collecting pictures from ex gfs

[lovelylady]

ask your honey why is he still holding on to some of his ex photos???
if he really loves you, he will consider your feelings........
and if he respects you enough, he will not just leave all those photo collections of his ex in in plain sight,
where the chance of you seeing them is very likely.......

i feel that he not respect me cause why he cant erase that dirty pictures of his ex then i found it i know he knows as well.he dont have feelings of what i really feel,he love to share to his friend to show off what they doing im just stay silent even i found already what his secret.

[Sophie]

i feel that he not respect me cause why he cant erase that dirty pictures of his ex then i found it i know he knows as well.he dont have feelings of what i really feel,he love to share to his friend to show off what they doing im just stay silent even i found already what his secret.

I suggest you don't keep silent, say something, tell him exactly how you feel...
If he keeps dirty pics of his ex's to show off to his friends, then clearly he has no respect for women....
He probably not only shows private photos to his friends, i bet he "kiss and tell" too...
and share some intimate stuff about his past women that should be kept private in the first place....

And chances are he might do thesame thing to you....as clearly he got some issues......
Sorry lovely lady, but i don't have respect and i'm really disgusted with men like this...
maybe you should think things through.....does this guy deserve you and is he worthy of your love at all........
Do not let him walk all over you and disrespect you....stand your ground and speak up....you deserve to be treated better.....

[lovelylady]

I suggest you don't keep silent, say something, tell him exactly how you feel...
If he keeps dirty pics of his ex's to show off to his friends, then clearly he has no respect for women....
He probably not only shows private photos to his friends, i bet he "kiss and tell" too...
and share some intimate stuff about his past women that should be kept private in the first place....

And chances are he might do thesame thing to you....as clearly he got some issues......
Sorry lovely lady, but i don't have respect and i'm really disgusted with men like this...
maybe you should think things through.....does this guy deserve you and is he worthy of your love at all........
Do not let him walk all over you and disrespect you....stand your ground and speak up....you deserve to be treated better.....

yes sophie ur right and i feel upset to him and only pretend im always ok but its not.yes his he not respect me as his wife.maybe he still want to remember there past coz that is dirty pics what he got now.i hate to think about this coz he keep insist that exs only past but i not told him i found dirty pictures of his ex on pc.im sure he will to say **** OFF

[trader dave]

i have heard this ----- have you got pictures of your ex's ffs THEY ARE GONE PAST DECESSED yes some guys do have pics of ex's girls get a life stop being so jealous:icon_lolYOUR HUSBAND MARRIED you THE PAST IS GONE

ALSO REMEMBER YOUR HUSBANDS MIGHT HAVE HAD CHILDREN WITH THOSE EX'S so dont expect him to throw away pictures if his children are in the pictures


and yes some guys do collect dirty pictures of there girlfriends


i heard one story where the guy still has pictures on the living room wall of his ex wife i think thats pushing it to far

[Fitzy]

yes sophie ur right and i feel upset to him and only pretend im always ok but its not.yes his he not respect me as his wife.maybe he still want to remember there past coz that is dirty pics what he got now.i hate to think about this coz he keep insist that exs only past but i not told him i found dirty pictures of his ex on pc.im sure he will to say **** OFF

So sorry to hear of this my dear
Is difficult to suggest anything to you, not knowing you guys personally!
If he is abusive towards you, and I hope not, then you have other options open to you!
I assume that you are married, and live in the UK?
Do you have you ILR yet??
I am not suggesting anything at this stage, but if he is being rude to you telling you to Pi** of, then after you get your leave to remain( maybe you already have it) then you can tell him likewise.
I got hurt pretty bad recently also, and NEVER did anything like this to my ex.

Whatever happens in life I wish you all the very best, and as other members have said here, keep you head up, and stick up for yourself, and don't let anyone bully you!!

[britishdetained]

i feel that he not respect me cause why he cant erase that dirty pictures of his ex then i found it i know he knows as well.he dont have feelings of what i really feel,he love to share to his friend to show off what they doing im just stay silent even i found already what his secret.

let him realise that you are better than his ex... show that you are to respected and those dirty pictures should not be passed to anyone. He doesnt only disrespect you...he is a well dis respecting himself. Dont show your weakness (dont cry). Talk to him and make him understand your feelings and let it sink in to his mind that he doesnt need those pictures as he found a better lady which is you.

cheer up