collecting pictures from ex gfs

[lovelylady]

do u mind sharing?? LOL

i cant share w/ u coz its for adults only and u will be shock

[aposhark]

i cant share w/ u coz its for adults only and u will be shock

Brad Pitt once said he had a tiny - sorry to disappoint you ladies.
Maybe he was only joking though, please don't show me the proof

[bornatbirth]

i have all my ex gfs photos and even some movies of them with me..and my wife doesnt mind one bit????

oh i havent told her yet about them

i wonder how jealous and mad she will get..oh i already know the answer,she will go im off to delete them

tell him how you feel,he may of just forgot about them,i had stuff on my pc i never remembered was there even before i met my wife and ask him why he still as them?

[beppe]

hi i was feel mad when i found my honey still collection ex pictures and i feel he still love them even they gone already on his life its hard for him to erase it.i saw that pictures on his pc when i was using on his pc and i want to confront him but maybe he will get so angry to me all i do is just keep crying:bigcr.what should i do?he still loves her until now or not?i need some help.

Confront him without anger and let him tell his story. Often times, the past is part of our lives.

[pennybarry]

Why not do psycho reverse Lovelylady? Tell him you have seen his ex photos and you've found her beautiful, sexy etc. and see his reactions. He will surely says you are most sexy and beautiful. But not to worry about it as you are the present which is the most importand and she is his past.

I tried to dig all my hubby's cabinets and drawers to look for his ex-wife photos but had no luck. I tried to click his FAVOURITES in his laptop and PC but have seen loads of internet games only. I asked him where are your ex photos? But he said don't mention the slapper. He is divorced with his wife for 15 years when i married him.

[lovelylady]

Why not do psycho reverse Lovelylady? Tell him you have seen his ex photos and you've found her beautiful, sexy etc. and see his reactions. He will surely says you are most sexy and beautiful. But not to worry about it as you are the present which is the most importand and she is his past.

I tried to dig all my hubby's cabinets and drawers to look for his ex-wife photos but had no luck. I tried to click his FAVOURITES in his laptop and PC but have seen loads of internet games only. I asked him where are your ex photos? But he said don't mention the slapper. He is divorced with his wife for 15 years when i married him.

its not only a good pictures of his ex gfs i found its dirty picturesthats why i feel upset to him.i tell him already why he collecting w/that pictures that im his present but he said its part of his collecting i express him how i feel when i found out but he not give me a valid reasoni dont really know what shall i do.if i only found a pictures of his ex thats not a dirty pictures maybe i accept w/that coz that is only his past but dirty pictures is different issue.
i know guys u feel what i feel its hurt coz he not given a valid reason why he collecting dirty picturesthank u to all of u

[lovelylady]

i have all my ex gfs photos and even some movies of them with me..and my wife doesnt mind one bit????

oh i havent told her yet about them

i wonder how jealous and mad she will get..oh i already know the answer,she will go im off to delete them

tell him how you feel,he may of just forgot about them,i had stuff on my pc i never remembered was there even before i met my wife and ask him why he still as them?

i told him a few days ago after i found the pictures w/a slow voice so that he not get angry to me but he told me his part of his collecting a dirty pictures of his ex what he doing to himand he explain me but its not really a in valid reason and he getting very angry while he explain it to mei cant get rid of him coz we are married but i told him he will going to erase that one???????? but he not answered mehe sound he dont like too....

[Arturo]

Calm down arturo,I am the one with the Taj Mahal pics,and I was defending the lady,she lives in fear of him,read her posts,any guy in his late 40's with pics of a 19 year old in the nude laughing and giggling about his "Conquests" with his friends to boost his ego is a bit sad but thats just my opinion,I do think the anger issues is something that needs sorting though

"Taj Mahal" came out as an example of a tourist pic, it must have stuck in my head after reading your post!"

As in all thing written in any forum, its basically one opinion off setting another opinion!

Perhaps being a "senior" person, my values are, today - a bit old fashioned.

I have - and shown - my lady in Manila, photos of my late wife and she her late husband. This is a life situation and different from storing the ex, on a computer.

Judgementally, ( perhaps totally wrong) I assumed the photo's were the contact photo from websites or agencies and or pics gained during meetings in PI. Even so, I see no reason to keep them after a marriage.
After all its not a friends and family scenario or even a travels around the world tourist collection.

