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    collecting pictures from ex gfs

    hi i was feel mad when i found my honey still collection ex pictures and i feel he still love them even they gone already on his life its hard for him to erase it.i saw that pictures on his pc when i was using on his pc and i want to confront him but maybe he will get so angry to me all i do is just keep crying:bigcr.what should i do?he still loves her until now or not?i need some help.


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    Tell him to print them off and use them as toilet paper to prove his love to you
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    Old girlfriends?Yesterdays news,I got a few pics of ex-girlfriends but only because of the locations we were in,Pyramids of Ghiza and Taj Mahal,the rest were binned,scrapped,deleted.If it really upsets you that much ask him about the pics,watch,if he loves you a click of the mouse and he will delete them



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    Quote Originally Posted by lovelylady View Post
    hi i was feel mad when i found my honey still collection ex pictures and i feel he still love them even they gone already on his life its hard for him to erase it.i saw that pictures on his pc when i was using on his pc and i want to confront him but maybe he will get so angry to me all i do is just keep crying:bigcr.what should i do?he still loves her until now or not?i need some help.
    Tell him how you feel about this whole thing - him keeping photos of his ex on his pc.........
    Hear him out and weigh if his reasons are valid or not.....from there you decide what you think you should do....
    "10% of life is made up of what happens to you, 90% is decided by how you react"
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    hi lovelylady,

    oh dear sorry u feel upset, but I think the best way is for the two of u to talk, tell him how you feel when uve learned that he's still keeping the pictures of his ex's and compromise what's the best thing to do though for me I dont mind at all if my hubby has a pictures of his ex. Those people has been a part of his life and I cannot change that, and I trust him and I know he loves me that's why he marries me..

    Btw, we've got some thread like yours before maybe you want to read this one:

    http://filipinaroses.com/showthread....eping+pictures


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    I`ve been there and you must be proud of yourself gurl as they`re only ex`s as tawi said confront your bf and talk to him about it.I think that`s one of the pride of most men collecting gf`s photocorrect me if am wrong guys but they`re the past and your the present so dont focus yourself with it instead let your bf feel how lucky he is to have a present gf as nice as can be
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    No Mrs D,I dont keep old girlfriends pics,they were old news,past relationships,transient trysts,BUT working on the premise whats good for the goose is good for the gander LL should get some pics online of pinoy guys,put them in a folder,then show them to hubby,tell him they are YOUR ex's,check out HIS reaction Remember,both persons in a relationship are equal,remind him of that



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    Quote Originally Posted by Tawi2 View Post
    No Mrs D,I dont keep old girlfriends pics,they were old news,past relationships,transient trysts,BUT working on the premise whats good for the goose is good for the gander LL should get some pics online of pinoy guys,put them in a folder,then show them to hubby,tell him they are YOUR ex's,check out HIS reaction Remember,both persons in a relationship are equal,remind him of that
    good advise tawi you`re not one of them then
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    Any woman would be hurt seeing some remnants of the past of the boyfriend.

    Lovelylady, just be strong and take it as a challenge on your part. be that woman who let's him forget his past woman in life


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    Mrs D,if I had a woman who kept pics of Ex boyfriends thats exactly what I would do,collect as many pics as possible of the sexiest women imaginable in various stages of undress,stick them up as my screensavers,then tell my woman they were my Ex's and I need to keep reminders of them Old relationships are just that,history,if your moving on and building a future together you look forward,not backwards



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    Quote Originally Posted by Tawi2 View Post
    Mrs D,if I had a woman who kept pics of Ex boyfriends thats exactly what I would do,collect as many pics as possible of the sexiest women imaginable in various stages of undress,stick them up as my screensavers,then tell my woman they were my Ex's and I need to keep reminders of them Old relationships are just that,history,if your moving on and building a future together you look forward,not backwards
    Indeed Tawi
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    Quote Originally Posted by Tawi2 View Post
    No Mrs D,I dont keep old girlfriends pics,they were old news,past relationships,transient trysts,BUT working on the premise whats good for the goose is good for the gander LL should get some pics online of pinoy guys,put them in a folder,then show them to hubby,tell him they are YOUR ex's,check out HIS reaction Remember,both persons in a relationship are equal,remind him of that
    hi tawi thank u for that advice i appreciate it but i already deleter the person who is past for me coz they not my present anymore.anyway my honey still want to collect and show to anyone of his friend


