,in the dark



    Sometimes you're flush and sometimes you're bust, and when you're up, it's never as good as it seems, and when you're down, you never think you'll be up again. But life goes on.
    The beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the figure that she carries, or the way she combs her hair. The beauty of a woman is seen in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart, the place where love resides. True beauty in a woman is reflected in her soul. It's the passion that she shows to the outside world.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Win2Win View Post
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    Just don't dwell on the scary thought mrsdaddy, the more you entertain it, the worst fear you put yourself into....
    Mind over matter.....
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    Yeah,its just small tricks playing on your mind the more you think theres an old ghoslty woman behind you staring at you the more you can almost feel her breathing on the back of your neck Dont worry about it



    Sometimes you're flush and sometimes you're bust, and when you're up, it's never as good as it seems, and when you're down, you never think you'll be up again. But life goes on.
    The beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the figure that she carries, or the way she combs her hair. The beauty of a woman is seen in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart, the place where love resides. True beauty in a woman is reflected in her soul. It's the passion that she shows to the outside world.


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    be scared, be very very scared
    God grant me the serenity to accept the things i cannot change, the courage to change the things i can and the wisdom to hide the bodies of those people i had to kill because they pissed me off.


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    Next time your on the PC alone put a circle of sea-salt around your stool,and candles made from melted bat-bodyfat in each corner of the room That normally works for me but sometimes I still feel the hairs rising on the back of my neck



    Sometimes you're flush and sometimes you're bust, and when you're up, it's never as good as it seems, and when you're down, you never think you'll be up again. But life goes on.
    The beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the figure that she carries, or the way she combs her hair. The beauty of a woman is seen in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart, the place where love resides. True beauty in a woman is reflected in her soul. It's the passion that she shows to the outside world.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Mrs Daddy View Post
    Is there any of you guys here stayed on your own at homewell,recently am often on my own as hubby off to his 8-10 miles walking with his buddy and I dont feel comfortable be left on this 100 year old houseoften if am on pc I really have to peek if someone watching me behind my back crazy as it is but I know am scary pantsIf I heard a small noise I thought its a ghostand when I told my friend they tend to scare me more and telling me stuff that there was an old woman who lived here before and died in the housethey aren`t helping me at all.I know that,probably its all in my mind only imagining stuff.I never wish to see a ghost and I never willOne of my friend said that probably I was born on a broad day light that`s why probably why am too scared for such a thing.It doesn`t make senseI know we have loads of superstitious thingy in PI but this thing suckswell,just to let you know my sentiments.Anybody wants to accompany me?
    were both the same live in 100 y/o house,but the difference is we have an extension done in our house[we make the kitchen big space and our dining room,make a big conservatory infront of it]but besides that every time my hubby go to ireland for 3 or 4 days im alone also in our house.in the morning i go to our garden until 11 am then back here in the house,what i did is i turn on the radio and make it loud while im doing something upstairs[cleaning the toilet,bedroom etc etc[.then back again to our garden to feed our pigeons and greyhounds for 1 to 2 hours.when i come back here i eat dinner already b4 im going upstair[but i make sure that i lock all the doors coz much scary the people who go to our house and stealing something than the ghost]all night i open the lights in our room and also in the stairs.i lock the door and all night i talk or chat to all my friends who are online.then at 5:00 am i sleep even 2 hours b4 do the rouitine again.this is what i did everytime im alone in our house


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    You mean your Filipino hospitality does not include ghosts? You can't accomodate them?

    Have you seen my video footage of a ghost?

    http://www.zedge.net/videos/129678/r...footage-video/

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    Quote Originally Posted by nigel View Post
    You mean your Filipino hospitality does not include ghosts? You can't accomodate them?

    Have you seen my video footage of a ghost?

    http://www.zedge.net/videos/129678/r...footage-video/
    LOL, bad nigel, i won't even bother watching this, lol, i wouldn't want to feed my imagination with scary thoughts and images that will haunt me when i go to sleep tonight, lol
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    Quote Originally Posted by Pepe n Pilar View Post
    This reminds me when i chatted with my sister in the Phils and we were on cam. She asked me if i'm alone. I said yes of course i don't have relatives or househelper who stays with me. Then she said are you sure you're alone? She said "but i can see someone's arms rest on your shoulder". Who is that?. Then i turned off the cam. I said i don't like to use the cam when chatting with you...
    Wheela.... We can just accompany each other when we're both alone at home...
    that would be nice if you live next door to mine
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    The thing is,when your sitting alone at night staring at a PC monitor your never fully aware of just whats happening...................BEHIND YOU!

