my bf got rid of his porn dvds when he met me... he doesn't need any woman to fantasize about but me... hehehe...

Lovelylady, I had expected that he will do the same (throw/delete) with the ex gf's pics but he didn't. Oh boy... you need a lot of discussing to do. I agree with gary2jessica.. he obviously needs something and both of you should talk about it.

I do wish that your case won't end up with aphrodite's case before... but, if after all the discussion and things aren't changing... you would have to decide it you are willing to go on with this, or not.

I wish you all the best.