When Ella and me committed to each other, I was still getting emails and YM from "ex ladies".
So I deleted every photo and email and started a new email/YM ID for me and Ella to use uninterupted!

I have found the filipina to be, ( in the main coz there is alway the odd one!) - trusting , loving and loyal.
So I think they deserve the same in return.

As I said, its just my opinion and I accept not everybody will agree with me.

But losing a bunch of pix is better than waking up to a demented banshee who just did a "Bobbit" !

[Tawi2]

Thats true arturo,I much prefer standing to have an ihi than sitting on the toilet But after a marriage there really is no reason to keep nude and probably tasteless pics of a 19 year old kid which causes upset and distress to your wife.

[Arturo]

Why not do psycho reverse Lovelylady? Tell him you have seen his ex photos and you've found her beautiful, sexy etc. and see his reactions. He will surely says you are most sexy and beautiful. But not to worry about it as you are the present which is the most importand and she is his past.

I tried to dig all my hubby's cabinets and drawers to look for his ex-wife photos but had no luck. I tried to click his FAVOURITES in his laptop and PC but have seen loads of internet games only. I asked him where are your ex photos? But he said don't mention the slapper. He is divorced with his wife for 15 years when i married him.

Well done that man!

The past should be behind you....not looking at pix of her behind!

[lovelylady]

Thats true arturo,I much prefer standing to have an ihi than sitting on the toilet But after a marriage there really is no reason to keep nude and probably tasteless pics of a 19 year old kid which causes upset and distress to your wife.

i agree with tawi thats is right u dont need to keep dirty pictures of ur ex gfs its not wife if u have a new wife now and im still young 25.but i live my life with fearness of my husband even im right he keep insist im wrong...thank u

[Mrs Daddy]

I have thousands of slides from my life before I met my wife.
They go back to 1979 when I first bought a good camera, there are photos of everything: ships, birds, trees, mountains, people and some of ex-girlfriends too.

So, what do I have to do? Go through thousands of slides and throw away every picture of an ex.?

I think that is so childish.
IMO, I think we should all trust our husband or wife.
What is marriage if it is not based on trust and love.
I thought love is based on trust.
Mine is.

I wouldn't dream of looking at another woman in the street, whether I was with my wife or not.
I have told her this.
I have told her that even a naked Angel Locsin would not make me want to betray the love we have, or any other woman for that matter.
I think that anyone who cannot trust their loved one cannot trust themselves!

My friend is an amateur photographer. He takes pictures of naked ladies on photoshoots. He also takes amazing pictures of landscapes and sells them on his website.
When my wife met him he showed her his portfolio. He is a very good photographer and he loves his wife 100%

So, should he throw away his portfolio then?

There are people that cheat on each other every day in every country, they may not have photos of their ex-girlfriends or ex-boyfriends.

Having photographs on a pc or in print or on slides doesn't mean that the relationship is doomed.
I wouldn't ask my wife to watch them as I know she would not like it, but it is part of my past and means just that - past.

Openness and honesty keeps love alive.
IMO, we should talk to our loved ones and trust them above all.

very well said mike I salute you

[GaryFifer]

Flowers, champange, apology, nice big dinner, new dress, new shoes. He should be grovelling at yer feet and saying sorryyyy.

Wedding vows...To love, to honour.

Tell him what you expect. No pictures of naked women! HES GOT YOU!

If he is sexually frustrated he should talk. A collection of pictures is really wrong. Obviously he does not think you are as naughty as his ex. He is comparing you to her. That is totally wrong. If he had something about his ex that he liked.

He obviously needs something. Why is he sal sal? Don't tell me he not. That why he keep the pictures. He is doing it when you not around I think. Ask him why he needs photos when he has a real wife?

Ask about what he wants. You are his wife, and he if needs rumpy pumpy, he will get it from YOU. Otherwise he is a right ******!