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=meTQL...eature=related



    Sometimes you're flush and sometimes you're bust, and when you're up, it's never as good as it seems, and when you're down, you never think you'll be up again. But life goes on.
    The beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the figure that she carries, or the way she combs her hair. The beauty of a woman is seen in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart, the place where love resides. True beauty in a woman is reflected in her soul. It's the passion that she shows to the outside world.


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    Ate ive been here all alone now for exactly 2 weeks now.
    And im not scared at all, maybe i dont think about ghost?

    I am more scared with live one..

    We have a saying in the PI that "mas matakot ka sa buhay kesa sa patay"
    It's good to have money and the things that money can buy, but it's good to check up once in a while to make sure you haven't lost the things that money can't buy.


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    We have exactly the same saying here tin



    Sometimes you're flush and sometimes you're bust, and when you're up, it's never as good as it seems, and when you're down, you never think you'll be up again. But life goes on.
    The beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the figure that she carries, or the way she combs her hair. The beauty of a woman is seen in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart, the place where love resides. True beauty in a woman is reflected in her soul. It's the passion that she shows to the outside world.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Tawi2 View Post
    We have exactly the same saying here tin
    Yeah as sophie said,

    Be more afraid of the living than the dead

    thanks sophie dear x
    It's good to have money and the things that money can buy, but it's good to check up once in a while to make sure you haven't lost the things that money can't buy.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Sophie View Post
    LOL, bad nigel, i won't even bother watching this, lol, i wouldn't want to feed my imagination with scary thoughts and images that will haunt me when i go to sleep tonight, lol
    Awwww watch it! It seems creepy at first, but then you'll laugh so much you'll fall off your chair! You'll also realize how ridiculous it is to believe in ghosts!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Tawi2 View Post
    They say a house retains a little of the past inhabitants,a sort of residual memory of happy and sad memories caught within its walls,I guess a lot of people have lived,and died,within the confines of a 100 year old house
    They`re very much welcome to share a home with us but please dont let us see you or feel your presence
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    Quote Originally Posted by Ji&Ma View Post
    Don't want to scare you even more - but it is said that every proper old English house should have its own ghost
    same as I said I dont wanna see one and will never will
    Quote Originally Posted by trader dave View Post
    your mad remember you was told many wak waks in england but even theresa expressed the same concerns about ghosts and scary things in our houses i explained that no one had died in my not so old house YET
    i did notice in cdo a few houses that have been left empty and asked her why she explaines people had died or been murdered in them
    Its a thing that some of us believe in specially when our parents scared us when we were little if we`ve been naughty and we grew up with it believing
    Quote Originally Posted by Tawi2 View Post
    Some people are more attuned to the spirit world,watch the movie "Sundo" Mrs D its about a guy who can see dead people,its a pinoy rip-off of "Sixth-sense" But dont watch it alone,at night,in the dark
    Is it really that scary Tawi2 I hope its not a real storynope not watch it yet!
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    HA HA MRS DADDY

    Quote Originally Posted by Sophie View Post
    Just don't dwell on the scary thought mrsdaddy, the more you entertain it, the worst fear you put yourself into....
    Mind over matter.....
    Indeed sophie tnx!
    Quote Originally Posted by Tawi2 View Post
    Yeah,its just small tricks playing on your mind the more you think theres an old ghoslty woman behind you staring at you the more you can almost feel her breathing on the back of your neck Dont worry about it
    Imagination can kill,hey
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    be scared, be very very scared
    hope not!
    Quote Originally Posted by Tawi2 View Post
    Next time your on the PC alone put a circle of sea-salt around your stool,and candles made from melted bat-bodyfat in each corner of the room That normally works for me but sometimes I still feel the hairs rising on the back of my neck
    your kidding me Tawi,Is that for real?
    Quote Originally Posted by Ana_may365 View Post
    were both the same live in 100 y/o house,but the difference is we have an extension done in our house[we make the kitchen big space and our dining room,make a big conservatory infront of it]but besides that every time my hubby go to ireland for 3 or 4 days im alone also in our house.in the morning i go to our garden until 11 am then back here in the house,what i did is i turn on the radio and make it loud while im doing something upstairs[cleaning the toilet,bedroom etc etc[.then back again to our garden to feed our pigeons and greyhounds for 1 to 2 hours.when i come back here i eat dinner already b4 im going upstair[but i make sure that i lock all the doors coz much scary the people who go to our house and stealing something than the ghost]all night i open the lights in our room and also in the stairs.i lock the door and all night i talk or chat to all my friends who are online.then at 5:00 am i sleep even 2 hours b4 do the rouitine again.this is what i did everytime im alone in our house
    That`s the thing I have never ever stayed on my own for my 27th year of my life never been alone at night or on my own in bed for one night or few days and I dont wanna do that
    Quote Originally Posted by nigel View Post
    You mean your Filipino hospitality does not include ghosts? You can't accomodate them?