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    Be strong Lovelady coz you are lovely as you are.Hold your head up high and be proud of yourself.
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    Showing his friends pics of past conquests is kind of disrespectful and indicative of some form of inferiority complex seeking approval from his friends?How old is he?Were his ex's pinays?



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    Quote Originally Posted by kimmi View Post
    hi lovelylady,

    oh dear sorry u feel upset, but I think the best way is for the two of u to talk, tell him how you feel when uve learned that he's still keeping the pictures of his ex's and compromise what's the best thing to do though for me I dont mind at all if my hubby has a pictures of his ex. Those people has been a part of his life and I cannot change that, and I trust him and I know he loves me that's why he marries me..

    Btw, we've got some thread like yours before maybe you want to read this one:

    http://filipinaroses.com/showthread....eping+pictures
    hi kim thanks for this site and i will going to face the reality that maybe that his hobby in life collecting pictures of his ex even its dirty pictures


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    Quote Originally Posted by lovelylady View Post
    hi tawi thank u for that advice i appreciate it but i already deleter the person who is past for me coz they not my present anymore.anyway my honey still want to collect and show to anyone of his friend
    ask your honey why is he still holding on to some of his ex photos???
    if he really loves you, he will consider your feelings........
    and if he respects you enough, he will not just leave all those photo collections of his ex in in plain sight,
    where the chance of you seeing them is very likely.......
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    Pornographic pics Can we see Only kidding But from my point of view thats disrespect,if your happy he treats you like that its fine,if you feel upset,slighted,offended then its showdown time,confront,tell him how you feel,if he loves you he will erase



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    Quote Originally Posted by lovelylady View Post
    collecting pictures of his ex even its dirty pictures
    Oh dear!dirty pictures now that`s a different story you need to smash his pc his naughty naughty
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    Quote Originally Posted by Tawi2 View Post
    Showing his friends pics of past conquests is kind of disrespectful and indicative of some form of inferiority complex seeking approval from his friends?How old is he?Were his ex's pinays?
    yes its pinay 19 and his 48 tawi.i discover that b4 already but i only ignoring that but when ive know he sending pics of his ex to his friends just being proud that he got young b4.but i still young 25 but my point is he not keeping mostly good pictures but its dirty pictures


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    Quote Originally Posted by Sophie View Post
    ask your honey why is he still holding on to some of his ex photos???
    if he really loves you, he will consider your feelings........
    and if he respects you enough, he will not just leave all those photo collections of his ex in in plain sight,
    where the chance of you seeing them is very likely.......
    i feel that he not respect me cause why he cant erase that dirty pictures of his ex then i found it i know he knows as well.he dont have feelings of what i really feel,he love to share to his friend to show off what they doing im just stay silent even i found already what his secret.


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    Quote Originally Posted by lovelylady View Post

    hi kim thanks for this site and i will going to face the reality that maybe that his hobby in life collecting pictures of his ex even its dirty pictures
    Hello lovelady, as I was reading through the post, I'm trying to recall if I ever got mad at my husband when I saw a few pictures of his ex's. I actually did not, and as a matter of fact, we get to talk about them once in a while. I don't see anything wrong with that. I just feel that they were my husband's friends as well as ex lovers. But these pictures are neatly kept, just like all the family photos -- and just a few pieces and certainly not a whole photo album.

    But your last post is a bit alarming... keeping dirty pictures is certainly something else!!!!


