Going Public?

[Florge]

ahhh.. she's way too fast for you it seems? explain to her how you explained it to us. be honest with her as she deserves to know also where she stands. my bf didn't go public until after about 4 or 5 months chatting. he has to go public as he will be visiting me for the first time and needs to inform his parents. I also didn't force him to make it "public". But after we met, well... it's a different story as we have decided to be exclusive (if you know what i mean). hope my story helps.

[Northerner]

ahhh.. she's way too fast for you it seems? explain to her how you explained it to us. be honest with her as she deserves to know also where she stands. my bf didn't go public until after about 4 or 5 months chatting. he has to go public as he will be visiting me for the first time and needs to inform his parents. I also didn't force him to make it "public". But after we met, well... it's a different story as we have decided to be exclusive (if you know what i mean). hope my story helps.

Thanks Florge, I don't think she is too fast for me but I am the first westerner she has gone beyond a few conversations with and yes we are commited to seeing each other and taking it to wherever it goes (Tawi2 - leave it). And as her whole family now know me (I have seen most of her family on the webcam and said hello) and it was me who started the conversation as I did not want to go through my facebook one day with a few questions from my sisters who live on that site

She just could not understand why I was keeping it quiet yet at the same time inviting her onto my facebook so that she could get to see my family and friends