    Have you seen my video footage of a ghost?

    http://www.zedge.net/videos/129678/r...footage-video/
    Not that hospitable hey seen it and hubby laughed at it!
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    "I see dead people"
    I dont wanna see that.
    Quote Originally Posted by Sophie View Post
    LOL, bad nigel, i won't even bother watching this, lol, i wouldn't want to feed my imagination with scary thoughts and images that will haunt me when i go to sleep tonight, lol
    Its not that scary sophie.It was more or like a funny ghost
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    Quote Originally Posted by Tawi2 View Post
    The thing is,when your sitting alone at night staring at a PC monitor your never fully aware of just whats happening...................BEHIND YOU!

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=meTQL...eature=related
    Was it for realI must admit it scares me
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    Ate ive been here all alone now for exactly 2 weeks now.
    And im not scared at all, maybe i dont think about ghost?

    I am more scared with live one..

    We have a saying in the PI that "mas matakot ka sa buhay kesa sa patay"
    I wish I am as brave as youI have heard that as well.
    Quote Originally Posted by nigel View Post
    Awwww watch it! It seems creepy at first, but then you'll laugh so much you'll fall off your chair! You'll also realize how ridiculous it is to believe in ghosts!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Mrs Daddy View Post
    Is there any of you guys here stayed on your own at homewell,recently am often on my own as hubby off to his 8-10 miles walking with his buddy and I dont feel comfortable be left on this 100 year old houseoften if am on pc I really have to peek if someone watching me behind my back crazy as it is but I know am scary pantsIf I heard a small noise I thought its a ghostand when I told my friend they tend to scare me more and telling me stuff that there was an old woman who lived here before and died in the housethey aren`t helping me at all.I know that,probably its all in my mind only imagining stuff.I never wish to see a ghost and I never willOne of my friend said that probably I was born on a broad day light that`s why probably why am too scared for such a thing.It doesn`t make senseI know we have loads of superstitious thingy in PI but this thing suckswell,just to let you know my sentiments.Anybody wants to accompany me?
    You're not alone [s'cuse the pun!] ... nor is there anything at all unusual in feeling this way. I have a long-standing male friend who's ages with me. As we were both widowed and early-retired, he and I used to go hill-walking too (funnily enough) almost every Thursday. Then I went off to the Philippines for 3 weeks last September to meet Myrna, with whom I'd been corresponding for a year. In November, I went back out there to marry her and stayed for three months. She came to the UK in March and, to give her time to settle into her new environment, I seldom left the house without her accompanying me. And when I did, it was only for an hour or two at most ... and always during daylight.

    In late Spring, I resumed my walks with my friend. But SHE came with us. Likewise, she was present on Friday nights when I'd been previously been in the habit of going out for a couple of beers in [normally] exclusively male company.

    Now, however, with the lighter nights, she's perfectly content with remaining at home on her own. So don't despair ... it just takes time to adjust to a completely different lifestyle in [initially] strange surroundings.


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    Quote Originally Posted by tiN View Post
    Ate ive been here all alone now for exactly 2 weeks now.
    I'm leaving now....be with you soon
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    Thanks arthur watta relief am not alone on this situation
    to loved and beloved is the greatest joy on earth...


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    oh sorry to hear that sis Wheela, just be brave and think that sooner or later hubby will be there..


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    Quote Originally Posted by Win2Win View Post
    I'm leaving now....be with you soon

    It's good to have money and the things that money can buy, but it's good to check up once in a while to make sure you haven't lost the things that money can't buy.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Arthur Little;155672 ... Now, however, with the lighter nights, she's perfectly content with remaining at home on her own. So don't despair :rolleyes: ... it just takes time to adjust to a completely different lifestyle in [initially
    strange surroundings.
    Oh ... and don't forget to ask your husband to lock the doors(s) whenever he goes out! My wife still tells me to do this ... even when I'm only on my way to our local Tesco, which is little more than half-a-mile from the house.


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