So sorry to hear of this my dearOriginally Posted by lovelylady
yes sophie ur right and i feel upset to him and only pretend im always ok but its not.yes his he not respect me as his wife.maybe he still want to remember there past coz that is dirty pics what he got now.i hate to think about this coz he keep insist that exs only past but i not told him i found dirty pictures of his ex on pc.im sure he will to say **** OFF
Is difficult to suggest anything to you, not knowing you guys personally!
If he is abusive towards you, and I hope not, then you have other options open to you!
I assume that you are married, and live in the UK?
Do you have you ILR yet??
I am not suggesting anything at this stage, but if he is being rude to you telling you to Pi** of, then after you get your leave to remain( maybe you already have it) then you can tell him likewise.
I got hurt pretty bad recently also, and NEVER did anything like this to my ex.
Whatever happens in life I wish you all the very best, and as other members have said here, keep you head up, and stick up for yourself, and don't let anyone bully you!!