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    He is going through a mid-life crisis trying to show his friends he is still attractive to younger women,a 19 year old english "Girl"(and thats what she is) wouldnt even countenance a 48 year old he has a few issues,others may disagree but we all have different viewpoints and experiences,but the relationship your in sounds unhealthy in that he seems to have a distinct lack of respect for you



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    Make sure he doesnt take "Naughty" pics of you I might be reading the latest copy of "Asian babes" one day and see "Lovelylady" centerfold spread



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    Quote Originally Posted by lovelylady View Post
    hi i was feel mad when i found my honey still collection ex pictures and i feel he still love them even they gone already on his life its hard for him to erase it.i saw that pictures on his pc when i was using on his pc and i want to confront him but maybe he will get so angry to me all i do is just keep crying:bigcr.what should i do?he still loves her until now or not?i need some help.

    Hi,

    After reading a few posts...nobody has suggested the obvious solution..... simply delete them all...and dont forget to "empty" Recycle Bin ..or he can simply restore them.

    How to delete: open the folder holding the pictures - click one to select it.
    In the top menu..select EDIT...at the botton select SELECT ALL

    On the left in that panel is a Red cross..double click to delete all.
    OR if no side panel, Right Click the mouse button and select DELETE.

    Double click RECYCLE BIN, Select FILE in top right menu bar, select EMPTY RECYCLE BIN.

    Job done ..now sit back and smile!


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    One problem with that Arturo,LL has already said her husband might get angry,erasing them might cause a row its the obvious solution but it might trigger an adverse reaction,



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    Quote Originally Posted by lovelylady View Post
    i feel that he not respect me cause why he cant erase that dirty pictures of his ex then i found it i know he knows as well.he dont have feelings of what i really feel,he love to share to his friend to show off what they doing im just stay silent even i found already what his secret.
    I suggest you don't keep silent, say something, tell him exactly how you feel...
    If he keeps dirty pics of his ex's to show off to his friends, then clearly he has no respect for women....
    He probably not only shows private photos to his friends, i bet he "kiss and tell" too...
    and share some intimate stuff about his past women that should be kept private in the first place....

    And chances are he might do thesame thing to you....as clearly he got some issues......
    Sorry lovely lady, but i don't have respect and i'm really disgusted with men like this...
    maybe you should think things through.....does this guy deserve you and is he worthy of your love at all........
    Do not let him walk all over you and disrespect you....stand your ground and speak up....you deserve to be treated better.....
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    thank u all guys for some advice here


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    hi artur its easy to deleted them all but i know he still lots of dirty pictures copy that he hide,why some men like this and i hope he not going to send his friends coz i feel embarressed with that coz im his present now then maybe his friends think i only follow what he want that to let him sending dirty pictures of his ex.yes he get very angry im sure coz he said to say me **** off if he get angry


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    Quote Originally Posted by lovelylady View Post
    thank u all guys for some advice here
    If ever the thought of those nude pics on his PC disturb you please feel free to send them all to me,and I will destroy them,even though they may shock me as I havent seen a naked 19 year old since I was in my youth



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    Quote Originally Posted by Sophie View Post
    I suggest you don't keep silent, say something, tell him exactly how you feel...
    If he keeps dirty pics of his ex's to show off to his friends, then clearly he has no respect for women....
    He probably not only shows private photos to his friends, i bet he "kiss and tell" too...
    and share some intimate stuff about his past women that should be kept private in the first place....

    And chances are he might do thesame thing to you....as clearly he got some issues......
    Sorry lovely lady, but i don't have respect and i'm really disgusted with men like this...
    maybe you should think things through.....does this guy deserve you and is he worthy of your love at all........
    Do not let him walk all over you and disrespect you....stand your ground and speak up....you deserve to be treated better.....
    yes sophie ur right and i feel upset to him and only pretend im always ok but its not.yes his he not respect me as his wife.maybe he still want to remember there past coz that is dirty pics what he got now.i hate to think about this coz he keep insist that exs only past but i not told him i found dirty pictures of his ex on pc.im sure he will to say **** OFF


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