Going Public?

[monkeyface]

Hi Northerner,

I understand why Rizza is hurt when you told her no lovey dovey stuff in FB. For her, you are a couple, regardless of being in LDR. I am also certain that she is very proud of you but might feel that the feeling isn't mutual. It is frustrating on her part when she can't make "lambing" to you. To us girls, it is so "kilig" to make "lambing" in public.

I too felt hurt at some point when my boyfriend decided to be listed in a complicated relationship in there. He just said he's not ready to list as a couple yet and that he has always thought of our relationship complicated. He asked me to wait until he is ready but we do normal lovey dovey stuffy in there and he even posted pics of us together.

In my opinion, it is ok to take time in making your relationship public but you should also be mindful of Rizza's feelings. Don't expect that once you explain to her the situation, everything will be ok. At some point, she may again feel frustrated about the situation. Always be there to comfort her and let her know how much she means to you.

Take care.xxx

[Tawi2]

She actually sounds special,and on the ball,sending you the SIM etc is a great idea,it only costs her a peso to TXT you,corrrr,she sounds ok mate to be honest Why cant I find one like that As for your mate who lectured you blah,blah,blah I met loads of guys like that,been no-where and seen nowt,all they know about asia or indeed anywhere in the world is bad publicity like "Me love you long time" rubbish,I once had a fight in the back of a van and hit someone with a hammer because of quips like that(I only deadened his arm a bit,just a bit bruised)but yeah mate,she sounds ok,your lucky

[Tawi2]

People nailing themselves to crosses?I went there years ago to see that,its actually a tourist attraction in San Fernando Plus they dont die,they just "Wilt" a little We only walk down this road once mate,theres no return journey,you cant come back and rectify mistakes,so do what you want to do with your life,be with who you want to be with,be happy
Your mate who gave you the lecture,well,he is living inside his own bubble,walking down his own particular road,living his own lifestyle,its for him,its not for you or maybe it is,but you have to board that plane before your going to find out,we all make shed-loads of mistakes during our transient stay here,but thats the beauty of life,the experiences we have,the things we do,and the people we meet as I always say,its all a game,its how you play it that counts Enjoy your holiday,and dont forget my pasalubong,your allowed to bring 3 buxom 25 year olds back duty-free

[pacificelectric]

When reading this I feel glad I live in a country (France) where 99% of the people have no idea where the Philippines are located and probably imagine the president is Imelda Marcos.... I am 54 and do not give a damn what people around me think, but for my gf in Davao, it is really something to be in a relation with someone she can be proud of. Because I call her everyday over her lunch break (06.30 AM here...) I am famous among her office mates especially since I am not the usual American/Briton/Australian and I just offered her a dermatological treatment for age spots on her cheeks she could not otherwise afford. All of this has made a reputation to me there and of course I will be careful to confirm the good impression when I am there in September....

[Florge]

Why cant I find one like that

oh boy... I was already playing cupid for you

[Northerner]

She actually sounds special,and on the ball,sending you the SIM etc is a great idea,it only costs her a peso to TXT you,corrrr,she sounds ok mate to be honest Why cant I find one like that

Yeah, your right. She is special! Just wished her goodnight after chatting on yahoo and now that I have that sim card she has sent me 9 texts already today Just need to pick up a cheap phone tomorrow

As for your mate who lectured you blah,blah,blah I met loads of guys like that,been no-where and seen nowt,all they know about asia or indeed anywhere in the world is bad publicity like "Me love you long time" rubbish

True, but I introduced him to his wife so I think he always thinks he can fix me up with an english girl

Roll on the next 92 day:sport-smiley-003: