BUT the guy with the pix in the thread starter..is not being open and honest, his wife found them on his computer. Thats a form of deceit from him.
Open and honest is..."BTW darling I have a wagon load of photos on my computer of ladies before you - do you object".
And if she lives in fear of him being angry.....is that OK also?
I know I am not a kid any more but is this typical of todays standards.