have to disagree with you tawi2, going to see someone twice a year for 3 or 4wks a year, for 5 years (and that's if your lucky, you can afford to and have the hols to) that's not what i would call much of a relationship, i've been there there, so for 48wks of the year your apart, getting on with your life, as i said before in your own little world, and wondering if being apart will ever end
