annulment?

[englishbird]

I know how you feel englishbird
We have talked and talked and talked about it a lot, but it's our only option, unless I move to the Philippines to be with him there. Sometimes it's so frustrating I want to pull my hair out
My boyf's got kids too, fortunately they're over 18 so he doesn't feel the need to help them too much although he does a little.
We have good days and bad days but we just try and be positive and take each day as it comes.

The kids in my situation are only 8 and 5 years old and he will carry on supporting them until they are through college!. I guess I will have a serious chat with him when I go to visit in Nov. Its impossible to have a serious conversation on the ship because hes either working or just in my cabin for a short time.

Why is it all so complicated??

[Sun Shine]

The kids in my situation are only 8 and 5 years old and he will carry on supporting them until they are through college!. I guess I will have a serious chat with him when I go to visit in Nov. Its impossible to have a serious conversation on the ship because hes either working or just in my cabin for a short time.

Why is it all so complicated??

It's frustrating isn't it? Hopefully when you go and see him in November you can talk properly without him having to work or go to work and discuss your future.
Have you booked your flights yet?

[englishbird]

It's frustrating isn't it? Hopefully when you go and see him in November you can talk properly without him having to work or go to work and discuss your future.
Have you booked your flights yet?

I will be booking my flights next month. I am going to Cyprus next week for 2 weeks. When I get back I really need to get it sorted. Because he lives out in the sticks somewhere outside Manila, we are going to stay in an apartment in Makati. It is so cheap for a really nice apartment. I think I am going to be really nervous going to Manila. While Im there he should find out which ship he will be on next. hopefully its one that I can go to without having to travel half way around the world!! Unfortunatley they just have to go where they are told.

Its his birthday on Thursday and I really want to see him This long distance business is hard