[aphrodite78]

i told him a few days ago after i found the pictures w/a slow voice so that he not get angry to me but he told me his part of his collecting a dirty pictures of his ex what he doing to himand he explain me but its not really a in valid reason and he getting very angry while he explain it to mei cant get rid of him coz we are married but i told him he will going to erase that one???????? but he not answered mehe sound he dont like too....

hi lovelylady,

hi and welcome to the forum. may i ask how long have you been together? have you got kids? my ex british husband was the same and i didn't know that he got an obsession of keeping naked pics of woman (be his ex etc etc) after 3 - 4 mos of us getting married, i went to the spare room and found a vertical file of hundreds and thousands of pics of naked girls. i confronted him which ended up in domestic violence. police we're called etc etc, police showed me other pics that makes you feel so ashamed, obviously everything turned sour, and i never looked back eversince that incident happened, i said to myself good riddance (it's a good thing my kids we're not with me at that time). i am not saying yours will be the same but you need to be really careful, if he can't get rid of it then there is really something wrong; perhaps you need to asess your situation and move on. goodluck.

[monkeyface]

thank u all of u guys for the good opinion hereyes i have fear to him if he get angry but we are married i cant get rid of himi keep upbringing this problem w/ him i got now until forever coz im sure he dont like to erase the ditry pictures cause he love too his very proud with that than me.this my life maybe

Ohhh. I'm sorry to hear that. It really made me sad to hear about your story as if I were in your situation I don't know what I'd so. I hope everything will be sorted out. (HUG)

Take care.xxx

[Tawi2]

Flowers, champange, apology, nice big dinner, new dress, new shoes. He should be grovelling at yer feet and saying sorryyyy.

Wedding vows...To love, to honour.

Tell him what you expect. No pictures of naked women! HES GOT YOU!

If he is sexually frustrated he should talk. A collection of pictures is really wrong. Obviously he does not think you are as naughty as his ex. He is comparing you to her. That is totally wrong. If he had something about his ex that he liked.

He obviously needs something. Why is he sal sal? Don't tell me he not. That why he keep the pictures. He is doing it when you not around I think. Ask him why he needs photos when he has a real wife?

Ask about what he wants. You are his wife, and he if needs rumpy pumpy, he will get it from YOU. Otherwise he is a right ******!

Salsal Heyyyyy,less of that mucky talk He cant be sexually frustrated,he has a 25 year old wife,he cant even keep up with her he is in his late 40's Besides,he shows the pics to his mates,what does that tell you?Ego booster

[Florge]

my bf got rid of his porn dvds when he met me... he doesn't need any woman to fantasize about but me... hehehe...

Lovelylady, I had expected that he will do the same (throw/delete) with the ex gf's pics but he didn't. Oh boy... you need a lot of discussing to do. I agree with gary2jessica.. he obviously needs something and both of you should talk about it.

I do wish that your case won't end up with aphrodite's case before... but, if after all the discussion and things aren't changing... you would have to decide it you are willing to go on with this, or not.

I wish you all the best.

[GaryFifer]

Salsal Heyyyyy,less of that mucky talk He cant be sexually frustrated,he has a 25 year old wife,he cant even keep up with her he is in his late 40's Besides,he shows the pics to his mates,what does that tell you?Ego booster

But there is the key. Why keep them at all?Once you show to your mates for a laugh. then delete? Besides, I am not gonna show you a picture of Jessica ass if I break up with her am I? You just have to get a naked lady- the hard way like I did! I think this topic deserves another thread. PORN- why do men use it. and what affect it has on partners. That would be a eye-opener.

[GaryFifer]

I can just imagine the apology...Over the past months I have forwarded funny pictures and jokes to friends who I thought shared the same sense of humour.

Unfortunately this wasn't the case and I seem to have upset quite a few people who have accused me of being sexist and shallow. If you were one of these people, please accept my humble apologies.

From now on I will only send emails with a cultural or educational content such as old monuments, nature and other interesting structures.

Below, you'll find a picture of the Pont Neuf Bridge in Paris .

For those of you who are interested, Pont Neuf is the oldest bridge in Paris and took 26 years to build. Construction began in 1578 and ended in 1604. 'Le Pont Neuf' is actually made of 2 independent bridges, one with seven arches and the other with five arches.
Fascinating.

[Tawi2]

What bridge

[Sophie]

Below, you'll find a picture of the Pont Neuf Bridge in Paris .

For those of you who are interested, Pont Neuf is the oldest bridge in Paris and took 26 years to build. Construction began in 1578 and ended in 1604. 'Le Pont Neuf' is actually made of 2 independent bridges, one with seven arches and the other with five arches.
Fascinating.

Nice view gary - of the bridge, lol

[Fitzy]

yes sophie ur right and i feel upset to him and only pretend im always ok but its not.yes his he not respect me as his wife.maybe he still want to remember there past coz that is dirty pics what he got now.i hate to think about this coz he keep insist that exs only past but i not told him i found dirty pictures of his ex on pc.im sure he will to say **** OFF

So sorry to hear of this my dear
Is difficult to suggest anything to you, not knowing you guys personally!
If he is abusive towards you, and I hope not, then you have other options open to you!
I assume that you are married, and live in the UK?
Do you have you ILR yet??
I am not suggesting anything at this stage, but if he is being rude to you telling you to Pi** of, then after you get your leave to remain( maybe you already have it) then you can tell him likewise.
I got hurt pretty bad recently also, and NEVER did anything like this to my ex.

Whatever happens in life I wish you all the very best, and as other members have said here, keep you head up, and stick up for yourself, and don't let anyone bully you!!

[eagles]

nice pic gary........ do you have one that shows the front.. not just the ass

[D&G]

I think this topic deserves another thread. PORN- why do men use it. and what affect it has on partners. That would be a eye-opener.

hmnn, i think not only men use or watch porn some women i guess are guilty of using/watching porn...am i right?

[trader dave]

i have all my ex gfs photos and even some movies of them with me..and my wife doesnt mind one bit????

oh i havent told her yet about them

i wonder how jealous and mad she will get..oh i already know the answer,she will go im off to delete them

tell him how you feel,he may of just forgot about them,i had stuff on my pc i never remembered was there even before i met my wife and ask him why he still as them?

funny that i had to delete mine yesterday mrs T has to many spys on here hello you know who you are

[trader dave]

hmnn, i think not only men use or watch porn some women i guess are guilty of using/watching porn...am i right?

many couples watch porn dont you

[pennybarry]

its not only a good pictures of his ex gfs i found its dirty picturesthats why i feel upset to him.i tell him already why he collecting w/that pictures that im his present but he said its part of his collecting i express him how i feel when i found out but he not give me a valid reasoni dont really know what shall i do.if i only found a pictures of his ex thats not a dirty pictures maybe i accept w/that coz that is only his past but dirty pictures is different issue.
i know guys u feel what i feel its hurt coz he not given a valid reason why he collecting dirty picturesthank u to all of u

Whaaat?

Well done that man!

The past should be behind you....not looking at pix of her behind!

Thanks Arturo

I can just imagine the apology...Over the past months I have forwarded funny pictures and jokes to friends who I thought shared the same sense of humour.

Unfortunately this wasn't the case and I seem to have upset quite a few people who have accused me of being sexist and shallow. If you were one of these people, please accept my humble apologies.

From now on I will only send emails with a cultural or educational content such as old monuments, nature and other interesting structures.

Below, you'll find a picture of the Pont Neuf Bridge in Paris .

For those of you who are interested, Pont Neuf is the oldest bridge in Paris and took 26 years to build. Construction began in 1578 and ended in 1604. 'Le Pont Neuf' is actually made of 2 independent bridges, one with seven arches and the other with five arches.
Fascinating.

Good posing eh

What bridge

You appreciate man made views than nature?

[Arturo]

Whaaat?



Thanks Arturo



Good posing eh



You appreciate man made views than nature?

Hi,

I was last in Paris in 1997 - timelined as about 2 weeks before Diana-Gate.

I am a "keen" photographer having worked as a semi pro or freelance and was at one time contracted to supply car pix to magazines.

I have some excellelant views of many places in and around Paris, the shot you show is slighly different from those in my collection.
I dont recall seeing that pontoon when I was there...

[Arturo]

i agree with tawi thats is right u dont need to keep dirty pictures of ur ex gfs its not wife if u have a new wife now and im still young 25.but i live my life with fearness of my husband even im right he keep insist im wrong...thank u

I hate saying this.....but...... if its going pear shaped now over a few pix, its not going to be an happy train ride.

When trust goes..... its downhill from there on.

[Arturo]

many couples watch porn dont you

I have to confess.. I dont watch porn films.

I am not a prude.... I just dont have any!!!